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are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is the... - 3/28/2013 8:42:24 PM   
hopefalls


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Status: offline 		feel like everytime i talk to someone on here, its impossible to get to know them, they always want tribute or money of some sort to talk or do things that might turn each other on, is there anyone geniunely interested in just empowering themselves , while i explore my submissive side with them, never tryed it before and im curious to see if i like it
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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/28/2013 8:57:47 PM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Status: offline 		Sorry but you are looking for online domination...you have heard "those who can do...those who can't..."? In the kinky world, those who can, do and those who can't...do online". In this case, you are asking to be provided a service, they are providing the service...for one time, I am siding with the Dommes who charge (as long as you are sending a 1099 at year end or are paying their FICAand unemployment taxes)

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/28/2013 9:03:04 PM   
muhly22222


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the forums, OP.

The rest of this is going to sound harsh, but it isn't meant that way. It's meant as helpful criticism, alright?

I perved your profile. The odds of you ever finding what you're looking for are about 99.99999999 to .00000000001.

The simple fact of the matter is that most women aren't interested in webcam-only "domination." They want the real thing, the flesh-and-blood you. That eliminates many, many women, most of whom won't make it past the first line of your profile.

The next thing that jumps out at me is that you label yourself as submissive, but then talk about how you can dominate, too. That just screams "Desperate and Horny."

Your grammar is all over the place. That turns off a lot of women. Clean it up.

When you talk about the kinds of girls you like, you automatically exclude those who don't think they fit that type. There's way too many fish in the sea for them to go chasing after somebody who isn't going to be attracted to them anyway.

Older women don't really like being called "older women." Instead, use a code phrase like, "Age is less important than personality."

Finally, to address your post here: women "dominating" you on webcam doesn't empower them in any way, nor are you exploring your submissive side. You're getting off on kinky play, that's all it is. There's nothing wrong with that, but recognize it for what it is. Sure, submitting can involve being the bottom in kinky play, but it can also be a whole lot more than that.

I get that you're new, that's why I've tried to tell these things to you. If you want more guidance, go down to the Ask a Mistress section and read the FAQ.

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/28/2013 9:03:29 PM   
hopefalls


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Status: offline 		im new to it all but thanks for the reply x

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/28/2013 9:06:47 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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From: The 'burbs of Portland, OR
Status: offline 		~FRing it~

Everyone so far has said it already. All I can add is that you are getting what your profile is asking for.

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/28/2013 9:46:35 PM   
absolutchocolat


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Status: offline 		Hey, online-only domination ain't cheap. Very few women want to be an internet plaything for free. Good luck in your search though.

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/28/2013 9:57:26 PM   
hopefalls


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Status: offline 		thanks x

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/28/2013 10:28:01 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the forums. To answer your question, yes, there are female lifestyle Dominants here. However, most of us are not going to be interested in watching online crap. There's not a thing that you can do on cam that I can't have right here in front of Me. Watching cam is about as "empowering" as going to the theater and watching "The Hobbit" so I can pretend I'm a wizard.


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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/28/2013 10:42:11 PM   
hopefalls


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Status: offline 		i am really getting called out here lol and well i guess its not for some people the online stuff and i'd respect that completely always x

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/29/2013 2:29:34 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Think about it like this, dude. You have to remember that kinky women are still women. The kink part doesn't change the basics all that much. How many non kinky women are really interested in some guy they don't know on cam? It's not exactly like there is a shortage of guys out there who want to rub one out and let people watch it.

I'll leave you with this. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWEWCWljaBU


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/29/2013 3:20:45 AM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Dont give up kiddo, just have patience.

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/29/2013 5:33:22 AM   
hopefalls


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Status: offline 		cool , will do xx

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/29/2013 7:43:08 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Why dont you try CollarMe's VideoChatroom and see if you can get a taste of it there?  There are online Dominatrixes there.

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/29/2013 7:55:52 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		Make my car payment and I'll tell you the answer.....

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 3/29/2013 9:58:10 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Welcome hope, webcam yawn, would i want to watch a slave on cam, wake me up when you've finished! Having said that, i'm sure there are lots of people who delight in cam for the wrong reasons.

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 6/12/2013 6:24:20 PM   
Topme333


Posts: 2
Joined: 8/7/2012
Status: offline 		I have not found One woman on here that is not a pro, and there is the guys pretending to be women just to get stories and pics, I'm getting close to giving up on this search.

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 6/12/2013 6:49:21 PM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Topme333
I have not found One woman on here that is not a pro...

Both your user name and your profile are geared to your kink, and there is
no mention of the type of companion you would be with your clothes on.
If you are looking for a relationship, you kind of have to be, you know, relatable.
Otherwise, you simply appear to be like the thousands of others here that are just
looking to get their tallywhacker smacked around a bit.

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RE: are all the woman looking for tribute on here or is... - 6/12/2013 7:35:08 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Topme333
I have not found One woman on here that is not a pro, and there is the guys pretending to be women just to get stories and pics, I'm getting close to giving up on this search.

Ironic that you brought up an old thread that very specifically has a lifestyle Domme on it.



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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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