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Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/10/2013 3:38:26 PM   
SatanicDevil


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I just want to add some advice to my fellow subbys here..

Mistresses please correct me if i go wrong...

Pleasing a Mistress is an art by itself... with alot of great rewards for the subby...rewards he would never achieve easily...
See, when you please your partner (girlfriend who is not a domme), she will want to make you happy.

Mistresses are much more demanding... Some are pleased in an hour some in a a day etc...
But the rewards recieved for being a good subby are much more pleasing...It feels like your in Heaven...
Youd be on your knees the next moment telling your mistress "Please Mistress how can i be a better slave" although youve been a good one.


So hang on and Obey...Its definitely worth it...


WHat do you think ?? Any opinions on this?
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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/10/2013 3:46:53 PM   
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There are about a hundred and twenty opinions on a current thread regarding the "art of submission" thing. Here's a link. http://www.collarchat.com/m_4395596/tm.htm


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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/10/2013 3:50:07 PM   
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True,

my bad!!!!

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/10/2013 11:59:24 PM   
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What a bunch of drivel.

Who on earth ever gave you the idea that a gf was supposed to please you? You do realize that your gf could very well, and easily, be your Mistress as well.

You are stuck in a porn fantasy. Get your head out of your own arse!!

Wickad

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/11/2013 1:41:14 AM   
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I quoted this for truth....except one thing. What on earth makes you think your domme wants you to be miserable all the time? If my boys and gurls serve me well I want them to be happy. Does that make me a bad domme? No, it means you (OP) watch to much porn or have no idea how real life works.
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ORIGINAL: Wickad

(fast reply)

What a bunch of drivel.

Who on earth ever gave you the idea that a gf was supposed to please you? You do realize that your gf could very well, and easily, be your Mistress as well.

You are stuck in a porn fantasy. Get your head out of your own arse!!

Wickad



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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/11/2013 2:54:43 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wickad

(fast reply)

What a bunch of drivel.

Who on earth ever gave you the idea that a gf was supposed to please you? You do realize that your gf could very well, and easily, be your Mistress as well.

You are stuck in a porn fantasy. Get your head out of your own arse!!

Wickad



Oh Really shes not supposed to ? lol ;)


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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

I quoted this for truth....except one thing. What on earth makes you think your domme wants you to be miserable all the time? If my boys and gurls serve me well I want them to be happy. Does that make me a bad domme? No, it means you (OP) watch to much porn or have no idea how real life works.
quote:

ORIGINAL: Wickad

(fast reply)

What a bunch of drivel.

Who on earth ever gave you the idea that a gf was supposed to please you? You do realize that your gf could very well, and easily, be your Mistress as well.

You are stuck in a porn fantasy. Get your head out of your own arse!!

Wickad




Thats exactly what im saying... Be good and Obey...

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/11/2013 8:30:52 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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You posted this about two hours after posting this: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4398868/tm.htm

In that two hours, you've learned so much that you now feel you are learned and wise enough to post advice to all submissive men?

My advice: Join your local BDSM community. Go to as many events as possible. After four or five years, come to this board and you might be qualified to give some useful advice.

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

I just want to add some advice to my fellow subbys here..

Mistresses please correct me if i go wrong...

Pleasing a Mistress is an art by itself... with alot of great rewards for the subby...rewards he would never achieve easily...
See, when you please your partner (girlfriend who is not a domme), she will want to make you happy.

Mistresses are much more demanding... Some are pleased in an hour some in a a day etc...
But the rewards recieved for being a good subby are much more pleasing...It feels like your in Heaven...
Youd be on your knees the next moment telling your mistress "Please Mistress how can i be a better slave" although youve been a good one.


So hang on and Obey...Its definitely worth it...


WHat do you think ?? Any opinions on this?


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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/12/2013 2:18:58 AM   
SatanicDevil


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

You posted this about two hours after posting this: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4398868/tm.htm

In that two hours, you've learned so much that you now feel you are learned and wise enough to post advice to all submissive men?

My advice: Join your local BDSM community. Go to as many events as possible. After four or five years, come to this board and you might be qualified to give some useful advice.

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

I just want to add some advice to my fellow subbys here..

Mistresses please correct me if i go wrong...

Pleasing a Mistress is an art by itself... with alot of great rewards for the subby...rewards he would never achieve easily...
See, when you please your partner (girlfriend who is not a domme), she will want to make you happy.

Mistresses are much more demanding... Some are pleased in an hour some in a a day etc...
But the rewards recieved for being a good subby are much more pleasing...It feels like your in Heaven...
Youd be on your knees the next moment telling your mistress "Please Mistress how can i be a better slave" although youve been a good one.


So hang on and Obey...Its definitely worth it...


WHat do you think ?? Any opinions on this?





Whats getting on your nerves mate?
How about you take it easy!!
We here to discuss and share different opinions. If you oppose my opinions its your right, but i dont really appreciate when an arrogant Bas***d like you comes in here and starts talking SH*T.

Relax and have some fun "Mr. Ive got more than 20 years of this under my belt" hahah

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/12/2013 2:28:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

Pleasing a Mistress is an art by itself... with alot of great rewards for the subby...rewards he would never achieve easily...
See, when you please your partner (girlfriend who is not a domme), she will want to make you happy.



So pleasing a girlfriend isn't any fun, because in turn, she'll want to make you happy?
But pleasing a Mistress is fun, because in turn, she'll reward you (to make you happy and enforce good behavior)?

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

Mistresses are much more demanding... Some are pleased in an hour some in a a day etc...



Oh, no wait... I see... pleasing a Mistress is more fun than pleasing a girlfriend, because Mistresses are more demanding.

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

But the rewards recieved for being a good subby are much more pleasing...It feels like your in Heaven...
Youd be on your knees the next moment telling your mistress "Please Mistress how can i be a better slave" although youve been a good one.



Oh shit no, I still had it wrong... pleasing a Mistress is more fun because the rewards are better (lousy girlfriends.... not giving suitable good rewards... making it all about themselves...).

So pleasing a Mistress is more fun, because it's a self-serving activity, only centered around getting your kinky on, and your dick hard... did I get that right?

Dude... maybe you should reconsider giving advice as long as you don't have a clue of and btw... This kind of attitude to constructive criticism...

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

Whats getting on your nerves mate?
How about you take it easy!!
We here to discuss and share different opinions. If you oppose my opinions its your right, but i dont really appreciate when an arrogant Bas***d like you comes in here and starts talking SH*T.

Relax and have some fun "Mr. Ive got more than 20 years of this under my belt" hahah



Is NOT considered pleasing by most Mistresses that tend to frequent this board...

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/12/2013 5:31:45 AM   
SatanicDevil


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quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

Pleasing a Mistress is an art by itself... with alot of great rewards for the subby...rewards he would never achieve easily...
See, when you please your partner (girlfriend who is not a domme), she will want to make you happy.



So pleasing a girlfriend isn't any fun, because in turn, she'll want to make you happy?
But pleasing a Mistress is fun, because in turn, she'll reward you (to make you happy and enforce good behavior)?

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

Mistresses are much more demanding... Some are pleased in an hour some in a a day etc...



Oh, no wait... I see... pleasing a Mistress is more fun than pleasing a girlfriend, because Mistresses are more demanding.

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

But the rewards recieved for being a good subby are much more pleasing...It feels like your in Heaven...
Youd be on your knees the next moment telling your mistress "Please Mistress how can i be a better slave" although youve been a good one.



Oh shit no, I still had it wrong... pleasing a Mistress is more fun because the rewards are better (lousy girlfriends.... not giving suitable good rewards... making it all about themselves...).

So pleasing a Mistress is more fun, because it's a self-serving activity, only centered around getting your kinky on, and your dick hard... did I get that right?

Dude... maybe you should reconsider giving advice as long as you don't have a clue of and btw... This kind of attitude to constructive criticism...

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

Whats getting on your nerves mate?
How about you take it easy!!
We here to discuss and share different opinions. If you oppose my opinions its your right, but i dont really appreciate when an arrogant Bas***d like you comes in here and starts talking SH*T.

Relax and have some fun "Mr. Ive got more than 20 years of this under my belt" hahah



Is NOT considered pleasing by most Mistresses that tend to frequent this board...



LOL
His critisicm was in no way constructive.

If you read my first post i specifically stated "Please correct me if im wrong".

and btw, im not here to please all or most mistresses.....
Im here to get more info, thats about it.

If i find "THE ONE" then thats good, if not then im just learning.

Thankx for your input anyhow.




< Message edited by SatanicDevil -- 3/12/2013 5:34:17 AM >

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/12/2013 6:48:06 AM   
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quote:

Dude... maybe you should reconsider giving advice as long as you don't have a clue of and btw... This kind of attitude to constructive criticism...


Did you think this was advice, as such? Me, I just read what I took to be an exclamation by a newish BDSMer gripped by a kind of sub-rush.

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/12/2013 2:32:35 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil


quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

You posted this about two hours after posting this: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4398868/tm.htm

In that two hours, you've learned so much that you now feel you are learned and wise enough to post advice to all submissive men?

My advice: Join your local BDSM community. Go to as many events as possible. After four or five years, come to this board and you might be qualified to give some useful advice.

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

I just want to add some advice to my fellow subbys here..

Mistresses please correct me if i go wrong...

Pleasing a Mistress is an art by itself... with alot of great rewards for the subby...rewards he would never achieve easily...
See, when you please your partner (girlfriend who is not a domme), she will want to make you happy.

Mistresses are much more demanding... Some are pleased in an hour some in a a day etc...
But the rewards recieved for being a good subby are much more pleasing...It feels like your in Heaven...
Youd be on your knees the next moment telling your mistress "Please Mistress how can i be a better slave" although youve been a good one.


So hang on and Obey...Its definitely worth it...


WHat do you think ?? Any opinions on this?





Whats getting on your nerves mate?
How about you take it easy!!
We here to discuss and share different opinions. If you oppose my opinions its your right, but i dont really appreciate when an arrogant Bas***d like you comes in here and starts talking SH*T.

Relax and have some fun "Mr. Ive got more than 20 years of this under my belt" hahah

quote:

WHat do you think ?? Any opinions on this?


Getting on my nerves? Funny, I'm not the one calling people names. I simply pointed out to you that with your apparent complete lack of experience and the fact that it looks like you live in FantasyPornoLand, you are in no way qualified to be giving unsolicited advice to submissive men.

I do take it easy. Except when I'm with a dominant who wants me to take it hard. And then I take it however she wants me to take it.

We, indeed are here to discuss different opinions. Part of discussing opinions is pointing out those opinions, such as the one stated in your OP which we find invalid or based on fantasy.

If you consider anyone who points out the invalidity of your opinions to be a "Bas***d", by which I presume you mean "Bastard"; if you feel that anybody who expresses the opinion that your statements are based in fantasy to be talking "SH*T", by which I presume you mean "SHIT", then why do you bother asking "WHat do you think ?? Any opinions on this?" Since you're obviously not interested in any opinion that differs from your fantasy.

quote:



If you read my first post i specifically stated "Please correct me if im wrong".



And yet, when somebody DOES correct you because you're wrong, you call him a "Bas***d... talking SH*T.]

quote:



and btw, im not here to please all or most mistresses.....
Im here to get more info, thats about it.



How do you get more info by giving fantasy based advice to people who know a lot more than you then slinging insults at them when they tell you that?

quote:



If i find "THE ONE" then thats good, if not then im just learning.



"Learning" involves being willing to listen to and consider opinions which disagree with your own, not rejecting them with insults.

< Message edited by HarryVanWinkle -- 3/12/2013 2:41:52 PM >

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/12/2013 3:50:49 PM   
SatanicDevil


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil


quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

You posted this about two hours after posting this: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4398868/tm.htm

In that two hours, you've learned so much that you now feel you are learned and wise enough to post advice to all submissive men?

My advice: Join your local BDSM community. Go to as many events as possible. After four or five years, come to this board and you might be qualified to give some useful advice.

quote:

ORIGINAL: SatanicDevil

I just want to add some advice to my fellow subbys here..

Mistresses please correct me if i go wrong...

Pleasing a Mistress is an art by itself... with alot of great rewards for the subby...rewards he would never achieve easily...
See, when you please your partner (girlfriend who is not a domme), she will want to make you happy.

Mistresses are much more demanding... Some are pleased in an hour some in a a day etc...
But the rewards recieved for being a good subby are much more pleasing...It feels like your in Heaven...
Youd be on your knees the next moment telling your mistress "Please Mistress how can i be a better slave" although youve been a good one.


So hang on and Obey...Its definitely worth it...


WHat do you think ?? Any opinions on this?





Whats getting on your nerves mate?
How about you take it easy!!
We here to discuss and share different opinions. If you oppose my opinions its your right, but i dont really appreciate when an arrogant Bas***d like you comes in here and starts talking SH*T.

Relax and have some fun "Mr. Ive got more than 20 years of this under my belt" hahah

quote:

WHat do you think ?? Any opinions on this?


Getting on my nerves? Funny, I'm not the one calling people names. I simply pointed out to you that with your apparent complete lack of experience and the fact that it looks like you live in FantasyPornoLand, you are in no way qualified to be giving unsolicited advice to submissive men.

I do take it easy. Except when I'm with a dominant who wants me to take it hard. And then I take it however she wants me to take it.

We, indeed are here to discuss different opinions. Part of discussing opinions is pointing out those opinions, such as the one stated in your OP which we find invalid or based on fantasy.

If you consider anyone who points out the invalidity of your opinions to be a "Bas***d", by which I presume you mean "Bastard"; if you feel that anybody who expresses the opinion that your statements are based in fantasy to be talking "SH*T", by which I presume you mean "SHIT", then why do you bother asking "WHat do you think ?? Any opinions on this?" Since you're obviously not interested in any opinion that differs from your fantasy.

quote:



If you read my first post i specifically stated "Please correct me if im wrong".



And yet, when somebody DOES correct you because you're wrong, you call him a "Bas***d... talking SH*T.]

quote:



and btw, im not here to please all or most mistresses.....
Im here to get more info, thats about it.



How do you get more info by giving fantasy based advice to people who know a lot more than you then slinging insults at them when they tell you that?

quote:



If i find "THE ONE" then thats good, if not then im just learning.



"Learning" involves being willing to listen to and consider opinions which disagree with your own, not rejecting them with insults.




Im not gonna even bother with you. Enjoy the forums mate!

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/12/2013 4:10:55 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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My, what an open mind you have there.

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/12/2013 9:34:36 PM   
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I'm not saying any names here, but when someone who doesn't really know shit yet comes in and claims to know it all with a cocky little bastard attitude, it really impresses me....the WRONG way.

NBMG

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/13/2013 12:07:35 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

I'm not saying any names here, but when someone who doesn't really know shit yet comes in and claims to know it all with a cocky little bastard attitude, it really impresses me....the WRONG way.

NBMG


Well I've learned something. Who knew I was supposed to be obeying the dominant? This is really going to help my relationship as a sub. Maybe I will even get some of those rewards he mentioned.

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/13/2013 1:40:15 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

Dude... maybe you should reconsider giving advice as long as you don't have a clue of and btw... This kind of attitude to constructive criticism...


Did you think this was advice, as such? Me, I just read what I took to be an exclamation by a newish BDSMer gripped by a kind of sub-rush.


Sarcasm darling... Apperently I should have put quotation marks around "advice".

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/13/2013 1:42:26 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders


Well I've learned something. Who knew I was supposed to be obeying the dominant? This is really going to help my relationship as a sub. Maybe I will even get some of those rewards he mentioned.


Only if you make me cum some more.

< Message edited by UllrsIshtar -- 3/13/2013 1:43:18 AM >


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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/13/2013 1:46:50 AM   
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Interesting Goddess of Logic....From Banksy to german to french. I like! ;D

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RE: Pleasing a MIstress!!! - 3/13/2013 2:00:53 AM   
UllrsIshtar


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Thank...

Ik spreek ook Nederlands.

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