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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: britwriter1111
Except, when defining your standards for "safety net, " do NOT involve your kids or their home, in your first, face to face meeting!

*blinks* Wow. Just yesterday I met and interacted with dozens of unfamiliar children (I was volunteering in a mall handing out flowers). But now suddenly ice cream has become a hazard?

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC
But there might also be the fact that you ooze "I'm not an asshat"

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.

See, now I would just laugh if someone said that. I would never use the word "ooze" like that.

I might say, hmmmmm....you are pretty confident, aren't you?

But then again, it is you, Kana, so maybe you do "ooze". I guess lw can vouch for that!!! :)

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Sure. But people can do lots of communicating first.As in lots. I'd wager there's more than a few people on here who've spent 100's, if not 1000's of hrs talking before they ever met.

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I suppose right about here I'll mention that I almost never fuck on first meet (And I tell em that up front too). Oooh, I'll play with em if the mood strikes, turn em on, get em all riled up, but I rarely actually have intercourse.
Maybe a hummer, and that's far more the exception to the rule.
Of course the kicker is that 9 times outta 10, she's the one begging, groveling, pleading with me to fuck her while I'm the one who is in control of my sexual organ.

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And God help her if she shows up doing the whole I'm being careful and non slutty thing. I'll leave her regretting she ever wore those panties. I'll have her begging me to peel em off of her, hating the decision to wear em,vowing never ever again to wear such obstacles in my presence.
I use shit like that as a weapon against her, use it to wage war on her with her own wanton desires as my weapon of choice.
I'll caress her neck, run my hands all over her, whisper in her ear all the things I'm going to do with her as I nibble her lobe. I'll lick lightly at that spot on the back of her neck. Run my finger ooooh so lightly across her vulva, so soft its not even a touch, more like a whispered promise. Slide strong hands down the insides of her thighs. Pull back, brings my palms up her body til I can trace the underside of her breasts. Lightly make circles round her nipples. I'll use hands, tongue, heart, words, wit, wisdom and wile to turn her into an incendiary device, get way deep in her head, her heart, start wandering into her soul.
Commence the journey to possibly, hopefully making her all the fucking way mine.
Lock, stock, twat.

I don't want her to ever forget the night she met my evil ass. I wanna rock her world inside out and upside down, leave her a trembling, shaking, soaking hot mess.

Yeah, that's some good shit there.

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ORIGINAL: britwriter1111

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ORIGINAL: Arturas


In my experience every first face to face started differently. ...
Another sub, one who is mine 24/7 now, tammystarm, over dinner with her kids (she could not get a sitter) and we ended up having ice cream, all four of us, across the street at a local ice cream parlor. Totally great in all cases.

So, go with your instincts, keep your safety net in place and enjoy!

Except, when defining your standards for "safety net, " do NOT involve your kids or their home, in your first, face to face meeting!

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ORIGINAL: Khalli

Thanks for all the preaching and the fact that no one after my last reply bothered to heed the fact that i am re-examining this. Congratulations on your sanctimonious bullshit and your inability to HELP people truly understand what this is about. I will look for a site where my questions will be answered with CONSTRUCTIVE criticism, which I am more than open to. People just being assholes is not ok and not helpful. Again, thank you to the people who were kind enough to answer my questions and try and give me useable knowledge.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

You people crack me up. I'd bet at least 1/2 of the women I've met from here on terms similar to these. And ya know what? Not only wasn't she complaining-she was fucking begging for it.
I get the safeguards and all that (And I encourage them) but shit, this is in many ways a sex singles site, for people who are trying to meet others.
And if I'm meeting a chica from here that I've talked to for a bit and we both know there is mutual interest...and the chemistry is flying, yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."
I mean, WTF else am I meeting em for, taking time out of my busy life, coughing up hard earned loot? I have a sexual interest in her. She may just have one in me. That's the fucking point of the meeting-to see if that electricity that flies online and through the phone translates to real life.
If it does, great. And if not, oh well. At least we didn't waste a whole lotta precious time finding that crucial little truth out.
Most of the time they ain't offended in the least. Cripes, the vast majority of the time you can almost hear the sigh of relief when they realized I would take charge. That shit turned em on too, make no mistakes about that.

Women are just as much sluts as men are dogs. Here and elsewhere.

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.

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yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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ORIGINAL: Kana

You people crack me up. I'd bet at least 1/2 of the women I've met from here on terms similar to these. And ya know what? Not only wasn't she complaining-she was fucking begging for it.
I get the safeguards and all that (And I encourage them) but shit, this is in many ways a sex singles site, for people who are trying to meet others.
And if I'm meeting a chica from here that I've talked to for a bit and we both know there is mutual interest...and the chemistry is flying, yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."
I mean, WTF else am I meeting em for, taking time out of my busy life, coughing up hard earned loot? I have a sexual interest in her. She may just have one in me. That's the fucking point of the meeting-to see if that electricity that flies online and through the phone translates to real life.
If it does, great. And if not, oh well. At least we didn't waste a whole lotta precious time finding that crucial little truth out.
Most of the time they ain't offended in the least. Cripes, the vast majority of the time you can almost hear the sigh of relief when they realized I would take charge. That shit turned em on too, make no mistakes about that.

Women are just as much sluts as men are dogs. Here and elsewhere.

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.

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yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."

You crack me up. I don't have to tell them anything, She knows it even if I just walk into the room carrying an ice cream cone. She just doesn't know when.

Talk about posturing in writing! This proves my point about posturing Doms. So, are you the Dom the OP wrote about? I bet you are, you devil. You start this shit with this girl and then jump in and play super dom? You crack me up.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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ORIGINAL: Kana

You people crack me up. I'd bet at least 1/2 of the women I've met from here on terms similar to these. And ya know what? Not only wasn't she complaining-she was fucking begging for it.
I get the safeguards and all that (And I encourage them) but shit, this is in many ways a sex singles site, for people who are trying to meet others.
And if I'm meeting a chica from here that I've talked to for a bit and we both know there is mutual interest...and the chemistry is flying, yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."
I mean, WTF else am I meeting em for, taking time out of my busy life, coughing up hard earned loot? I have a sexual interest in her. She may just have one in me. That's the fucking point of the meeting-to see if that electricity that flies online and through the phone translates to real life.
If it does, great. And if not, oh well. At least we didn't waste a whole lotta precious time finding that crucial little truth out.
Most of the time they ain't offended in the least. Cripes, the vast majority of the time you can almost hear the sigh of relief when they realized I would take charge. That shit turned em on too, make no mistakes about that.

Women are just as much sluts as men are dogs. Here and elsewhere.

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.

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yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."

You crack me up. I don't have to tell them anything, She knows it even if I just walk into the room carrying an ice cream cone. She just doesn't know when.

Talk about posturing in writing! This proves my point about posturing Doms. So, are you the Dom the OP wrote about? I bet you are, you devil. You start this shit with this girl and then jump in and play super dom? You crack me up.

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir


Aren't you cute [8|]


At least he has a slave smart enough not to air dirty laundry (if there were any) on the boards. She has more class and respect for him than that.

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir


Aren't you cute [8|]


At least he has a slave smart enough not to air dirty laundry (if there were any) on the boards. She has more class and respect for him than that.

And he's done his share of dirty laundry airing too...not just his partner.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

oops. Sorry.



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ORIGINAL: theRose4U
PLEASE tell me the twatwaffle calling jeff a rapist isn't arturas property?[:'(]

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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ORIGINAL: Kana

You people crack me up. I'd bet at least 1/2 of the women I've met from here on terms similar to these. And ya know what? Not only wasn't she complaining-she was fucking begging for it.
I get the safeguards and all that (And I encourage them) but shit, this is in many ways a sex singles site, for people who are trying to meet others.
And if I'm meeting a chica from here that I've talked to for a bit and we both know there is mutual interest...and the chemistry is flying, yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."
I mean, WTF else am I meeting em for, taking time out of my busy life, coughing up hard earned loot? I have a sexual interest in her. She may just have one in me. That's the fucking point of the meeting-to see if that electricity that flies online and through the phone translates to real life.
If it does, great. And if not, oh well. At least we didn't waste a whole lotta precious time finding that crucial little truth out.
Most of the time they ain't offended in the least. Cripes, the vast majority of the time you can almost hear the sigh of relief when they realized I would take charge. That shit turned em on too, make no mistakes about that.

Women are just as much sluts as men are dogs. Here and elsewhere.

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.

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yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."

You crack me up. I don't have to tell them anything, She knows it even if I just walk into the room carrying an ice cream cone. She just doesn't know when.

Talk about posturing in writing! This proves my point about posturing Doms. So, are you the Dom the OP wrote about? I bet you are, you devil. You start this shit with this girl and then jump in and play super dom? You crack me up.

Egads-I've been outed.
And you promised you wouldn't tell...

Quick-back in the phone booth to presto change-o back into my secret identity as mild mannered, law abiding,gentleman and all around man about town XXXXXXX (name deleted for reasons of National Security.)

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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ORIGINAL: Kana

You people crack me up. I'd bet at least 1/2 of the women I've met from here on terms similar to these. And ya know what? Not only wasn't she complaining-she was fucking begging for it.
I get the safeguards and all that (And I encourage them) but shit, this is in many ways a sex singles site, for people who are trying to meet others.
And if I'm meeting a chica from here that I've talked to for a bit and we both know there is mutual interest...and the chemistry is flying, yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."
I mean, WTF else am I meeting em for, taking time out of my busy life, coughing up hard earned loot? I have a sexual interest in her. She may just have one in me. That's the fucking point of the meeting-to see if that electricity that flies online and through the phone translates to real life.
If it does, great. And if not, oh well. At least we didn't waste a whole lotta precious time finding that crucial little truth out.
Most of the time they ain't offended in the least. Cripes, the vast majority of the time you can almost hear the sigh of relief when they realized I would take charge. That shit turned em on too, make no mistakes about that.

Women are just as much sluts as men are dogs. Here and elsewhere.

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.

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yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."

You crack me up. I don't have to tell them anything, She knows it even if I just walk into the room carrying an ice cream cone. She just doesn't know when.

Talk about posturing in writing! This proves my point about posturing Doms. So, are you the Dom the OP wrote about? I bet you are, you devil. You start this shit with this girl and then jump in and play super dom? You crack me up.

Aren't you cute [8|]


At least he has a slave smart enough not to air dirty laundry (if there were any) on the boards. She has more class and respect for him than that.