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ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

....I also recommend joining some Fetlife groups in those areas and poking around on the forums for more information.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

For Vegas, you're looking for a joint called the Green Door. It's the BDSM club in the city. You may want to contact them before your trip so that you know their dungeon rules, schedule, etc before your trip.

For LA, you are looking for a place called the Lair. Kane and his girl are both members here. Again, contact in advance because they do have some membership requirements.

San Fran I'm not as familiar but I'd bet dollars to doughnuts that you could find a line on what you are looking for by stopping by the Eagle down in the Castro. The Eagle is a bar, rather than a club, but you can't swing a dead cat there without hitting a kinky person who can give you the info that you need.