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Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 5:00:24 AM   
byejosh


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Status: offline 		If your domme rewarded you by allowing you to choose one activity what would you choose? It is hard for me to pick, but ultimately I would ask for a nice long queening What about you?

Dommes do you ever offer this type of reward?
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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 5:48:39 AM   
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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 6:17:33 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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ORIGINAL: byejosh

If your domme rewarded you by allowing you to choose one activity what would you choose? It is hard for me to pick, but ultimately I would ask for a nice long queening What about you?

Dommes do you ever offer this type of reward?


Rather than a specific act I'd ask him to plan a complicated scene. I don't actually care that much for any particular act or kinky thing, as daft as that sounds. I don't care what it is we're doing, but it's hot to know he has all sorts of fiendish things planned. Most of our play is spontaneous, which is usually what I like, but there's something scary-exciting about knowing something big is coming.

Hope that makes sense.

And to answer his part of the question too, he doesn't so much give rewards as he likes to spoil me from time to time.

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 6:36:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		My rewards usually aren't kink based. If they have been saving up for something, I try to get whatever it is. Spend a hot night out on the town or do something that takes away some issue.
While subs seem to live for stuff like queening, it really does nothing for me. I've heard the arguements for oral in this position & frankly can't stand it

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 6:41:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		What did you do to earn the reward?

In this past month, clip has worked his ass off creating My dungeon. I've been so pleased with all of his efforts that he's received several rewards along the way. No, they aren't all sexual in nature. Yes, My happiness is his reward.


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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 7:36:02 AM   
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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 9:11:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		I can see why you'd earn a reward if it was as dangerous as this...






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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 9:56:56 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		EXACTLY!! Next you'll want a BJ for making cookies & taking out the trash. Geeze dude getting to be near my pussy is its own reward, now you want a prize?? Where does this mysterious goddess live...other than in your dicks imagination?

[image]my pussy is its own reward[/image]

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 10:53:35 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		Uh, guys, the OP and the person who said 'lick her pussy' are two different guys. They do both have headless torso avatars so easy to mix up at a glance. I think 'lick her pussy' was the desired reward.

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 10:56:01 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		well spotted Athena!

Still, it gave me a good excuse to post a silly pic I've had hanging around for ages....

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 12:25:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, I've given a sub the option of choosing his own reward. He did not push sex on me, since anyone who knows me sexually will know that being pushed into sex is a deal breaker.

I've also been given the option of choosing my own reward. I picked 'professional massage' on one occasion and 'shopping spree' on another.

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 2:15:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: byejosh
Dommes do you ever offer this type of reward?


If he has some kind of kink that doesn't do much for me, or something he wants more often than I do, I may well offer that activity as a reward, yes.

Spy

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 3:32:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SpyUnderCover


quote:

ORIGINAL: byejosh
Dommes do you ever offer this type of reward?


If he has some kind of kink that doesn't do much for me, or something he wants more often than I do, I may well offer that activity as a reward, yes.

Spy


So for your reward, you are going to reward them?

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 4:30:36 PM   
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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 6:52:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not much on rewards. I don't want a relationship based on "you do x and then you can have y". I want him to want to do nice things for me simply because he loves me, or he thinks I'm having a bad day and need to be cheered up.

Which includes him occasionally asking me what I'm in the mood for or what I'm not.

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 7:26:42 PM   
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If your domme rewarded you by allowing you to choose one activity what would you choose?


His approval is reward enough for me.

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 7:40:40 PM   
MissToYouRedux


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ORIGINAL: byejosh

If your domme rewarded you by allowing you to choose one activity...

Dommes do you ever offer this type of reward?



Honestly, though I have had some *very* pleasing subs throughout the years, giving them some kind of choice as a reward has never once crossed my mind.

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 8:07:20 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Master used to ask me this but got tired of hearing either "whatever you want" or "spend time with me". Now he just knows the things I like so it's just no longer even a question he asks.

Usually he will give me rewards when I've done lots of work on something for him or if he's just feeling especially loveable. It usually ends up as some kind of rich, decadent pastry that he knows I love or us going out to a coffeeshop or allowing me to watch what I want on tv, giving me as many orgasms as I can possibly stand. That's the only sexual one I can think of but everything else is just stuff that he knows I like and he wants to indulge me.




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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 8:25:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		I tend to agree with the idea that the reward needs to be non-sexual in nature. I don't believe that sex is a reward per se, rather it is a necessary facet in both the Dom and sub's lives. If anything, I feel that it would undermine the dynamic between the two interested parties if from the onset of the relationship, there was a clear give/take, action/reward standard, even if it is only implicit. That being said, personally, I like rewarding subs with something a little more covertly self-serving. For instance, I would arrange for a full treatment at a spa (body scrub, massage, facial, mani/pedi). She looks awesome so I feel awesome and she feels awesome because she looks awesome wins for everyone involved!

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RE: Domme-- reward for her slave? - 2/19/2013 8:28:50 PM   
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