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RE: Very new - 3/4/2013 7:12:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: britwriter1111
Except, when defining your standards for "safety net, " do NOT involve your kids or their home, in your first, face to face meeting!

*blinks* Wow. Just yesterday I met and interacted with dozens of unfamiliar children (I was volunteering in a mall handing out flowers). But now suddenly ice cream has become a hazard?


Way I read comment was don't bring never met dom near your kids or their house...wise advice

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RE: Very new - 3/4/2013 7:24:03 PM   
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But there might also be the fact that you ooze "I'm not an asshat"

I want ZERO explaination of what kind of ooze is in an asshat!!

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RE: Very new - 3/4/2013 8:24:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.


See, now I would just laugh if someone said that. I would never use the word "ooze" like that.

I might say, hmmmmm....you are pretty confident, aren't you?

But then again, it is you, Kana, so maybe you do "ooze". I guess lw can vouch for that!!! :)



eerr....yeah, he does ooze confidence and dominance. <fans herself thinking of that first meeting>
I remember when we first started dating and I told him that during one of our conversations and it's what attracted me to him. Not only was he physically hot but just the way he walked, he carried himself, the way he took charge from the moment I saw him walking across the street before we even met. You don't even have to speak to him to know he has that savoir fare.

It's getting a little hot in here.

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RE: Very new - 3/4/2013 8:30:49 PM   
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Sure. But people can do lots of communicating first.As in lots. I'd wager there's more than a few people on here who've spent 100's, if not 1000's of hrs talking before they ever met.


You mean two year's worth?


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I suppose right about here I'll mention that I almost never fuck on first meet (And I tell em that up front too). Oooh, I'll play with em if the mood strikes, turn em on, get em all riled up, but I rarely actually have intercourse.
Maybe a hummer, and that's far more the exception to the rule.
Of course the kicker is that 9 times outta 10, she's the one begging, groveling, pleading with me to fuck her while I'm the one who is in control of my sexual organ.


He's more than made up for that. hehehe
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And God help her if she shows up doing the whole I'm being careful and non slutty thing. I'll leave her regretting she ever wore those panties. I'll have her begging me to peel em off of her, hating the decision to wear em,vowing never ever again to wear such obstacles in my presence.
I use shit like that as a weapon against her, use it to wage war on her with her own wanton desires as my weapon of choice.
I'll caress her neck, run my hands all over her, whisper in her ear all the things I'm going to do with her as I nibble her lobe. I'll lick lightly at that spot on the back of her neck. Run my finger ooooh so lightly across her vulva, so soft its not even a touch, more like a whispered promise. Slide strong hands down the insides of her thighs. Pull back, brings my palms up her body til I can trace the underside of her breasts. Lightly make circles round her nipples. I'll use hands, tongue, heart, words, wit, wisdom and wile to turn her into an incendiary device, get way deep in her head, her heart, start wandering into her soul.
Commence the journey to possibly, hopefully making her all the fucking way mine.
Lock, stock, twat.

I don't want her to ever forget the night she met my evil ass. I wanna rock her world inside out and upside down, leave her a trembling, shaking, soaking hot mess.

Yeah, that's some good shit there.




<Bites her knuckles and crosses her legs>
I think I need to turn down the heat in my home.

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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 9:10:47 AM   
Arturas


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In my experience every first face to face started differently. ...
Another sub, one who is mine 24/7 now, tammystarm, over dinner with her kids (she could not get a sitter) and we ended up having ice cream, all four of us, across the street at a local ice cream parlor. Totally great in all cases.

So, go with your instincts, keep your safety net in place and enjoy!


Except, when defining your standards for "safety net, " do NOT involve your kids or their home, in your first, face to face meeting!



Why? What do you think happened in a first face to face? Most face to faces? Why dinner with ice cream afterwards because one must work on the relationship to have a relationship and what about that is wrong for the kids there to enjoy dinner and ice cream cones?

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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 9:15:30 AM   
Arturas


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Thanks for all the preaching and the fact that no one after my last reply bothered to heed the fact that i am re-examining this. Congratulations on your sanctimonious bullshit and your inability to HELP people truly understand what this is about. I will look for a site where my questions will be answered with CONSTRUCTIVE criticism, which I am more than open to. People just being assholes is not ok and not helpful. Again, thank you to the people who were kind enough to answer my questions and try and give me useable knowledge.


Well said.

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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 12:06:21 PM   
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You people crack me up. I'd bet at least 1/2 of the women I've met from here on terms similar to these. And ya know what? Not only wasn't she complaining-she was fucking begging for it.
I get the safeguards and all that (And I encourage them) but shit, this is in many ways a sex singles site, for people who are trying to meet others.
And if I'm meeting a chica from here that I've talked to for a bit and we both know there is mutual interest...and the chemistry is flying, yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."
I mean, WTF else am I meeting em for, taking time out of my busy life, coughing up hard earned loot? I have a sexual interest in her. She may just have one in me. That's the fucking point of the meeting-to see if that electricity that flies online and through the phone translates to real life.
If it does, great. And if not, oh well. At least we didn't waste a whole lotta precious time finding that crucial little truth out.
Most of the time they ain't offended in the least. Cripes, the vast majority of the time you can almost hear the sigh of relief when they realized I would take charge. That shit turned em on too, make no mistakes about that.

Women are just as much sluts as men are dogs. Here and elsewhere.

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.


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yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."


You crack me up. I don't have to tell them anything, She knows it even if I just walk into the room carrying an ice cream cone. She just doesn't know when.

Talk about posturing in writing! This proves my point about posturing Doms. So, are you the Dom the OP wrote about? I bet you are, you devil. You start this shit with this girl and then jump in and play super dom? You crack me up.

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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 1:12:08 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: Arturas


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ORIGINAL: Kana

You people crack me up. I'd bet at least 1/2 of the women I've met from here on terms similar to these. And ya know what? Not only wasn't she complaining-she was fucking begging for it.
I get the safeguards and all that (And I encourage them) but shit, this is in many ways a sex singles site, for people who are trying to meet others.
And if I'm meeting a chica from here that I've talked to for a bit and we both know there is mutual interest...and the chemistry is flying, yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."
I mean, WTF else am I meeting em for, taking time out of my busy life, coughing up hard earned loot? I have a sexual interest in her. She may just have one in me. That's the fucking point of the meeting-to see if that electricity that flies online and through the phone translates to real life.
If it does, great. And if not, oh well. At least we didn't waste a whole lotta precious time finding that crucial little truth out.
Most of the time they ain't offended in the least. Cripes, the vast majority of the time you can almost hear the sigh of relief when they realized I would take charge. That shit turned em on too, make no mistakes about that.

Women are just as much sluts as men are dogs. Here and elsewhere.

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.


quote:

yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."


You crack me up. I don't have to tell them anything, She knows it even if I just walk into the room carrying an ice cream cone. She just doesn't know when.

Talk about posturing in writing! This proves my point about posturing Doms. So, are you the Dom the OP wrote about? I bet you are, you devil. You start this shit with this girl and then jump in and play super dom? You crack me up.

Egads-I've been outed.
And you promised you wouldn't tell...

Quick-back in the phone booth to presto change-o back into my secret identity as mild mannered, law abiding,gentleman and all around man about town XXXXXXX (name deleted for reasons of National Security.)



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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 1:16:30 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arturas


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ORIGINAL: Kana

You people crack me up. I'd bet at least 1/2 of the women I've met from here on terms similar to these. And ya know what? Not only wasn't she complaining-she was fucking begging for it.
I get the safeguards and all that (And I encourage them) but shit, this is in many ways a sex singles site, for people who are trying to meet others.
And if I'm meeting a chica from here that I've talked to for a bit and we both know there is mutual interest...and the chemistry is flying, yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."
I mean, WTF else am I meeting em for, taking time out of my busy life, coughing up hard earned loot? I have a sexual interest in her. She may just have one in me. That's the fucking point of the meeting-to see if that electricity that flies online and through the phone translates to real life.
If it does, great. And if not, oh well. At least we didn't waste a whole lotta precious time finding that crucial little truth out.
Most of the time they ain't offended in the least. Cripes, the vast majority of the time you can almost hear the sigh of relief when they realized I would take charge. That shit turned em on too, make no mistakes about that.

Women are just as much sluts as men are dogs. Here and elsewhere.

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.


quote:

yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."


You crack me up. I don't have to tell them anything, She knows it even if I just walk into the room carrying an ice cream cone. She just doesn't know when.

Talk about posturing in writing! This proves my point about posturing Doms. So, are you the Dom the OP wrote about? I bet you are, you devil. You start this shit with this girl and then jump in and play super dom? You crack me up.



Aren't you cute


At least he has a slave smart enough not to air dirty laundry (if there were any) on the boards. She has more class and respect for him than that.

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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 2:11:07 PM   
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oops. Sorry.






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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 4:01:39 PM   
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lw, although it is a nice picture and well fitting in the flow of the posts (grinning). You still haven't aired any dirty laundry because usually clothes have been washed before they get hung out to dry.

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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 4:34:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir


Aren't you cute


At least he has a slave smart enough not to air dirty laundry (if there were any) on the boards. She has more class and respect for him than that.


And he's done his share of dirty laundry airing too...not just his partner.

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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 5:32:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lizi


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Aren't you cute


At least he has a slave smart enough not to air dirty laundry (if there were any) on the boards. She has more class and respect for him than that.


And he's done his share of dirty laundry airing too...not just his partner.

PLEASE tell me the twatwaffle calling jeff a rapist isn't arturas property?

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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 6:11:50 PM   
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oops. Sorry.








That's CLEAN laundry, littlewonder, not dirty

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RE: Very new - 3/5/2013 9:52:01 PM   
littlewonder


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Well I don't have any dirty laundry! Ya know, us slaves gotta keep up on all that washing.




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RE: Very new - 3/6/2013 8:04:50 AM   
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PLEASE tell me the twatwaffle calling jeff a rapist isn't arturas property?

LOL, I don't think so. I think that was just a random newbie who I happened to disagree with on her first few threads and now I'm the enemy. I'm still laughing over that one myself.


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RE: Very new - 3/6/2013 8:30:34 AM   
Arturas


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ORIGINAL: Kana


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ORIGINAL: Arturas


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ORIGINAL: Kana

You people crack me up. I'd bet at least 1/2 of the women I've met from here on terms similar to these. And ya know what? Not only wasn't she complaining-she was fucking begging for it.
I get the safeguards and all that (And I encourage them) but shit, this is in many ways a sex singles site, for people who are trying to meet others.
And if I'm meeting a chica from here that I've talked to for a bit and we both know there is mutual interest...and the chemistry is flying, yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."
I mean, WTF else am I meeting em for, taking time out of my busy life, coughing up hard earned loot? I have a sexual interest in her. She may just have one in me. That's the fucking point of the meeting-to see if that electricity that flies online and through the phone translates to real life.
If it does, great. And if not, oh well. At least we didn't waste a whole lotta precious time finding that crucial little truth out.
Most of the time they ain't offended in the least. Cripes, the vast majority of the time you can almost hear the sigh of relief when they realized I would take charge. That shit turned em on too, make no mistakes about that.

Women are just as much sluts as men are dogs. Here and elsewhere.

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.


quote:

yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."


You crack me up. I don't have to tell them anything, She knows it even if I just walk into the room carrying an ice cream cone. She just doesn't know when.

Talk about posturing in writing! This proves my point about posturing Doms. So, are you the Dom the OP wrote about? I bet you are, you devil. You start this shit with this girl and then jump in and play super dom? You crack me up.

Egads-I've been outed.
And you promised you wouldn't tell...

Quick-back in the phone booth to presto change-o back into my secret identity as mild mannered, law abiding,gentleman and all around man about town XXXXXXX (name deleted for reasons of National Security.)




Sorry... :)

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RE: Very new - 3/6/2013 8:53:53 AM   
Arturas


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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir


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ORIGINAL: Arturas


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ORIGINAL: Kana

You people crack me up. I'd bet at least 1/2 of the women I've met from here on terms similar to these. And ya know what? Not only wasn't she complaining-she was fucking begging for it.
I get the safeguards and all that (And I encourage them) but shit, this is in many ways a sex singles site, for people who are trying to meet others.
And if I'm meeting a chica from here that I've talked to for a bit and we both know there is mutual interest...and the chemistry is flying, yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."
I mean, WTF else am I meeting em for, taking time out of my busy life, coughing up hard earned loot? I have a sexual interest in her. She may just have one in me. That's the fucking point of the meeting-to see if that electricity that flies online and through the phone translates to real life.
If it does, great. And if not, oh well. At least we didn't waste a whole lotta precious time finding that crucial little truth out.
Most of the time they ain't offended in the least. Cripes, the vast majority of the time you can almost hear the sigh of relief when they realized I would take charge. That shit turned em on too, make no mistakes about that.

Women are just as much sluts as men are dogs. Here and elsewhere.

Cackles madly.
Course, I once had one of those first meet chica's tell me, "You ooze domination," so maybe my experience is slightly different than the norm.


quote:

yeah, I tell em point blank, in advance, "If I like you, I'm gonna make a move on ya."


You crack me up. I don't have to tell them anything, She knows it even if I just walk into the room carrying an ice cream cone. She just doesn't know when.

Talk about posturing in writing! This proves my point about posturing Doms. So, are you the Dom the OP wrote about? I bet you are, you devil. You start this shit with this girl and then jump in and play super dom? You crack me up.



Aren't you cute


At least he has a slave smart enough not to air dirty laundry (if there were any) on the boards. She has more class and respect for him than that.


I am very sure he does and I admire him for it.

But, why do you suggest this about tam and I? Is this where you point to a two year old post by tam when she was very ill with fibro, on pain meds and stressed with having my daughter at the house and was asking for advice and a little support?

You know, tam and I have been together since 2009 and are together and doing very well at this minute. Today while I work in the study she is cleaning out her three aquariums with the kids since they are home on a snow day. The kids are grown now and adapted to the household and I have adapted to them and they bring me joy. I love them, all of them, and I am a master of me and friend, lover, dom and master for tam but not of the children. For them I am a father, a friend and provider and I would have it no other way as a man.

Thanks for bringing up the subject and letting me share a little real. Have you reviewed my journals, especially the old ones? They are some highlights of my life with tam and the kids and I'm sure you'll find more real there also as well as more emotion, both good and bad in a real story of a couple who met on Collarme and built a life together with all the good and bad that comes to one in life, shared together.

It was cute, wasn't it?

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