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OsideGirl -> RE: love and respect (2/15/2013 8:44:22 PM)
Well said!

TAFKAA -> RE: love and respect (2/15/2013 9:05:32 PM)
Stop whining. The behaviour of random women you don't know is fucking irrelevant. Your diatribe is the product of a weak personality. You fail to understand that a woman bends to the will of a man through virtue of his character, not through any intrinsic right - divinely bestowed or otherwise. Interspersing your crap with scriptural quotes is nonsensical and does nothing to strengthen whatever point you might be trying to make.

DesFIP -> RE: love and respect (2/15/2013 9:38:14 PM)
Thankfully I'm a Reconstructionist Jew and the nonsense of some random Christian who thinks going to church on Sunday is all he needs to be a good person doesn't matter two cents. Question op, do you treat your mother the way you treat every female on this site?

littlewonder -> RE: love and respect (2/15/2013 9:46:38 PM)
quote: "It's easy for someone dead to be perfect. They aren't around anymore to make mistakes." One of my favorite quotes. I would repeat that to myself for years after my husband died so I didn't make the mistake of comparing or holding him on a pedestal. He was just as human as anyone else, flaws and all. I didn't want to give a future partner some kind of complex over it. I rarely even now talk about him except usually when we're joking about something or when I'm talking to my daughter about stuff. I'm really glad Master doesn't mind and even is glad that I still remember him. If I ever started thinking of him in the same way though I would hope he would tell me to shut the fuck up. lol It's not fair to either party.

DarkSteven -> RE: love and respect (2/15/2013 11:17:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LordKonstantine What they really want to hear is "Yes Dear"....., Actually, one of the generalizations I will cheerfully apply to women is that they all value conversation. Some of them want a man who will primarily listen, some like to hear their man's voice, but a man with good conversational skills will interest women.

needlesandpins -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 1:10:54 AM)
walks up, wrinkles nose, gives pot a stir.....yep, crock of crap. here's the thing on 'nagging' women. it's not a lack of respect on her part, it's the fact that she asked the guy to do something and he said yes, but then still hasn't done it. ok so the guy may need a military written operation style list of exactly when it needs to be done and how, but i'm of the opinion that if i ask for something to be done just get it done. if you have any respect for your woman she shouldn't have to ask more than once. so why not look at your own behaviour first. my ex constantly not doing things that needed doing, and then me having to pick up the pieces afterwards to fix the problems created by that is one of the things that made me lose respect for him. i don't give anyone any extra respect outside of you being a person, and thus me having manners. you want anything over and above that then you have to earn it. your double standards are appauling. you'd expect her to do something you asked for without being asked more than once, then do same for her and you won't get asked more than once. very simple really. i'm sick of the people in my life that expect me to be a certain way with them, but they don't behave that way with me. needles

Level -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 3:41:44 AM)
FR I don't agree with much of what the OP wrote, but I don't think he did too bad a job of recovering, and pointing out that this is his opinion, as opposed to someone trying to denounce anyone disagreeing with him.

lilcracker -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 7:32:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LordKonstantine I see it all the time, females want to be cherished, loved and appreciated by that one dom/master who they can submit to. If that is what you truly want, women, stop being bitches! Men shut down when they are not respected, they take their love and bury it. If you truly want a man to love you and give you the attention you crave, respect him. Not in the way you recognize respect, but in the way he recognizes respect. Thank him for providing for you, protecting you, leading you. When men are disrespected, they shut down, turn off etc. When women dont feel the love, they disrespect a man. It keeps going around and around in a crazy circle. We are both hard wired like that. Ladies, if you want your man to "get it", you need to "get it" too. A womans place is in the home, submitting to her man, and being respectful. The bible orders men to love their wives, it does not order them to respect their wives. Because men show respect when given respect. The bible also orders women to submit and respect their their husbands, not to love their husbands. Because women are hard wired to love naturally. They are the nurturers and caregivers. Its their job to love and care. If a soldier is willing to die for his battle buddy on a field of combat, yet will walk away from a contentious woman, what does that tell you? No greater love hath a man than to lay his life down for another. Men reciprocate love thru their respect, a woman who is mean, mouthy, disrespectful, demeaning, complaining, etc.... will get no love from her husband. He will just walk away and say, "I dont need this shit". Women if you want men to treat you the way you want to be treated, treat them that way first. Good Grief Charlie Brown!

thishereboi -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 7:52:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt [sm=jerry.gif] It's Friday isn't it? Is it a full moon too? Read the profile but first swallow any liquid you might be drinking.

kiwisub12 -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 8:18:40 AM)
I enjoy a good bible quotation - because any twit with an opinion can make any arguement for any thing using the bible. having said that, for me several things the OP said rang true. But bless his heart (don't you just love that Southernism!), he isn't very good at communicating in a positive way. And he forgot about all those people who don't subscribe to his personal ethos. I would have issues with him because i'm not adoring anyone until i know them and know them well - well enough to trust them. As for staying home and patiently waiting until the lord and master comes home for me to adore? Pheff - not happening here. I have a life and a job that i for the most part enjoy, and i'm not abandonning it and my financial security because it makes my lordandmaster more secure. Unless he makes enough to support his slave and puppy in the now and in their old age, i would be asking him hard questions if i was thinking of moving in. Fantasy is great, but not living in poverty in your old age is better.

Notsweet -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 9:23:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level FR I don't agree with much of what the OP wrote, but I don't think he did too bad a job of recovering, and pointing out that this is his opinion, as opposed to someone trying to denounce anyone disagreeing with him. I think there's a serious lack of opportunity to just say what's on your mind without people taking it personally, getting insulted, and being insulting. I agree that it's refreshing to see that the OP isn't coming on to denounce anyone else.

MissKittyDeVine -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 11:07:26 AM)
FR. I am a woman, but I am not submissive. I never will be submissive. Even those women here who are submissive are not YOUR subs, OP. None of us are obliged to subscribe to your worldview or dynamic. If it works for you, fine, but do not generalise that that is how we should all live. Thanks for the giggle. You wouldn't last five minutes trying your masterly act on any of the women here, subs or dommes. goes away and has hysterics at the thought of OP trying to dom LadyPact, to name but one

theRose4U -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 11:19:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LordKonstantine Another who just doesnt get it. And, I doubt ever will..... Instead of getting defensive about it, why dont you look at for what it really is? Look at how each persons behaviour affects the others. Or does your pride keep you from doing that? Here is a mirror & bless your lil heart. Not every relationship fits your narrow view of life! But bless your heart for thinking so, it keeps mysoginy alive & well.Considering my partners are the ones that clean & do all the dishes because I enjoy cooking that would be 2 restrictions out the window. They also have been C-level execs of publically traded companies & look HOT on their hands & knees hand polishing my hardwood floors. Imagine if you can a man that realizes a womans pleasure is far more diverse than laying back for 2 minutes while a man grunts & does push ups!! But hey its women like you seek that invented the fake orgasm, so its easy to see where you have been mis-informed...bless your heart[8\|]

DesFIP -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 11:34:53 AM)
The funniest part of his profile comes in the journal entry where he uses stockade while meaning a pair of stocks. But basically, he's all hat, no cattle.

theRose4U -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 11:40:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP The funniest part of his profile comes in the journal entry where he uses stockade while meaning a pair of stocks. But basically, he's all hat, no cattle. Normally I call that all boot & no cattle but this much poo had help getting here

TNDommeK -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 12:45:53 PM)
I'm so glad there are southern men who aren't like this. [8\|] LW when you talked about a southern preacher holding snakes, I instantly thought of a Squidbillies episode where Early Kyler was holding snakes and spitting jibberish. Funny as hell.

needlesandpins -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 12:58:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP The funniest part of his profile comes in the journal entry where he uses stockade while meaning a pair of stocks. But basically, he's all hat, no cattle. that is just hillarious! so stolen. needles

OsideGirl -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 2:27:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level FR I don't agree with much of what the OP wrote, but I don't think he did too bad a job of recovering, and pointing out that this is his opinion, as opposed to someone trying to denounce anyone disagreeing with him. Actually, I disagree. He started off his recovery with the "yes, dear" comment, which negated the attempt.

Level -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 4:22:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: Level FR I don't agree with much of what the OP wrote, but I don't think he did too bad a job of recovering, and pointing out that this is his opinion, as opposed to someone trying to denounce anyone disagreeing with him. Actually, I disagree. He started off his recovery with the "yes, dear" comment, which negated the attempt. He's a bit of a "one step forward, two steps back" poster. [:)] But I do still give him credit for some of the other things ge said.

sexyred1 -> RE: love and respect (2/16/2013 4:39:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder quote: ORIGINAL: LordKonstantine I see it all the time, females want to be cherished, loved and appreciated by that one dom/master who they can submit to. If that is what you truly want, women, stop being bitches! Men shut down when they are not respected, they take their love and bury it. If you truly want a man to love you and give you the attention you crave, respect him. Not in the way you recognize respect, but in the way he recognizes respect. Thank him for providing for you, protecting you, leading you. When men are disrespected, they shut down, turn off etc. When women dont feel the love, they disrespect a man. It keeps going around and around in a crazy circle. We are both hard wired like that. Ladies, if you want your man to "get it", you need to "get it" too. A womans place is in the home, submitting to her man, and being respectful. The bible orders men to love their wives, it does not order them to respect their wives. Because men show respect when given respect. The bible also orders women to submit and respect their their husbands, not to love their husbands. Because women are hard wired to love naturally. They are the nurturers and caregivers. Its their job to love and care. If a soldier is willing to die for his battle buddy on a field of combat, yet will walk away from a contentious woman, what does that tell you? No greater love hath a man than to lay his life down for another. Men reciprocate love thru their respect, a woman who is mean, mouthy, disrespectful, demeaning, complaining, etc.... will get no love from her husband. He will just walk away and say, "I dont need this shit". Women if you want men to treat you the way you want to be treated, treat them that way first. Why am I picturing a Southern backwoods church pastor holding snakes? And the lord sayeth women are the evil of the earth. Repent woman or I shall strike you down as God has commanded of me! [8\|] I agree. And I find his talk of religion and respect totally at odds with his profile. But then again, I always find alot of hypocrisy in what people say and what they actually do. I also find his declaration that men care about respect more than love to be ridiculous.

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