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RE: Perception - 2/15/2013 9:10:14 PM

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You could give her your number when you ask for hers.

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RE: Perception - 2/15/2013 10:05:49 PM

MaamJay

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It seems She just lost interest, and unless you can prise the answer from Her ... you'll just have to accept being none the wiser.

I prefer to make it plain whether I want to continue talking to someone or not, but not everyone operates by the same rules.

As to the specifics of the conversation ... talking about everyday things is great. Given that you'd been chatting for 2 weeks I thought your kinky question was very low key, so I wouldn't have been offended. I would have probably been talking kink interests with you before then but I would have been the one to raise that topic. So I guess I can't shed any light on what might have put Her off.

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RE: Perception - 2/15/2013 11:32:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

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ORIGINAL: hlen5
You could give her your number when you ask for hers.
This! M

There is also simply asking if she feels comfortable moving from messaging to phone.

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RE: Perception - 2/17/2013 8:41:54 AM

AlittleCrazy098

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Thanks everyone for the help... she did respond to my message this morning lol. Doesn't mean she is interested in me, but that at least a friendship can come out of this conversation at some point. Thanks

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RE: Perception - 2/17/2013 9:19:40 AM

MariaB

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I don't think you did zit wrong.

I'm going to tell you what I was like when I was on here and looking. Its really not pretty though but please don't hold that against me!!

When I was available I had too many letters to answer, unless I intended to hang out here all day. Occasionally though, someone sparked my interest and I would start conversing with them. Perhaps they thought I was chatting to them exclusively but I wasn't. I always had at least 3 or 4 men who I was having ongoing conversations with. Every so often I would get chatting to someone who seriously interested me and when that happened I became so focused on that one individual that I stopped corresponding with the others.

I don't think what I did was/is uncommon. My guess is, she's talking to someone who is presently taking all of her attention.

I will add to this that my husband, who I met on here was put to one side for several weeks when I got chatting to another man who fascinated me. Steve deserved more of me but lets remember, we hadn't yet met and I didn't feel I owed him anything. I'm just so glad we re-kindled our chat!!

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