LadyPact
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First post after joining two years ago. I'm going to give you a little bit of benefit of the doubt. That's with the understanding that you could have gained a lot of knowledge in the real time community since that time. I do not own a female s-type, Myself. I have no interest in owning women or anybody who wants to present as female in any way. I'm straight, so that doesn't appeal to Me. With this in mind, please understand that what I have witnessed is mostly because of those friends, etc that I know through the pansexual leather community mixed with some personal opinion. Yes, there are most certainly those who own lesbian slaves who will set up these scenarios. However, it doesn't seem nearly as common as it is in the straight population. It's a lot harder to push somebody in this area when they have been coping with issues relating to their sexuality all of their life than somebody who has had it so much easier because their attraction on an everyday basis is what most consider the 'norm'. Imagine having this part of yourself that has had to struggle against everyone else's idea of who you are supposed to *want* to have sex with, having people say that they could change you if you just had the right experience, (oh, yes, there are twatwaffles out there who do this) and all of the other things that a person has to deal with on a personal level due to being lesbian. Then, somebody wants you to do the exact thing that you have had to deal with all of the emotions that you've said were so much in opposition to your identity. On top of this, if you happen to have a lesbian owner, that person may not want their slave doing it because they have the empathy to know how *they* would feel if forced into that position. Knowing exactly what it is like to have to find their own identity. Maybe losing their family and friends because they weren't accepted because they weren't straight. Not being able to sacrifice who they are and engage in sex acts with the opposite gender in order to put up a front to the world. Having those issues built into the additional complications due to the long term, preexisting mindset doesn't make that easy. Anybody who puts their s-type into the situation where they are going to be hetero-flexible knows there are potential issues. That's whether the person was really bi-curious to begin with or if it was an act of obedience. There is so much tied up in this that people would get bored if I tried to list it all. Some of it is societal. Some of it is religious. Some of it relates to questioning identity. Some of it has to do with how much significance a person places on an act as opposed to an orientation. Sometimes, the gender of the submissive when we are talking about straight folks can make this easier. Bi-sexuality in women or women engaging in bi-sexual acts, by societal standards, for example, is more widely accepted. Males aren't quite at that same level. Males, unfortunately, are more judged. The same holds true for the other side of the kneel. While there are a number of men who are strictly monogamous when it comes to their partner, no matter what the gender of the other party might be, there's no denying that a significant majority of men will say that it's exceptionally hot to watch two women together sexually. This is ridiculously emanated in porn, where the target audience is male. That does drop significantly when you start talking about what women want to see in an erotic film. How many flicks do you see that are marketed to straight women that include male on male scenes? There's one thing that I'll always give the porn industry. They know what makes money. The content of films reflects this. All of this ties into your question about how the s-type deals with the emotions that they have after such an experience. Really, there is no standard answer. All of this is going to effect people to different degrees and it's imperative for the owner to know that person well enough to see how these many factors will have an impact.
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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie. Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread
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