Kana
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ORIGINAL: domccc
I do want to control her sexually... i dislike the fact that she cums on cam for men, they cam to cam... etc. It's not the same as stripping, because there is nothing sexual happening in stripping.. strippers can be naked on you but no cock in you etc etc...
A-Toys and insertables ain't cocks.
B-Man, you need to get out more. I've known some strippers who go way beyond just dancing. Lap dances to start. Then there's the gals who do Bachelor parties and such...
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in camming, she is sticking all diff toys in her, etc etc, vibrators etc, i desire training her to need me and only me.
Yeah, but that shits a mental thing far more than a physical thing. Get way in her head is how you get to a gal. With men,it's easy. Get their cock and the mind follows. With women, it's almost always the opposite. Capture her heart and no matter what she's doing, she'll be thinking about doing it with/for you.
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She wont be deprived, but i feel it's a dominance thing...
I beg to differ. This has zip to do with dominance. In fact, in the end, it's got zip to do with her and everything to do with what's going on inside of you. Not to be rude or anything, but your problem is, well, your problem. Inside job, here.
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one i cant break.
Uuuh, that's not good. It really helps in dominating another to be able to exercise self domination first. I'd suggest "'can't" means more like "opts not to."
Because who the funk would want to turn over control of, oooh, everything in their life, to a person who can't even control themselves?
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Furthermore i caught myself peeking on her cam today...
Creeeeeeepy
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first time, seeing if she was following orders not to do anything sexual.
Red flag. Red flag. Either you trust her or you don't. And if you gotta check up on her, that speaks volumes.
And kinda stalkeresque too.
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She didn't, however she stated she would "do a gold show when she got home from the bar and was drunk", this severely angered me, due to the fact she promised me she wouldn't drink, and also isn't supposed to be doing anything sexual until tomorrow when we meet.
No bueno. JMHO and all, but if she doesn't do what you say, you may or may not be in a relationship, but it sure as hell ain't a bound one. At least, not in my book.
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She contradicted herself.
Sounds more like point blank disobedience to moi. And, not that there's not enough drama going on, but it's a bad bad sign when you have to order someone not to drink. I mean, people who don't have issues with booze can take it or leave it-they certainly don't need to be ordered not too. And to break the edict, yeah, we're getting towards run for the hills time.
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She could be lying to her users... however it wouldn't make sense because they have a connection to her that mirrors "big brother" sexually ... I was deeply wounded that she would say such a thing. Honestly almost brought me to tears due to the fact i had so much hope in her.
Dooood, this sounds like you have a bad case of dom frenzy.
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We will see how tonight plays out, but truly i may not see her tomorrow... i may let it go depending on how she acts tonight... i wouldn't be pissed if she didn't say she was following orders "yes sir no sir etc", but, when she breaks orders.... it severely turns me off (she is very hot, and just gets hit on all day), but the fact remains, so what? I can and could get a new girl every day, doesn't mean i want to, means i want to spend my time with one, the right one... it's a toss up at this point.
A-Why be with a gal who you don't trust?
B-Why stick with a gal who doesn't obey?
C-Why stay with a gal who isn't making you all that happy?
To me, BDSM is simple. I have three rules. Her point in my life is to serve, please and obey. Sounds to me like she's 0 fer 3.
Looks ain't everything. And the ego rush that comes from being with that gal that all the guys want-yeah, that's nice at first, but really comes off as kinda shallow and pathetic. Guys who date gals simply as sex objects, yeah, tells me nothing bout the gal and everything about him.
Cut this thing anyway you want, in the end, strip away all the cuffs and kink and latex and blowtorches, and it's just a relationship. Nothing more. Nothing less. And if there ain't trust at the root, the foundation is gonna crumble.
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