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RE: Am I strange? or is what I want, unreasonable? - 3/19/2013 5:40:55 PM

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Kris as a switch I take offense to "mr. Do me cause I said so" being called a switch. Switches don't harm for thrills, aren't indecisive & don't change the story of what/who they are to gain public approval for piss poor behavior.

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RE: Am I strange? or is what I want, unreasonable? - 3/20/2013 11:21:56 AM

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wow...I'm kind of shocked but I can't fault any of the thoughts on me or myself.

I guess you all are right.. I was kind of a bully( not really), if that's how you take it. It's an Alpha Male thing. I guess it's more a "kink" than it is about a relationship. I guess those of you in here are here for a huge emotional lifestyle and "need" this dynamic. I guess I don't.. So if I'm just "playing" with the people involved and they ask me to, then I guess, I'm an asshole? haha

I guess I should get paid like the "whores" on craigslist just to have fun? I don't know.. I didn't think it was that big of a deal but I digress. Maybe I will lay off this scene and really investigate if this is something I want, or just a "phase" as for many of you it is not, but it is mainly a "true" life I take it. No disrespect.. just thought what I wanted or was doing was okay, I guess it's not.

This is the reason I only take on, or mess with straight males with the same type of agenda, as they aren't "emotionally" attached. It's a Kink.. thanks for clarifying.. no worries..

I am not saying I am right and you are wrong. What I am saying is if this is a fetish you have then be honest about your motivations. Only you can accurately determine if what you want is ok. The problem arises is knowing too many men who automatically state they aren't *into* men yet seek out a sexual encounter with a gay man and pass it off on some lame excuse and not being honest with themselves about what they desire. Maybe you do have some bisexual leanings and maybe don't yet that is only something which you are able to determine. Just don't hide behind a facade that may be slightly off kilter.

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RE: Am I strange? or is what I want, unreasonable? - 3/20/2013 11:28:54 AM

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I told you, I am intrigued by human sexuality, gay or straight isn't what intrigues me. I more intrigued with what makes a person "climax" why they would want a "master" or desire to be a "sub" or why one desires to be a "master" also the fact that you can alter or change what makes someone "horny" or create something that "changes" there own views on the issue. That is what I am into.

This it it right here. For many of us, BDSM is not always about kinky sex though it does have it's place in WIITWD. This is why I am able to negotiate a scene with a person and their gender and/or sexual orientation has little bearing. I am able and have played with both male and female tops both gay and straight. It is only when I am playing with a gay male top where the play gets highly sexual in nature - for me and possibly for the top also. There are a couple female dominants here who I would love the opportunity to have a play session with but logistics prevent that right now.

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RE: Am I strange? or is what I want, unreasonable? - 3/20/2013 2:20:01 PM

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What part of no sex, and fucking their woman don't you scat cummers not understand? I digress... haha whateve's. I'm going to keep doing me.

I was with you up until this point. Before you seemed pretty reasonable and well adjusted. But not being able to handle some strangers critique on the internet (and you know how maligned the credibilty of THE INTERNET is, ehh) doesn't paint you in a favorable, rational picture.

Either way, as far as I can tell... if the people you're engaging with understand what you're about and why you're doing what you're doing and that you don't care about them beyond your fantasies... I don't really see an ethical problem. They're using you... you're using them.... Practice safer sex and you're good to go, jerk or not.

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