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My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 4:16:47 AM   
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Please read this. I truly 100% beleive that this can be used as a control method over me. I know it's unusual but the feelings I have are so strong.

Any feed back would be greatly received. My main question is: Would a Mistress tolerate this, and use it over me?

For whatever reason I have never eaten sandwiches. I don’t know why this is, even as a kid I wouldn’t take them to school or anything. I would eat my lunch and watch girls eating there sandwiches. This went on all the time and I became fascinated with females eating sandwiches.

This, over time grew in to a state of mind where I now associate sandwiches to women. Whenever I see a woman who I think is attractive I immediately picture her with a sandwich and get aroused by the thought.

I lost my hair when I was young through alopecia and had confidence issues when ‘chatting up’ women. This obviously meant I spent a lot time on my own to satisfy my sexual needs so it wasn’t long before I started to create scenarios in my head. I found myself becoming more attracted to women who I’d seen eating or making sandwiches. I know that everyone does but the correlation between a women and a sandwich was now so big in my head that a sandwich was fast becoming a symbol of sexy women to me.

Fantasies were now developing of domination, I dreamed of going down on a woman while she had a sandwich or being ordered to make a sandwich for her before I could make love to her. The nonstop fantasies and ideas I was creating were blowing my mind and getting more and more adventurous. As I was still a virgin I’d crave at what it felt like to be in a women and it wasn’t long before I had the idea, the link between a women and a sandwich was obvious. I buttered two slices of bread and wrapped them tightly together in cling film and then cut an entry at one end. Then looking at porn I would masturbate using a sandwich as a simulated vagina. The sensation was amazing and the domination fantasies grew even more, suddenly I wouldn’t refer to a vagina as a vagina; to me it would be ‘my sandwich’ the part of a female who would only let me eat her sandwich if I’d been good.

Even though I found masturbation like this arousing and stimulating I still kept the thought that a woman would use this to control me, if I’d been good then she’d let me have a sandwich while she watched. All of a sudden, the power of a woman with a sandwich was dominating me uncontrollably.

It’s from here that my cross dressing started, I love fetish Latex, PVC and Leather. Naturally I associated cling film with sandwiches as that’s what people wrap them up in to carry. I started to use of cling film on me like a condom to stop dribbling everywhere when I was playing and then I started to make nappies by wrapping it around myself. The idea then grew on me of this dominating woman making me act like a women, it was a strange experiment but I actually wrapped the cling film around my legs and waist to make a skirt, then up and down each leg to make stockings. I was actually making clothes from cling film.

Since then my fantasy has grown and grown and my dream to be owned by a woman who would have me as their little fetish girl to serve and tend to them is something I’d very much like to become a reality.
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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 5:22:29 AM   
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Lemme sum this up: You've got a lot of fantasies.

First thing you gotta realize is that there's nothing different under the sun. With that out of the way, baldness is nothing new. What IS new is that a lot of men shave their heads bald. It's kind of a "bad boy" thing. While that's not the image you want, it's a common look. So quit saying that you have social anxiety and get out there.

You need to go to local munches and play parties. Meet people, have an outlet to talk about who you are and what you like, and watch other people play. And eventually meet play partners. You've got a whole bunch of fetishes that you need to try - maybe you'll like them, maybe you won't. try 'em and see.

Go get 'em.



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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 6:46:04 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
Lemme sum this up: You've got a lot of fantasies.
You need to go to local munches and play parties. Meet people, have an outlet to talk about who you are and what you like, and watch other people play. And eventually meet play partners. You've got a whole bunch of fetishes that you need to try - maybe you'll like them, maybe you won't. try 'em and see.

Go get 'em.
I agree with this. I highly recommend meeting people, attending play parties, to get these desires/fetishes/fantasies out of your system, or well cultivated. Otherwise, you may encounter lots of difficulty getting 'her done without paying for the learning/experience. M

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 9:39:52 AM   
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I'd make you get a job at Subway... at least forty five hours a week.

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 10:02:04 AM   
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=msNPzdT9_y0

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 10:19:16 AM   
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I'd make you get a job at Subway... at least forty five hours a week.

Oh man!!! He'd constantly have a woody then!!! Well, that, and a regular income too.

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 10:20:27 AM   
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=msNPzdT9_y0



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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 10:28:46 AM   
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OP, it's not a fetish of Mine. The closest I get is enjoying the ability to give orders to tell someone to get Me a sandwich (or snack of My choice) after sex.

With that out of the way, in the "somebody just had to say it" category........

Have you read the potato crisps guy? I mean, doesn't everybody enjoy a few potato chips with a sandwich?


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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 10:56:59 AM   
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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 11:15:51 AM   
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With that out of the way, in the "somebody just had to say it" category........

Have you read the potato crisps guy? I mean, doesn't everybody enjoy a few potato chips with a sandwich?



Immediately thought of that thread. Still a CollarChat classic.

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 11:48:44 AM   
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Seems like a benign fetish, sandwiches.

If the OP walked down the street in NYC during lunch hour and looked in the windows of restaurants, it would be a veritable peep show for free.

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 11:59:53 AM   
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If you have to op make you a sandwich, avoid the mayonaise OK.

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 2:09:58 PM   
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You might want to avoid the hot dog too







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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 2:11:40 PM   
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awwww...after that I'd name him Meatball.

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/11/2013 9:40:12 PM   
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All kidding aside, if you want a dominant woman...you're going to have to look at us as women!! Not just what WE can do to turn YOU on. See dommes are kind of selfish we like it our way. You may get a sandwich involved but as LP said its likely to be after whatever she wants.
Allopecia is actually a plus for some women that HATE hairy men. It saves on waxing & skin is smoother...so use that as a selling point! If I can be attracted to guy that decided to compensate for his by tattooing his head & adding lizard bumps where eyebrows should be because he's a great guy, anything is possible.

Is it also possible you weren't allowed sandwiches as a kid because of thinking that wheat & allergies caused hair fall out? Know its now proven scientific crap now but those answers came from somewhere.


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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/12/2013 2:11:33 AM   
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I have this thing in my head where I'm a servant fetish girl for my Mistress and for every 1 orgasm she may let me have I must repay her with 10. If I do well she would reward me with a sandwich knowing that as my orgasm debt to her grows I will have to work very hard with my tongue to satisfy my Mistress as and when she desires. Then the catch 22 is, if I peform well with my tongue I will be rewarded with a sandwich, so whatever orgasms I've just payed back are instantly added back to my debt plus a few more...

Naturally as a servant to my Mistress I must do many other things as well to make her happy.


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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/12/2013 3:26:05 AM   
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Well you are lucky that eating sandwiches and receiving oral sex are two things that many women enjoy. Your kink is likely to be an easy one to indulge and I imagine very few people will have sandwiches as a hard limit.

But don't forget that you've spent a long time building up these fantasies in your head, and reality rarely works in the same way. You need to have a good long think (preferably after you masturbate so you don't get side-tracked into sandwich-land) about what you are offering in this arrangement. If you are going to submit to someone, you have to be willing to follow their orders and indulge their kinks. Most dominants will happily give their sub a bit of their favourite things, but most of the time it goes the dominant's way, so if you don't get some degree of pleasure from actually serving and submitting, you may not really want a Mistress.

For example: Imagine I'm the Mistress. We have a weekend together. During that time, I would like to have you make me a hot meal, wash up, run me a bath, rub my feet and then watch some movies with me. Maybe I'll send you to buy me ice cream. Then I'd like to go shopping, and when we get home you can tidy the house. Sex time - I want to role play that I'm a sexy enemy spy and I've captured you. This will involve some pain play and me dumping cold water over you, because that turns ME on. Then we snuggle and the next day at lunch time I decide to treat you by having sandwich-related-funtime. See how it's about YOU serving ME and when I do your thing, it's because I WANT to treat you. Be honest with yourself - would you be happy with that? Would you be able to enjoy serving and doing the dominant's bidding? Or would you just be going through the motions and constantly asking about when it was your turn?

I mention this because you give me the impression of someone who is looking to act out a very specific fantasy and that fantasy is crowding everything else out of your head. You are unlikely to find someone else who is as excited by this as you are, so you need to make sure you don't lose sight of the other person's desires and needs. If my husband suddenly developed a clown fantasy, you will find me buying giant shoes and practicing face-painting, because I care about him and my needs are being met. If you want to do this specific fantasy, you need to get someone to care about your pleasure. That might be a Mistress who is getting such excellent service from you she wants to reward you. It might be a good friend who does it in exchange for you acting out a fantasy for her. It might be someone who does it for you in exchange for money or chores.

This should be an easy one. Be a great person, give something back and you WILL get to act out your fantasies.

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/12/2013 3:50:03 AM   
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Athena... I just need to say that you give great advice.. In a very kind and understanding way. I always look forward to reading what you write.

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/12/2013 4:15:42 AM   
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This, over time grew in to a state of mind where I now associate sandwiches to women. Whenever I see a woman who I think is attractive I immediately picture her with a sandwich and get aroused by the thought.




God bless the op....if I lol any harder I might crack a rib.

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RE: My Sandwich Fetish - 2/12/2013 10:57:41 AM   
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I know the OP is dead serious, but this thread is so frickin funny too!!! Where is that Yahoo IM man rolling on the floor laughing when I need him???

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