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Rochsub2009 -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/10/2013 10:55:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady It seems just a tad out-of-place to me that a person WHO HAS NO PROFILE AT ALL should be instructing someone on how they should be writing and presenting their own?? quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint I agree with what Baroana wrote. Also research the threads that tell you how to make a good profile. How many munches have you attended in the past few months? Also, how many events do you normally attend? Many people find their partners in real life rather than online. When I read your profile I couldn't tell if you want a LTR or just a once in awhile one. You did say you want someone who doesn't ask for money. Does that mean she buys all the toys or are you willing to help purchase toys and the costumes you might expect her to wear? What activities do you do for fun? Movies? Hiking? Tennis? How will a Domme know if you and she are compatible if she has no idea if you and she have something besides BDSM common? I don't have a profile either (well I do, but it's always kept hidden). But that shouldn't prevent me from offering my opinion on someone else's profile, should it?

LadyPact -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/10/2013 11:15:40 AM)
Another vote for getting out and meeting people in the community. I didn't look at your profile, OP, but if a number of people are saying it's not great, a written medium may not be your best bet. Also, I'd drop that photo with a chick in the background that is sort of cut out. A lot of women say they aren't fond of that type of shot. On the profile thing, a lot of women hide their profiles when already in a relationship to cut down on unwanted mail. (Speaking of which, I hope G is doing well.)

poise -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/10/2013 3:21:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady It seems just a tad out-of-place to me that a person WHO HAS NO PROFILE AT ALL should be instructing someone on how they should be writing and presenting their own?? Perhaps it would be more appropriate if someone such as yourself, WHO HAS HAD MANY PROFILES HERE, were to offer up some profile critique instead?

Level -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/10/2013 4:02:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady It seems just a tad out-of-place to me that a person WHO HAS NO PROFILE AT ALL should be instructing someone on how they should be writing and presenting their own?? Perhaps it would be more appropriate if someone such as yourself, WHO HAS HAD MANY PROFILES HERE, were to offer up some profile critique instead? [;)]

Level -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/10/2013 4:08:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady You are putting words in my mouth that were NOT there! I SAID it seemed a tad out-of-place. I never said I have authority over ANYTHING on these boards. If you find my posts offensive, I would not at all be hurt if you put them on ignore. : ) You're going to be talking to yourself, before long.

lizi -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/10/2013 4:11:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Another vote for getting out and meeting people in the community. I didn't look at your profile, OP, but if a number of people are saying it's not great, a written medium may not be your best bet. Also, I'd drop that photo with a chick in the background that is sort of cut out. A lot of women say they aren't fond of that type of shot. On the profile thing, a lot of women hide their profiles when already in a relationship to cut down on unwanted mail. (Speaking of which, I hope G is doing well.) And some of us who aren't looking for anything in particular at the moment but still like joining in on the forums have hidden profiles as well as those who are taken. It has nothing to do with whether I have up a visible profile or not if I can recognize what a good profile is composed of. The OP is asking for help finding a Mistress, his best online tool is his profile and it could use some work. He certainly should consider real life events and meetings for a way to expand his search. quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady It seems just a tad out-of-place to me that a person WHO HAS NO PROFILE AT ALL should be instructing someone on how they should be writing and presenting their own?? I concur that you should offer a suggestion yourself since I remember as well that it seems that you've had a lot of practice writing profiles. Wouldn't that be helpful instead of criticizing others that were answering the OP? You were always big on being helpful in your other incarnations, how about now?

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/10/2013 6:11:42 PM)
@jayc255 I heartily second what DarkSteven said below. You live in the Miami area. There is a large, real-time BDSM community there, probably even a chapter of ClubFEM, although I don't know that for sure. But there are munches and other events where people meet other people, face to face. Find it. Join it. Make friends and maybe find the person you're looking for. I advise you to drop the word "true" from your BDSM vocabulary. It's a loaded word with a bad history of misuse in the BDSM community and tends to set people off, as you might have noticed here. Also, you might reconsider your prejudice against women who do professional BDSM. There are many of them within the community who do it professionally because they LOVE BDSM and, hell, why not get paid for it. Some of my best friends and former playmates have done it professionally. That doesn't mean I paid them. When they played with me, they got to do what they wanted. When they were working, the clients were in charge. quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Okay. jayc255, no offense intended, but you're not at your best describing yourself in writing. Your profile says "I want a Domme", which doesn't say anything about YOU. All you say about yourself is that you're submissive and own a business. Two pics, and one is your cock. Bluntly, you'd do a helluva lot better to just go to munches and parties and meet people there.

MissAsylum -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/10/2013 8:28:23 PM)
You're not important enough to put on ignore. And I did no such thing about putting words in your mouth. You said it was out of place for a person WHO HAS NO PROFILE AT ALL to be giving advice on one. So yes, you did give yourself the authority to determine who can and cannot contribute to the conversation. G'day to ya. [:)] quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady You are putting words in my mouth that were NOT there! I SAID it seemed a tad out-of-place. I never said I have authority over ANYTHING on these boards. If you find my posts offensive, I would not at all be hurt if you put them on ignore. : )

Unsuper -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 1:31:51 AM)
Make money and pretend you're into having it taken from you.

DarkSteven -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 5:24:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Also, I'd drop that photo with a chick in the background that is sort of cut out. A lot of women say they aren't fond of that type of shot. OP, if you do take LadyPact's suggestion, that does NOT mean that you replace it with your other pic! Cock shots don't go over big.

EsotericLady -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 7:32:25 AM)
Roch? YOu can do whatever you wish. I really don't care. : ) quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady It seems just a tad out-of-place to me that a person WHO HAS NO PROFILE AT ALL should be instructing someone on how they should be writing and presenting their own?? quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint I agree with what Baroana wrote. Also research the threads that tell you how to make a good profile. How many munches have you attended in the past few months? Also, how many events do you normally attend? Many people find their partners in real life rather than online. When I read your profile I couldn't tell if you want a LTR or just a once in awhile one. You did say you want someone who doesn't ask for money. Does that mean she buys all the toys or are you willing to help purchase toys and the costumes you might expect her to wear? What activities do you do for fun? Movies? Hiking? Tennis? How will a Domme know if you and she are compatible if she has no idea if you and she have something besides BDSM common? I don't have a profile either (well I do, but it's always kept hidden). But that shouldn't prevent me from offering my opinion on someone else's profile, should it?

EsotericLady -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 7:34:21 AM)
Who has had many profiles here? SAY WHAT????????? LMAO quote: ORIGINAL: poise quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady It seems just a tad out-of-place to me that a person WHO HAS NO PROFILE AT ALL should be instructing someone on how they should be writing and presenting their own?? Perhaps it would be more appropriate if someone such as yourself, WHO HAS HAD MANY PROFILES HERE, were to offer up some profile critique instead?

EsotericLady -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 7:40:14 AM)
I've had a lot of practice writing profiles? Well I guess so, if rewriting mine a few times since I've been here constitutes that. As for offering suggestions to people on their profiles? I rarely do. I figure it's really someone's own business what they put in theirs. So I guess I'm a sock or something now? LMAO quote: ORIGINAL: lizi quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady It seems just a tad out-of-place to me that a person WHO HAS NO PROFILE AT ALL should be instructing someone on how they should be writing and presenting their own?? I concur that you should offer a suggestion yourself since I remember as well that it seems that you've had a lot of practice writing profiles. Wouldn't that be helpful instead of criticizing others that were answering the OP? You were always big on being helpful in your other incarnations, how about now?

EsotericLady -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 7:42:04 AM)
YOU may think of me whatever you like. I am just fine with whatever you decide. :) quote: ORIGINAL: MissAsylum You're not important enough to put on ignore. And I did no such thing about putting words in your mouth. You said it was out of place for a person WHO HAS NO PROFILE AT ALL to be giving advice on one. So yes, you did give yourself the authority to determine who can and cannot contribute to the conversation. G'day to ya. [:)] quote: ORIGINAL: EsotericLady You are putting words in my mouth that were NOT there! I SAID it seemed a tad out-of-place. I never said I have authority over ANYTHING on these boards. If you find my posts offensive, I would not at all be hurt if you put them on ignore. : )

EsotericLady -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 7:49:32 AM)
Interesting how many people are telling the OP what he can and can't have in his profile.... Who he is and who he is not.... Pot calling the kettle black...hmmm

jayc255 -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 7:58:37 AM)
This has been a waste of time.I tried and found out that most of the people on here have no life all they talk about who has a profile who why they use caps and sadly who can respond to any post.Then they fight with each other.I would never respond to another mans post under any condition and I must say I find that to be in good taste interesting.i wish i could delete my post but i seems I can not.My final word and I promise my final word it appears the ladies on here who think that because there is another lady in the background in my pick is a terrible thing should know that there have been other ladies in my life and there will be in the future.I do not give a fuck if that offends you.This appears to mostly offend the ugly ones . lol Jay

Hillwilliam -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 8:02:03 AM)
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MissBlueangel -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 8:07:32 AM)
Im sure thats been put up a few times...but Im kind of new...I havnt seen it May I snort and snigger please

msjustlooking -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 8:14:00 AM)
BINGO! [:D] LOL I had forgotten how much fun this place is.

Hillwilliam -> RE: How to find a Mistress (2/11/2013 8:14:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissBlueangel Im sure thats been put up a few times...but Im kind of new...I havnt seen it May I snort and snigger please You can not only snort and snigger, you can steal it if you want.

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