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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/14/2013 9:01:33 PM   
AnonymouseTC


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If memory serves this is usually the charge leveled on a mistress (especially in the south). A certain country singer is being sued for financial damages under this
Gotta love the "she stole my man defense"


Close, that's actually more of an "alienation of affection" claim where you go after the cheating party's SO. Those causes of action have been written off the books in the vast majority of states and even in the few places it's still allowed it's almost never pursued (but there are, of course, exceptions).

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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 12:21:50 AM   
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Christ! Thank the heavens that My men understand that sexual gratification isn't the end all/be all of life.



I am curious to learn what they do think is the end-all, be-all of life.



Scrabble, perhaps?


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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 9:22:31 AM   
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All law derives from Common Law, and Common Law is simply what the "reasonable person" considers Just.

Given that, I'm confident a strong case could be made.

After all, we commonly award monetary damages in accident cases to spouses who have been denied
the consolation of sex due to the culpable party's malfeasance.

And yeah, I got my law degree by mailing in boxtops.

Just playing with ideas here.


Most states no longer recognize Common Law.


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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 9:32:31 AM   
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I am curious to learn what they do think is the end-all, be-all of life.



Scrabble, perhaps?


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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 11:39:06 AM   
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My ex didn't enjoy receiving oral sex. I believe he had been bitten by a previous girlfriend. He knew I was pissed with him when I stopped folding his laundry.



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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 12:52:10 PM   
outlier


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Status: offline 		BJs were not uncommon 20 years ago.  That was 1993. 

The movie Deep Throat came out in 1972.  After that many women
took it to be a significant accomplishment to be able to replicate it.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0068468/

Speaking as one of the beneficiaries of this cultural shift. Bless them for it.

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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 1:01:48 PM   
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A marriage ends when one person stops trying.


Actually, there's a heartbreaking period during which one partner tries to keep it going all by himself/herself before it officially ends.



Sadly...you are absolutely right. My ex stopped trying but wanted to stay married...For 3 years, I kept trying and kept it going & he was perfectly happy with that. Things ended the day I no longer tried...then it got ugly.

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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 1:53:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: descrite
I am curious to learn what they do think is the end-all, be-all of life.



Scrabble, perhaps?


[sits, unblinking, awaiting answer, eager and mystified]
Family.




Thank you, LP.

Sex may make the world go round, but love is what makes it a kinder, gentler place. In my mind, being absorbed in sexual gratification is a sign of immaturity. Understandable in those in their 20s, those in their 40s, not so much.

As usual, people's comment say so very much about them.





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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 2:10:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		my relationship didn't end because i stopped giving him blow jobs. it ended because he thought some casual sex was worth more than what he had. you stop getting blow jobs when you stick it in some home wrecking skank.

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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 2:36:09 PM   
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A marriage ends when one person stops trying.


Actually, there's a heartbreaking period during which one partner tries to keep it going all by himself/herself before it officially ends.

indeed. the point where you're told asking for a hug means you've gone all needy and when giving a consensual blow job turns into 'you assaulted me' the next day, that it's definitely over.

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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 2:53:42 PM   
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Really? Because she quits sucking cock?

Tell Me you are a better, less selfish man that that.

Seriously. that's your basis for the end of a marriage?

Christ! Thank the heavens that My men understand that sexual gratification isn't the end all/be all of life.

In My experience, men who treat the woman well don't have this issue.

I would like to thank you, greatly, for reminding Me, yet again, what the definition of a *good* man really is.






What LadyP said.

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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 5:35:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I took the joke to mean that when she stops, SHE doesn't want to be marrried anymore.
And then I remembered I have an oral fixation.
Never mind.

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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/16/2013 8:35:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yuppers, no cock sucking (or pussy licking) is sure sign. The marriage usually ends long before the divorce takes place.

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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/17/2013 9:17:37 AM   
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Resident Sadist: The marriage usually ends long before the divorce takes place.


Truer words never spoken.

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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/17/2013 9:35:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just to put another spin on the "when the bj's end the marriage is functionally done"....

Instead of using the act as a marker of the end of the marriage, how many women WANT to give a bj to a man they don't want to be with?

If you don't want him anymore, are you going to initiate a blow job? Seriously?

That'd have me gagging before the pants got dropped.

BJ's might not occur for a myriad of reasons, but most definitely the impending end of a relationship is one of those reasons.



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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/17/2013 10:16:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Call me crazy, but I look at it the other way.

I get a great BJ, and I want to mow her lawn, check the pressure in her tires and need for an oil change, paint the bathroom, wonder how her kids will afford college tuition...

PxC


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RE: Very Disappointed Day - 2/17/2013 7:52:19 PM   
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A marriage ends when one person stops trying.


Actually, there's a heartbreaking period during which one partner tries to keep it going all by himself/herself before it officially ends.


Well said.

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