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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

Well I have to say thank you for all of your criticism that was really helpful since you never advised me on TPE anyway? So I don't know why you even bothered to write in the first place for. Well I have to say about what I was trained in by a Mistress and Master and he started in BDSM before you was born, unless you was 20yo in 1950 or so. I would say he had a lot of training and experience, don't you. I probably know as much as you or maybe more in training and experience, and it didn't come from a book it came from real life okay.

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

Well I have to say thank you for all of your criticism that was really helpful since you never advised me on TPE anyway? So I don't know why you even bothered to write in the first place for. Well I have to say about what I was trained in by a Mistress and Master and he started in BDSM before you was born, unless you was 20yo in 1950 or so. I would say he had a lot of training and experience, don't you. I probably know as much as you or maybe more in training and experience, and it didn't come from a book it came from real life okay.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Is there anybody who doesn't love getting a massage?

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

The others answered the questions about the definitions that you didn't know. I have to say, if I had "trained" anyone and they didn't know such simple, basic things about BDSM such as CBT and queening, I'd be thoroughly ashamed that, as a female Dominant, I had allowed somebody to remain so uneducated.

You also asked about why nobody answers the messages that you send and/or why people stop conversing when you tell them that you are new. What I might suggest to you is that, from reading this thread, regardless of whatever kind of training you had twenty years ago, the story just doesn't hold water. The part about how you keep calling yourself "master" but need to be told the simplest things, isn't exactly the first candidate that somebody is going to choose when talking about owning another person. From the profile, I see no reference to your prior experience in having a submissive of your own. If you had, that's not exactly why a person would get out of BDSM to have a wife and child.

All of those expert definitions? There's not a thing to verify you've got any more experience in them than hitting that expert button when you filled the profile out. Nothing. Most folks don't walk away from a whip for more than a decade and claim to be an expert at it. I don't care how good you think you once were. If you are out of practice, you're not an expert now and I'd be seriously concerned for anybody who agreed to be on the receiving end of that whip that you may not have picked up for years and years.

Rethink your approach. Be a tad more realistic. I'm sure your results will improve.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

Well I have to say thank you for all of your criticism that was really helpful since you never advised me on TPE anyway? So I don't know why you even bothered to write in the first place for. Well I have to say about what I was trained in by a Mistress and Master and he started in BDSM before you was born, unless you was 20yo in 1950 or so. I would say he had a lot of training and experience, don't you. I probably know as much as you or maybe more in training and experience, and it didn't come from a book it came from real life okay.

I went back and skimmed through the thread. You didn't ask a question about TPE (Total Power Exchange) that I saw. You asked why somebody was no longer interested in engaging in a TPE with you when you lacked prior experience in having one. When a person is looking at somebody to turn all of the authority in their life over to somebody else, you can't blame a person for not wanting to engage in that kind of lifestyle with somebody who has never had a long term dynamic as being the person in charge before.

The reason that people are confusing you with a male submissive is because you keep extolling this bit about how you were trained by a Master and Mistress. Since you have these basic, elementary type questions, yet supposedly have all of this training and experience, it doesn't really add up. Also, your time frames are totally wonky. These people had all of this experience but didn't teach you common definitions? Exactly what did they teach you? They obviously didn't teach you about you being in charge in a relationship with another human being because you've got no record of that, either. A few play techniques that you did decades ago with various play partners (because that's all it is sounding like it really is) doesn't say that you have ever Mastered anybody.

Sorry, but the person/people who trained you may have tons of experience. You don't get to piggyback it and call it your own. I'd lay odds that the gal that I've been mentoring for less than the past year is probably more knowledgeable than you. She doesn't claim to have started in the late nineties just because I did.

A person can puff their chest out and go on about how they are 'living it' as opposed to discussing reading books. Here's a newsflash. Those who have read books can easily tell you that there is a glossary in the back of each and every non fiction book about kink out there and the simplistic terms that you're asking about here are included. I don't have any shame in saying I've got a couple of dozen non fiction BDSM books on My shelf. Sure, some of them are so old that the pages have yellowed with age along the edges but I'd still recommend them to anybody who was first starting out. In fact, the one that was recommended to Me when I went to My first munch is still in My bookcase.

Frankly, I tend to have sincere doubts about anybody who wants to go on about how they have lived the lifestyle years ago and in the same breath bitches about not being able to find people on the net to engage in it with them. I guess you weren't taught that, either. I collared My first boy before I ever had a screen name and I wouldn't want it any other way.

You can't blame people for finding all of this supposed skill and experience laughable when there is nothing here to show people that you are any different from any other keyboard commando. Since you're a little fuzzy on definitions, a keyboard commando in regards to BDSM is somebody who gets on the net claiming to have done tons of kink, but his only experience in the whole realm of kink is playing in chat rooms and/or message boards.

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

What are you talking about a male sub, theirs nothing in my profile for you to come up with this crap. Does it make me a sub using a whip on a slave does it make me a sub using a cane on on a slave make me a sub NO I don't think so or we are ALL subs then aren't we. Everything that I rated myself in doing I have done on 12 slaves and I trained only 2 beginners 10 I only part trained only once contract was complete they went back to their master or mistress.

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

What are you talking about, some of the things like begging and to serve as a maid are what I want a slave to do not me. So what do you you advise take out what I want a slave to do? And just leave in what I was trained in. I don't have comedian in my profile! And I don't have cartoonist in my profile either. Auto racing is what I like watching on TV, F1,NASCAR, Indy not doing myself.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

Well I have to say thank you for all of your criticism that was really helpful since you never advised me on TPE anyway? So I don't know why you even bothered to write in the first place for. Well I have to say about what I was trained in by a Mistress and Master and he started in BDSM before you was born, unless you was 20yo in 1950 or so. I would say he had a lot of training and experience, don't you. I probably know as much as you or maybe more in training and experience, and it didn't come from a book it came from real life okay.

I went back and skimmed through the thread. You didn't ask a question about TPE (Total Power Exchange) that I saw. You asked why somebody was no longer interested in engaging in a TPE with you when you lacked prior experience in having one. When a person is looking at somebody to turn all of the authority in their life over to somebody else, you can't blame a person for not wanting to engage in that kind of lifestyle with somebody who has never had a long term dynamic as being the person in charge before.

The reason that people are confusing you with a male submissive is because you keep extolling this bit about how you were trained by a Master and Mistress. Since you have these basic, elementary type questions, yet supposedly have all of this training and experience, it doesn't really add up. Also, your time frames are totally wonky. These people had all of this experience but didn't teach you common definitions? Exactly what did they teach you? They obviously didn't teach you about you being in charge in a relationship with another human being because you've got no record of that, either. A few play techniques that you did decades ago with various play partners (because that's all it is sounding like it really is) doesn't say that you have ever Mastered anybody.

Sorry, but the person/people who trained you may have tons of experience. You don't get to piggyback it and call it your own. I'd lay odds that the gal that I've been mentoring for less than the past year is probably more knowledgeable than you. She doesn't claim to have started in the late nineties just because I did.

A person can puff their chest out and go on about how they are 'living it' as opposed to discussing reading books. Here's a newsflash. Those who have read books can easily tell you that there is a glossary in the back of each and every non fiction book about kink out there and the simplistic terms that you're asking about here are included. I don't have any shame in saying I've got a couple of dozen non fiction BDSM books on My shelf. Sure, some of them are so old that the pages have yellowed with age along the edges but I'd still recommend them to anybody who was first starting out. In fact, the one that was recommended to Me when I went to My first munch is still in My bookcase.

Frankly, I tend to have sincere doubts about anybody who wants to go on about how they have lived the lifestyle years ago and in the same breath bitches about not being able to find people on the net to engage in it with them. I guess you weren't taught that, either. I collared My first boy before I ever had a screen name and I wouldn't want it any other way.

You can't blame people for finding all of this supposed skill and experience laughable when there is nothing here to show people that you are any different from any other keyboard commando. Since you're a little fuzzy on definitions, a keyboard commando in regards to BDSM is somebody who gets on the net claiming to have done tons of kink, but his only experience in the whole realm of kink is playing in chat rooms and/or message boards.

I did ask about TPE that was my first question I asked, I numbered them 1,2,3 I think CBT was my second question

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

What do you mean my time frames are wonky I started when I was 17yo what's wonky about that, It's nearly 31 years ago now when I started out.

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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

What are you talking about a male sub, theirs nothing in my profile for you to come up with this crap. Does it make me a sub using a whip on a slave does it make me a sub using a cane on on a slave make me a sub NO I don't think so or we are ALL subs then aren't we. Everything that I rated myself in doing I have done on 12 slaves and I trained only 2 beginners 10 I only part trained only once contract was complete they went back to their master or mistress.

CBT and queening are activities for male subs. Many people have told you what TPE is.

Look, you have a lousy attitude, and I've no doubt that shows through in messages you send. As already mentioned, you want something that you don't know what it is, so it is no wonder the woman stopped talking to you.

Your profile reads as some condescending prick who thinks that tacking, "master" on to himself means anyone who identifies as "sub" should instantly give you some respect you imagine you deserve. We told you that until you are in a relationship, no one owes you respect, a reply or anything else.

Now you come back and say it wasn't just a mistress who "trained" you, but a master as well, yet neither of them were able to teach you how a total power exchange works, so yea, we are going to call you on your bullshit claims. If you don't like it, that isn't our problem either. You asked a question, we answered it. You aren't a master here, you are a person asking questions. Your questions indicate a severe lack of knowledge.

You left the lifestyle to try to find a wife and have a family. That didn't work, so now you figure you will get yourself a slave and order her to have a child for you. You don't indicate that there will be any love in your relationship, so why would someone want to "reproduce" with you? You make comments in your profile that read like you are giving permission for people to write to you, and your profile reads like that of a horny net geek, yet no matter what we tell you, you come back as combative.

As for your pictures, you have excuses why you they aren't recent, but the pictures you do have look like you still live with your mother, with dolls in the background and feminine, flowered furniture. Then you add the response killing comment about "real" slaves.

Dude, you come off as a poser, a horny net geek, who claims experience and expertise in ridiculous things like "blindfolds" and receiving "massages." "True" slaves, which really would simply be women who are serious about this lifestyle who you hope to attract DO notice these things as well as recognizing that they aren't going to kneel before you until you prove yourself worthy of them getting their knees dirty.

So since you obviously think we are all fake people who have nothing to do but pick on you, why don't you contact your previous mistress and master and ask them why you are having trouble finding someone?

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01
HELLO EVERYONE, I HAVE SOME QUESTIONS TO ASK.

( 1 ) WHAT IS CBT?

( 2 ) WHAT IS QUEENING?

(3 ) I KNOW THE MEANING OF TPE BUT WHAT IS IT EXACTLY, DOES A DOM/DOMME HAVE TO BE TRAINED IN THIS OR CAN YOU TEACH YOURSELF.

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

What are you talking about a male sub, theirs nothing in my profile for you to come up with this crap. Does it make me a sub using a whip on a slave does it make me a sub using a cane on on a slave make me a sub NO I don't think so or we are ALL subs then aren't we. Everything that I rated myself in doing I have done on 12 slaves and I trained only 2 beginners 10 I only part trained only once contract was complete they went back to their master or mistress.

CBT and queening are activities for male subs. Many people have told you what TPE is.

Look, you have a lousy attitude, and I've no doubt that shows through in messages you send. As already mentioned, you want something that you don't know what it is, so it is no wonder the woman stopped talking to you.

Your profile reads as some condescending prick who thinks that tacking, "master" on to himself means anyone who identifies as "sub" should instantly give you some respect you imagine you deserve. We told you that until you are in a relationship, no one owes you respect, a reply or anything else.

Now you come back and say it wasn't just a mistress who "trained" you, but a master as well, yet neither of them were able to teach you how a total power exchange works, so yea, we are going to call you on your bullshit claims. If you don't like it, that isn't our problem either. You asked a question, we answered it. You aren't a master here, you are a person asking questions. Your questions indicate a severe lack of knowledge.

You left the lifestyle to try to find a wife and have a family. That didn't work, so now you figure you will get yourself a slave and order her to have a child for you. You don't indicate that there will be any love in your relationship, so why would someone want to "reproduce" with you? You make comments in your profile that read like you are giving permission for people to write to you, and your profile reads like that of a horny net geek, yet no matter what we tell you, you come back as combative.

As for your pictures, you have excuses why you they aren't recent, but the pictures you do have look like you still live with your mother, with dolls in the background and feminine, flowered furniture. Then you add the response killing comment about "real" slaves.

Dude, you come off as a poser, a horny net geek, who claims experience and expertise in ridiculous things like "blindfolds" and receiving "massages." "True" slaves, which really would simply be women who are serious about this lifestyle who you hope to attract DO notice these things as well as recognizing that they aren't going to kneel before you until you prove yourself worthy of them getting their knees dirty.

So since you obviously think we are all fake people who have nothing to do but pick on you, why don't you contact your previous mistress and master and ask them why you are having trouble finding someone?

Bit hard to contact someone unless you wish to have a seance

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

What are you talking about a male sub, theirs nothing in my profile for you to come up with this crap. Does it make me a sub using a whip on a slave does it make me a sub using a cane on on a slave make me a sub NO I don't think so or we are ALL subs then aren't we. Everything that I rated myself in doing I have done on 12 slaves and I trained only 2 beginners 10 I only part trained only once contract was complete they went back to their master or mistress.

CBT and queening are activities for male subs. Many people have told you what TPE is.

Look, you have a lousy attitude, and I've no doubt that shows through in messages you send. As already mentioned, you want something that you don't know what it is, so it is no wonder the woman stopped talking to you.

Your profile reads as some condescending prick who thinks that tacking, "master" on to himself means anyone who identifies as "sub" should instantly give you some respect you imagine you deserve. We told you that until you are in a relationship, no one owes you respect, a reply or anything else.

Now you come back and say it wasn't just a mistress who "trained" you, but a master as well, yet neither of them were able to teach you how a total power exchange works, so yea, we are going to call you on your bullshit claims. If you don't like it, that isn't our problem either. You asked a question, we answered it. You aren't a master here, you are a person asking questions. Your questions indicate a severe lack of knowledge.

You left the lifestyle to try to find a wife and have a family. That didn't work, so now you figure you will get yourself a slave and order her to have a child for you. You don't indicate that there will be any love in your relationship, so why would someone want to "reproduce" with you? You make comments in your profile that read like you are giving permission for people to write to you, and your profile reads like that of a horny net geek, yet no matter what we tell you, you come back as combative.

As for your pictures, you have excuses why you they aren't recent, but the pictures you do have look like you still live with your mother, with dolls in the background and feminine, flowered furniture. Then you add the response killing comment about "real" slaves.

Dude, you come off as a poser, a horny net geek, who claims experience and expertise in ridiculous things like "blindfolds" and receiving "massages." "True" slaves, which really would simply be women who are serious about this lifestyle who you hope to attract DO notice these things as well as recognizing that they aren't going to kneel before you until you prove yourself worthy of them getting their knees dirty.

So since you obviously think we are all fake people who have nothing to do but pick on you, why don't you contact your previous mistress and master and ask them why you are having trouble finding someone?

Bit hard to contact someone unless you wish to have a seance

So someone who does queening is a sub then, anyone can squat on someones face, or is that to hard for you to do. I used to squat on a slaves face and shove my cock in her mouth, does that make me a sub then. When you click on queening it says that's what a Domme does, so is a Domme also a sub, is this what you are saying because it sounds like it.

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

As I said some things have changed and I didn't know what CBT was until told, I hate abbreviating words. I've now changed my profile what I was doing was putting in things that I wanted a slave to do and what I wanted to do to her. Can you have a look and see if I may have missed something, I do want to get it right as I've never filled in a profile before, so give me a break okay. I haven't lied about anything, and whips and canes are not something you forget. And I can flay the skin of someones back with a stock whip, I haven't forgotten how too. We didn't use the internet to find slaves back then we were a BDSM community, hell one of my slaves parents were Dominants as well and they had 2 slaves each. There were 30 Masters/Mistresses that I had met at their gatherings. I did have 2 trainers not 1 my second trainer was a Master as he also called himself, and I was also told a Master is someone who has a slave and a Dom is someone who has a Sub. I wonder what people will say now? I only asked something I didn't know about, I don't claim to know everything if I did I wouldn't ask any questions and I still don't know about TPE only what I new before I asked my question. By the way I could also as about your training who trained you then as I know who trained me, my 2 trainers are probably dead from old age as the master was in his middle 50s and the mistress was 42 at the time. If you have another look at my profile now with all the changes can you let me what other areas to change as well thanks. P.S can you send me a message instead as I'm coping enough shit as it is. Thank you for your advise and any help you might give with my profile.

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01

FUCK OFF THE LOT OF YOU THEN

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01
FUCK OFF THE LOT OF YOU THEN

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ORIGINAL: rowdy01
FUCK OFF THE LOT OF YOU THEN