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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/9/2013 7:25:55 PM

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 2:22:30 AM

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No DesFIP ...Im often here....I read more than post, thats all :)

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 4:19:54 AM

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Hi

lol.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 5:50:16 AM

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IMO, those who say hi in the introductions are really just advertising their profile and trying to garner attention from the other side of CM.

i posted an introduction just because in my personal point of view it would inappropriate not to do so in a discussion board. I think it's some short of social manners.
At least that's a way to show my respect to the mods and "seniors" here.

Plus sometimes i viewed people's profile who their comments/post attracts me. Not because i'm trying to search for another master or anything, but just because i found it interesting to make relations between the information i found in their statements with the information stated on their profile.

However, instead of posting something, i mostly just read and browse about information regarding the related subject (BDSM) a.k.a learning it.
With my very limited experience (about which i'm still on progress to explore), i think i'm not yet qualified to post information/response about things which i'm not yet fully mastered.

that's why i might seem invisible

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 6:02:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: MissBlueangel

See ...Im more on the other side...but really enjoy reading over here.
However I dont think saying Hi here helps you "sell" your profile over there at all.
Never the twain shall meet ....and all that.
Maybe your right tho

I have been here for years. I have met people from both sides... and true, for some, the twain shall never meet. I have met, dated and had relationships that lasted years with people from both sides. Many people like you haunt both sides and for them it does help expose your profile. Some of us "go shopping" for RT in the intro forums. But many (or most) say hi because they are welcoming you online and they never had intentions to meet you in person. Same is true with the online sex guys on the other side... some wanker from the North Pole says hi solely because he hopes you have cucumbers, lube and a cam.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 6:06:52 AM

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And here was me thinking he wanted a nice cucumber sandwich

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 6:15:44 AM

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And here was me thinking he wanted a nice cucumber sandwich

If someone says "cucumber" and you think "sandwich", you're my kind of foodie baby! You are just adorable, all big blue eyes and huge fluffly orbs of joy.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 6:18:12 AM

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Awwww gosh lol

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 7:21:30 AM

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I guess I've always thought of it as poor form to not introduce myself in a forum after I set up an account. I also introduce myself to the host/ess at a party, or just go say hello if I already know them.

Maybe I'm just old fashioned.

Ah, nono! I do the same! Likewise, once I've introduced myself, I cannot simply fall back into the shadows again. I feel like that is pretty bad form as well.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 8:14:09 AM

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LMAO I have no wish at all to pick a fight with you now nor in the past!

I may not have been on this particular site for years and years, but I believe I have been online enough years on other sites to have an idea of what goes on. : )

That's unfortunate that you feel that way about people. But it is of course your choice.

And again, whatever I may have said....and I don't recall it being barely ever.... was just my humorous observation. But ignoring is no problem. : )

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Esoteric, it's easy to figure out. They say "hi" you write back "hi". They write back "so you busy tonight?". You write back "not really. Just hanging out on the forums. If you wanna join us feel free. It's pretty a pretty fun place". Then you look at their profile. That pretty much says it all. And guess what? They either never write back after you say that or they write back with something that I mentioned.

I've been online for many years and long enough to know the games, the innuendos, the play book. I've pretty much seen it all. There are very, very, very few on here or pretty much any personals site online that is looking for anything with commitment or long term. The net has become the haven of porn.

If you're looking for me to somehow pick a fight with you as you seem to be doing with me lately, you won't get it. I don't argue. I just stop responding.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 8:40:56 AM

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... some wanker from the North Pole says hi solely because he hopes you have cucumbers, lube and a cam.

Are you calling Santa a wanker?????

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 10:57:07 AM

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obviously I'm not the only one who feels that way but whatever. I'm pretty happy with my realistic views. I don't see all of life in a positive, let's all sing kumbya type of way. I call things as I see them and as I have experienced.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 11:15:34 AM

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However, instead of posting something, i mostly just read and browse about information regarding the related subject (BDSM) a.k.a learning it.
With my very limited experience (about which i'm still on progress to explore), i think i'm not yet qualified to post information/response about things which i'm not yet fully mastered.

that's why i might seem invisible

This. I haven't posted since my intro thread for the same reasons. I do lurk on this side often.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 1:09:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissBlueangel

See ...Im more on the other side...but really enjoy reading over here.
However I dont think saying Hi here helps you "sell" your profile over there at all.
Never the twain shall meet ....and all that.
Maybe your right tho

This is, I believe the most active forum, so the most eyeballs, thus more exposure than the intro forum, but I don't really know how well it works in getting more people to look at your profile, I suspect it has some effect, but most people on the other side, I'm guessing are largely confining their searches to local - I checkout profiles of posters who look interesting, but they are seldom feasible partners for various reasons, distance mainly, if for no other reason. I'm more likely to contact someone a little closer, in fact while I look around a bit on the other side, my search criteria it typically confined to a four state area, even though I'm not actually "looking", I'm just looking to see what other freaky people live nearby. I don't think I've tried to contacted anybody in a while, other than to comment on something in their profile or a post.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 4:05:44 PM

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Esoteric, it's easy to figure out. They say "hi" you write back "hi". They write back "so you busy tonight?". You write back "not really. Just hanging out on the forums. If you wanna join us feel free. It's pretty a pretty fun place". Then you look at their profile. That pretty much says it all. And guess what? They either never write back after you say that or they write back with something that I mentioned.

And here I always assumed they were just being polite!

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 4:10:34 PM

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And here I always assumed they were just being polite!

Hi!

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 4:13:23 PM

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I've been online for many years and long enough to know the games, the innuendos, the play book. I've pretty much seen it all. There are very, very, very few on here or pretty much any personals site online that is looking for anything with commitment or long term. The net has become the haven of porn.

If you're looking for me to somehow pick a fight with you as you seem to be doing with me lately, you won't get it. I don't argue. I just stop responding.

I mostly get messages that say I am married too and understand the need for discretion. I give an eye roll before deleting.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 4:21:01 PM

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Speaking for myself, I don't want to run afoul of the norms and protocols on the message boards. I enjoy reading them, but on a different message board they pretty much crucified a poster who used the term "shemale". Message boards might be fun if you're an expert, but not for novices. Just my opinion.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 5:13:24 PM

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I didn't post an intro when I joined the site. I lurked for a little bit. I ended up getting a feel for the people on the site at that time and learned the rules. Then I just sort of jumped in. For me it was just a personal preference. I by nature am a people watcher. I tend to watch and observe a lot more than I choose to interact.

It's always a little bit weird to me when someone on the other side, whom I have never talked to sends me a friend request. As it does on FB, when someone I don't know or is a friend with someone we mutually know, does the same thing. It automatically makes me suspicious ( call me that way by nature).

The only way for me to respond to Hi, is with a Hi. There's absolutely no chance that I'm going to spark up some great profound conversation with a stranger with just that.

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RE: Folk that say Hi on this side - 2/10/2013 5:26:54 PM

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Old, fat, male, hard core, almost no limit bottom seeks well off tops for strictly online play. I'm a Finbottom, and will not respond until tribute is received. Check my profile for my Amazon.com wishli.... oh, shit, I'm not allowed to do that here?

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