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RE: why - 2/9/2013 3:55:45 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: MasterDontPlay

Everyone has made good points on this subject if it is just for kinks to get u hot and horny that's understandable diffrerent things turn diffrerent people on but when come straight out and say u want someone with racist tendacies to come and take their racist ways out on u and dont mind them treatin u dirt when so many before u fought and died to get out of that type of world it changes how the situation is when you're willing and wanting to reenter that world that's why I say its being discraceful and dishornarable to our ancestors


You mean like being given an education, but using "u" instead of actually being correct and saying "you"?


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RE: why - 2/9/2013 7:07:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		For one thing lady how I choose to spell my words has nothing to do. With the original question or the answer. Choosing. The way I write my words is a whole lot different that choosing to be racially downgraded. I bet u wouldn't walk up to a black man or be on here telling others to call u. Cracker or Whitey or honkey so how am I supposed when I'm searching through profiles and beautiful black woman saying right out the wanna serve racist people and tellin them they'll be their n word slave. Maybe you dont give a damn about that kind of stuff cause it has nothing. To do with u but I do because I'm part of that race that's seeing that bs

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RE: why - 2/9/2013 7:10:55 PM   
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RE: why - 2/9/2013 7:35:22 PM   
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For one thing lady how I choose to spell my words has nothing to do. With the original question or the answer. Choosing. The way I write my words is a whole lot different that choosing to be racially downgraded. I bet u wouldn't walk up to a black man or be on here telling others to call u. Cracker or Whitey or honkey so how am I supposed when I'm searching through profiles and beautiful black woman saying right out the wanna serve racist people and tellin them they'll be their n word slave. Maybe you dont give a damn about that kind of stuff cause it has nothing. To do with u but I do because I'm part of that race that's seeing that bs



Alright black man, first thing. Chill. Next, respect the ladies. Last, learn to frikin spell, it shows how intelligent you are, now how hip you are. As to your points, who the hell cares if you come across a fine black woman's profile and she wants to serve a racist white man. Live with it. She wants nothing to do with you, end of story, move on. That's life. Go on and find the next fine black woman who hopefully has no issue with you as a person. Just a bit of wisdom, kink is all about individuality, not conformity. So what you feel about others doesn't amount to one red cent. Its the reason we here don't judge your kinks and perversions. Think about that next time you look at some of those profiles here

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RE: why - 2/9/2013 7:43:00 PM   
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It's not any different than all of the fine white men who will only serve black women, or the fine white women that only want BBC.

There is nothing disgraceful about it. It's simply a preference.


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RE: why - 2/9/2013 7:51:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarknessReigns4U

For one thing lady how I choose to spell my words has nothing to do. With the original question or the answer. Choosing. The way I write my words is a whole lot different that choosing to be racially downgraded. I bet u wouldn't walk up to a black man or be on here telling others to call u. Cracker or Whitey or honkey so how am I supposed when I'm searching through profiles and beautiful black woman saying right out the wanna serve racist people and tellin them they'll be their n word slave. Maybe you dont give a damn about that kind of stuff cause it has nothing. To do with u but I do because I'm part of that race that's seeing that bs




How you present yourself, does affect how people receive your message. So perhaps if you wish people to take you seriously you would consider that.

You are having issues with how people CONSENT to use ethnic slurs during their personal relationship or play so you turn around and use ethnic slurs towards someone else. Without their consent or desire to with you.

Not the same thing.

Btw...although I wouldn't walk up to a stranger on the street and tell him to call me derogatory names. I do enjoy my partner(s) calling me by a wide range of colorful names. Kinda makes my toes curls. Oh hell, who am I lying to. It does make my toes curl!


ETA: Many ethnic groups face discrimination even today so OP please don't feel like THAT makes you special or unique. It doesn't so no you aren't the only one who understand true racism.


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RE: why - 2/9/2013 8:06:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarknessReigns4U
be on here telling others to call u. Cracker or Whitey or honkey



Actually cupcake, I'm half JAP and half WASP. But, nice try.




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RE: why - 2/9/2013 10:18:07 PM   
Duskypearls


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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

OP,
Race play, is enjoyed by many. Myself included.
It doesn't make me a racist or mean that I don't respect myself or my ethnicity or my people's history. Or anyone else's.

If race play offends you don't participate in it.
If profiles which state they are looking for race play, or a racially based relationship bother you, hide them.
Or have racial or ethnic nicks hide them.


Words only have the power that we give them.
Btw... I know many strong, black men who would say that the word that can't be used due TOS isn't a derogatory term.

Some have told me that calling myself a squaw, is me not respecting my culture or people. Which is silly, because it wasn't a negative word until it was stolen and mis-used.


I'm with you, all the way, LilSquaw. Words, in and of themselves, are completely neutral. The intention behind them may or may not be. Regardless of the "slinger's" intention, it is the receiver, alone, who determines whether they will allow themselves to be negatively impacted by another's words. Those that do, effectively have allowed themselves to be manipulated, i.e., gave their power away...to a fool!

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RE: why - 2/9/2013 10:23:29 PM   
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So if a children's story made mention of a girl as a squaw, would that be horribly politically incorrect nowadays?


Here in America, yes. That's why books such as Uncle Tom's Cabin and Tom Sawyer have been removed from some libraries here.

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RE: why - 2/9/2013 10:36:54 PM   
Duskypearls


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ORIGINAL: Subano

Just like a good spanking, the word means whatever it means to the person receiving it.


Bingo, Subano! The only thing I'd add, if that were my statement, is "...the word means whatever the person receiving it chooses it to mean."

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RE: why - 2/9/2013 10:38:47 PM   
Duskypearls


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Status: offline 		OP, I have an honest question. In your profile you state "...black domination is the best domination." What do you mean by that, and why do you believe that is true?

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RE: why - 2/10/2013 12:28:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterDontPlay
Why do so many blk slaves and subs call themselves the n word to be with racist white masters what's the infactuation with discracing yourself and your race. Our ancestors would be turning in their graves to see how. So many blk women are today can anyone tell me what's going on
This is a kink site, and different kinks tend to be acceptable to different people. I'd venture to say, that the majority of people into racial play, are not racists, or people who hate themselves. You're kind of assuming facts, based on your own comfort with/experience with certain types of play.

I don't do racial play, and stop people who approach me that way immediately. However, I've come a long way, in terms of understanding, especially on a specific adult site, that different strokes work for different folks. It's not really my business, what someone I'm not in a relationship with, gets turned on by.
I hope that helps. M

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RE: why - 2/10/2013 5:23:35 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: Duskypearls

Words, in and of themselves, are completely neutral. The intention behind them may or may not be. Regardless of the "slinger's" intention, it is the receiver, alone, who determines whether they will allow themselves to be negatively impacted by another's words. Those that do, effectively have allowed themselves to be manipulated, i.e., gave their power away...to a fool!


Well said.

It is unfortunate that so many, dominant and submissive people alike, give that power away so easily. The Arpig games were proof of that.


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RE: why - 2/10/2013 6:11:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Did anyone read the "Male Dominant, 32, Black owned, Kentucky" profile before replying? This "African American" has so many racial hang ups they can't even spell out the word black in their OP. I've met clansmen that had less obvious hang ups.

. . . Talk about the kettle calling the pot black. "black domination is the best" . . . really? Seriously, you really wanna' go there my young padawan? You need to get your own racial issues in order before you try and converse with open minded people about it.



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RE: why - 2/10/2013 6:37:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		I see, so this thread opening with a hand wringing statement on how the black women of today are disgracing themselves is a thinly disguised whine on why no one will play with the OP. Got it.

Hey, MasterDontPlay and whoever else you are, learn to write and spell correctly and you might have better luck with the ladies of your choice. Secondly people of all colors see hypocrisy, maybe you come across as being someone they don't want to deal with with your rather narrow views on the subject.

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RE: why - 2/10/2013 6:47:22 AM   
Nelee


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ORIGINAL: MasterDontPlay

Everyone has made good points on this subject if it is just for kinks to get u hot and horny that's understandable diffrerent things turn diffrerent people on but when come straight out and say u want someone with racist tendacies to come and take their racist ways out on u and dont mind them treatin u dirt when so many before u fought and died to get out of that type of world it changes how the situation is when you're willing and wanting to reenter that world that's why I say its being discraceful and dishornarable to our ancestors


lol why are you bringing PC and "our ancestors" into kink, dude? I'm pretty sure ANY people's ancestors are rolling in their graves knowing that we don't have sex with the lights out in missionary position for the sole purpose of procreation. If it's not your thing, I understand (because raceplay isn't my thing either). But that doesn't mean you should talk down on people who enjoy it. Fuck you, dude. You're holding us down more than the kink ever has. With yo ignorant ass.

Bottom line, someone liking raceplay is NOWHERE NEAR the bullshit our ancestors dealt with. You eat a very pointy pineapple for even TRYING to equate the two things just to project your own insecurities.

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RE: why - 2/10/2013 6:49:21 AM   
Nelee


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ORIGINAL: Killerangel

I see, so this thread opening with a hand wringing statement on how the black women of today are disgracing themselves is a thinly disguised whine on why no one will play with the OP. Got it.

Hey, MasterDontPlay and whoever else you are, learn to write and spell correctly and you might have better luck with the ladies of your choice. Secondly people of all colors see hypocrisy, maybe you come across as being someone they don't want to deal with with your rather narrow views on the subject.

lol I saw that too. Op should whine more so that we know who to avoid.

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RE: why - 2/10/2013 6:58:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Nelee

lol I saw that too. Op should whine more so that we know who to avoid.


Which is why I love the message boards...if I find someone interesting on the other side the first thing I do is check to see if they've posted on the boards and what they said. It's a beautiful thing being able to see what they've posted

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RE: why - 2/10/2013 8:09:38 AM   
MasterDontPlay


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Status: offline 		I try to respect everyone's opinios on this sum gave me good answers others got out of context on the subject but I'm done on this subject does anybody know how to delete post

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RE: why - 2/10/2013 8:18:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterDontPlay

I try to respect everyone's opinios on this sum gave me good answers others got out of context on the subject but I'm done on this subject does anybody know how to delete post



You can't delete threads. It will remain and others will undoubtedly respond to it. Like someone mentioned above, it's a great way for anyone who looks at your profile to see how you interact with others. Someone else mentioned how text speak and multiple spelling and grammar errors can make you look. You might want to think about that before you make your next profile. The profile and the posts are the first impression you are going to make on someone. Do you honestly want that impression to be that you are too lazy to spell out the word "you" and spell check it? As to the OP, it's really none of your business what someone else wants to be called in their relationship. When you collar a girl, then you can tell her what to do. Until then, you really need to chill out.

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