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Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 11:56:58 AM   
estimer


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So is it a requirement that a dom be outright mean?
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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 11:57:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not at all. A Dom can be the nurturing type as well.

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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 12:06:16 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Heck no. My last relationship was with a Dominant man that was caring and kind to the best of his abilities. He was definitely not the mean type.

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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 12:06:33 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Absolutely there is. I'm probably more on the 'mean' side when it comes to people that honestly need a clue by four in their lives.

Otherwise, I'm damn easy to get along with.


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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 12:10:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: estimer

(note: bitch is being used gender neutral)
So is it a requirement that a dom be outright mean?



Nope.
I'm submissive and a bitch.

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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 12:14:34 PM   
estimer


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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 12:16:02 PM   
estimer


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Status: offline 		No offence but your earlier post in another thread is why I posted this.

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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 12:18:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: estimer

(note: bitch is being used gender neutral)
So is it a requirement that a dom be outright mean?


No.

And if you ever ask that again, I'll beat you senseless.


Dominants are human, and their personalities run the gamut of behaviour, just like anyone else.

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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 12:25:32 PM   
estimer


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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 12:29:55 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: estimer

No offence but your earlier post in another thread is why I posted this.
Naw....... Really?

I'm sure I could be seen as a bitch by pointing out information that was at your disposal, was ignored the first time, and I'm not willing to pat people on the head. The silver service for spoon feeding people obvious information is definitely closed from My direction.



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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 12:32:47 PM   
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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 12:50:56 PM   
Kaliko


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quote:

ORIGINAL: estimer

(note: bitch is being used gender neutral)
So is it a requirement that a dom be outright mean?



No. In fact, that would be a turnoff. Mean people are immature. I wouldn't want to throw my trust, and my body, into a well of immaturity.


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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 1:04:31 PM   
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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 1:05:51 PM   
Baroana


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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 1:14:58 PM   
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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 1:16:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		If the only thing that someone has in their arsenal is being a bitch or an asshole, then I'd go out on the limb and say that they're not really Dominant.

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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 1:40:37 PM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		My dom was a first class prick on most occasions. Good to know it isn't a requirement in the manual.

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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 2:07:40 PM   
searching4mysir


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ORIGINAL: estimer

No offence but your earlier post in another thread is why I posted this.


There is a difference between being bitchy and being blunt/matter-of-fact. LP is the latter. She doesn't suffer fools.

< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 3/2/2013 2:08:16 PM >

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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 2:07:40 PM   
ClassAct2006


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Status: offline 		It's a really important issue and to know what you seek. I always seek (and have) men who are dominant but in the caring sense, wanting what is best for the relationship,l not just for them, leading, showing, helping, praising. I do not get off on any nastiness at all. Obviously some people may do so but charm, elan, flattery, kindness, care - those are the things that for me the best dominant men have and I have been lucky enough to find. So for me it is about being the most important person in someone's life who is proud of me and loves me and cares for me, not someone who treats me like a bit of dirt on his shoe which for me is not sexy at all. If people can't be nice then they aren't for me.

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RE: Is there a line between bitch and dom? - 3/2/2013 2:16:54 PM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		I agree with the old saying "YOu can attract more bees with honey then vinegar"

Big difference between matter of fact then rude and crass.

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