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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/10/2013 10:41:15 PM

littlewonder

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For me that ONE man is the important one for me. If he feels I need to lose weight (which I knew and agree with because I hated it as much as him), then I lose the weight. So yeah, that one man, his thoughts mean everything to me.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/10/2013 11:28:50 PM

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When I was 140, I was 5'11". That was not plump. I'm certainly more than 140 now and still am not plump. I guess height has a lot to do with it.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 1:11:41 AM

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HELLO !!! That is not plump that is hot . Guys are never plump we just fat . all my weight is in the gut and always will be or at least till I get rid of it .

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 3:53:34 AM

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Now, if someone comes up with a way to make some of my tummy migrate to my boobs, I'll keep the extra 25 lbs and won't utter a single complaint.

What about your back? I gotta think an extry 25 carried that high would mess thing up, no?

And I do agree with the view that lifestyle and (out)look or feel(ings) matter much more than the numbers themselves.

It certainly can be rough on the back, but you get used to it. Working out to get the underlying muscles strong helps a great deal. You do have to run very carefully.

Do surgeons not take belly or ass fat and turn it into boob fat? Would anyone like some of mine?

Edited to add: I'm pretty sure I don't have 25 pounds of boobage though.

Lol see I'm the opposite, take some of the boobs and turn it into butt!

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 3:54:57 AM

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For me that ONE man is the important one for me. If he feels I need to lose weight (which I knew and agree with because I hated it as much as him), then I lose the weight. So yeah, that one man, his thoughts mean everything to me.

^ this.

If he cared, which he doesn't then I think I would be far more concerned than I am. I just try to be as healthy as possible. I can live with where I am at, as long as I know I am making healthy choices.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 4:11:53 AM

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I am 5 foot 5 and the dr said I should weigh anywhere from 135 to 140. I wouldnt consider 140 to be plump, automatically.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 4:12:29 AM

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At 140 i thought i was overweight - because my butt was a size bigger than my boobs. If i had looked objectively at my mum, i would have realised that was normal for me and not worried about it. Now - 140 is anorexicly underweight. If i could get within shouting distance of 140 i would be tickled pink!
and apart from the thickness across my midsection i think i look fairly good. ,,,,, or so my sweetie tells me.

However, i get by on my winning personality and charm, not so much on my looks - and I have had a ball at where i am, and not so much at 140. Oooh, i love being 55 - it absolutely rocks in the self confidence realm!

I wouldn't be 140 and in my 20's or 30's for all the tea in China.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 7:12:05 AM

EsotericLady

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I believe THIS is what really upsets you!

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ORIGINAL: Baroana

he also failed to compliment my beauty (or hers) in any way during the conversation.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 7:14:06 AM

Baroana

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Clarification:

I am fully aware that for my height, 140 is overweight.

But PLUMP??? Fuck that!

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 7:19:44 AM

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I don't know if I'd be offended enough to block someone, for calling his ex plump. 140lbs is not plump, unless you're 4' tall. I'm not that sensitive about other people's opinions of my size, so don't fight about it much.

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EsotericLady
I believe THIS is what really upsets you!

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ORIGINAL: Baroana

he also failed to compliment my beauty (or hers) in any way during the conversation.

I kind of agree. Maybe minor issues showing up?
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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 7:22:48 AM

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I think past perspective has a lot to do with it too. I grew up in a very health and weight conscious household, and when I graduated from college I weighed 118 - at 5'9". After 2 kids I went up to a size 12....then went down to an 8. Then up to a size 14...then back down to a very fit 8 because I was running 2-3 times a day (had no idea that my energy and 1-2 hours of sleep a night meant I was manic). After my bipolar diagnosis, I was put on all sorts of meds and gained 65 pounds in 6 months. They changed some meds, I lost about 12 pounds, but those meds killed my thyroid so I gained it back. Got depressed, quit caring, got up to 212 (yikes!!!)

Right now I am just under the "shop in the big girls' dept" cusp, but I am working on it. It is sooooooooo much slower than it used to be thanks to meds and thyroid, but I am working on it. I have realized that I will likely never be a single digit size again unless I want to obsess for the rest of my life. My goal is a fit size 10-12.

The funny thing is, friends I have who have always struggled with weight think I look great; friends who have always been thin support my losing weight because they want me to be healthy. Honestly, after being thin for most of my life without trying, I had to really work on being ok with what I saw in the mirror.

Beauty is very subjective.

BTW...you aren't the only one who gets jerk mail, rest assured. Last week I got a one word message: fat. I was bored, so I wrote back that I'm working on it with a wink smiley. He wrote back, stop eating, idiot. I wrote back a pretty educated explanation of fats, carbs, metabolism, the most effective way to lose weight, blah blah....and why "stop eating" was actually not good advice (he didn't realize that I grew up with a wellness/exercise physiologist for a parent). I also told him the only reason I responded was because I was bored and educating arrogant asshats amused me. He didn't write back - guess I was too much woman for him in more than one way

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 7:30:23 AM

Aileen1968

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I was 140 pounds when I was nine months pregnant.
Height has everything to do with it. I'm five feet tall and if I was 140 now, I'd be very overweight.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 8:31:52 AM

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FR

I am the perfect weight, just the wrong height.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 8:58:59 AM

theshytype

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FR

I am the perfect weight, just the wrong height.

This is cute!

It depends entirely on each specific person, their height, AND their frame. If I were to weigh any less (I'm 5'7" at 145), I'd be too boney. Someone else with a small frame but same height could be much less. I rely on the height/weight charts that take frame size into consideration because they seem pretty accurate. I like this one (it even tells you how to calculate which frame size you are):

http://www.healthchecksystems.com/heightweightchart.htm

Also, people my height who aren't "plump" can weigh more. Especially if they're packin in the boobage area - which I am not.
There's really just too many factors to say one weight is plump.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 9:05:32 AM

EsotericLady

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(Grabs BlkTallFullfig and drags her back into the forum.)
If I can't run, neither can you! LOL

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

he also failed to compliment my beauty (or hers) in any way during the conversation.

I kind of agree. Maybe minor issues showing up?
***runs and hides*** M

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 9:39:53 AM

Baroana

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Of course I have issues, as do most women. I don't want anything to do with a man so dumb that he uses the P word when he should be well aware of the implications.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 10:06:07 AM

Baroana

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quote:

ORIGINAL: theshytype

quote:

ORIGINAL: frazzle

FR

I am the perfect weight, just the wrong height.

This is cute!

It depends entirely on each specific person, their height, AND their frame. If I were to weigh any less (I'm 5'7" at 145), I'd be too boney. Someone else with a small frame but same height could be much less. I rely on the height/weight charts that take frame size into consideration because they seem pretty accurate. I like this one (it even tells you how to calculate which frame size you are):

http://www.healthchecksystems.com/heightweightchart.htm

Also, people my height who aren't "plump" can weigh more. Especially if they're packin in the boobage area - which I am not.
There's really just too many factors to say one weight is plump.

All the more reason why the guy in the op was a moron for phrasing the comment the way he did.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 1:44:21 PM

littlewonder

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I think the man was maybe trying to be polite by saying plump instead of fat. Everyone seems to have their trigger words so for you it could have been one of yours while he saw it as being polite.

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 2:30:14 PM

xLaChienne

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Weight for women is a no go zone when first talking to someone.

It could be that he was trying to compliment you or reassure you that he didn't mind plump or was, in fact, attracted to it. There are many socially inept people on the internet and let's be honest, women tend to have many more body issues than men. I'm honestly glad I am not a man because I couldn't deal with the constant and persistent insecurity that women, in general, tend to espouse.

I'm not sure why you would let it piss you off? His, and quite bluntly, most of societies standard isn't going to be your standard. Why take it personally?

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RE: Sorry, I just have to vent! (Warning: Weight Thread) - 2/11/2013 2:47:56 PM

LafayetteLady

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

For me that ONE man is the important one for me. If he feels I need to lose weight (which I knew and agree with because I hated it as much as him), then I lose the weight. So yeah, that one man, his thoughts mean everything to me.

I'm just curious....what if he wanted you to lose the weight and you felt that you looked good and were comfortable with your weight?

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