Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Co-bottoming.


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> Co-bottoming. Page: [1]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Co-bottoming. - 3/29/2013 5:44:10 AM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline 		A nosy question.

I've seen lots of co-topping and read about it a lot. But I haven't seen much about co-bottoming.

My sub and I have begun occasionally adding another woman a few months ago. To me, it is the ultimate fantasy realized to have two women lying on the bed, and me strapping and flogging them alternately. They get to share the experience with each other, and share aftercare as well.

Is co-bottoming as common as co-topping in your experiences?

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Co-bottoming. - 3/29/2013 6:02:02 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Yes, I'd say it's rather common, particularly for those who are in dynamics with two submissives. Impact play, predicament bondage with two subjects, staples/needlework with ribbon laced between the two, wax with two bottoms, etc.

The support beams that I have in the dungeon downstairs are great for co-bottoming because we can have two people facing each other, back to back, or one chained to each pole where the top can move in front and back of each of them.


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Co-bottoming. - 3/29/2013 7:13:37 AM   
Hillwilliam


Posts: 19394
Joined: 8/27/2008
Status: offline 		The only co-bottoming I have ever been around personally was on a visit several years ago to a playmate who lived about 50 miles away near my birthday. A young lady that I had never met before answered the door with "Hello Sir, Happy Birthday, j and I have been waiting for you". It was a good weekend.


_____________________________

Kinkier than a cheap garden hose.

Whoever said "Religion is the opiate of the masses" never heard Right Wing talk radio.

Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Co-bottoming. - 3/29/2013 10:59:21 AM   
tsatske


Posts: 2037
Joined: 3/9/2007
From: Louisville, KY
Status: offline 		co-bottoming makes up almost all of my bisexual experience and most of my bisexual interest. I love having sistersubs, and I love playing with themm, or serving with them. It's my best times :). Most subs I know in LTRs are willing to at least occasionally co-bottom to give their Dtype some variety.

_____________________________

“If you never did you should. These things are fun and fun is good”
~Dr. Seuss quote

(in reply to Hillwilliam)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Co-bottoming. - 3/29/2013 11:13:51 AM   
BitaTruble


Posts: 9779
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: Texas
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

A nosy question.

I've seen lots of co-topping and read about it a lot. But I haven't seen much about co-bottoming.

My sub and I have begun occasionally adding another woman a few months ago. To me, it is the ultimate fantasy realized to have two women lying on the bed, and me strapping and flogging them alternately. They get to share the experience with each other, and share aftercare as well.

Is co-bottoming as common as co-topping in your experiences?

My personal experience, they are about the same or slightly scewed with more co-bottoming than co-topping but that could be because most of my friends are kinky bottoms and I'm a very friendly girl.

Mostly though, it's a matter of being in a very long term-relationship with a Master who would rather have me bent over something than standing next to him topping and he is pretty stingy about my playing target for another Top unless it's for a demo or class or something.

I think you will see more co-topping than co-bottoming in public simply because of the extra space needed for things that aren't standing room only and it's just kind of rude to take up two play stations for one scene. If you need, for example, two horses or spanking benches for your 'one' scene, then someone is left out in the cold waiting for you to finish hogging the equipement. In private, you don't have to worry about anyone becoming impatient or cramping your style so two, three, six ... how ever many your flogging elbow can handle.. more power to ya!


_____________________________

"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."


(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Co-bottoming. - 3/29/2013 11:44:55 AM   
ResidentSadist


Posts: 12580
Joined: 2/11/2007
From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
Status: offline 		By my experience, as I have seen it, co-topping is much more common than co-bottoming. However, co-subbing is a more common than co-Domming.

In public, even I get asked to co-top a bottom on display now and then. Frequently I see tops lending each other a hand with restraint, complex scenarios or just doubling up on a bottom. I rarely see a bottom jump in on a Top's scene or get asked to share in it. I see lots of Doms with multiple submissives and they scene with them collectively in public, but to me, that is Domming and subbing not topping.

I know only a few Dom/Dom couples that share one sub. However, Dom/sub/sub and poly Dom/me households with many subs are very common. I have only seen one poly house with multiple Doms that worked. But that is just my exposure. As social as I have been in my many days, it's a limited view.

_____________________________

-=BDSM Book List=- Reading is Fundamental !!!
I give good thread.

(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Co-bottoming. - 3/30/2013 6:33:09 AM   
MissImmortalPain


Posts: 2440
Joined: 4/1/2011
Status: offline 		It has happened more than a few times in my life, but I don't know if that makes it common or not. I would say that if it does happen it is more likely to happen with women than men. Boys seem to want to compete, where girls seem to want to share in some way.

_____________________________

It is always by way of pain that we arrive at pleasure.

We must all go through a right of passage,and it must be physical, it must be painful,and it must leave a mark.

(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Co-bottoming. - 3/30/2013 6:50:57 AM   
PonyGroom


Posts: 150
Joined: 2/26/2006
Status: offline 		I like tying a couple together and then doing things to them so they are rather forced to share the experience. Bonus if they get hot and sweaty. Sometimes there is a second top. When there are two tops and two bottoms and it's all one scene this gets very fun. One quick way to set up this kind of play is to use pallet wrap and simply wrap them together, standing, back to back or face to face.

Being spanked in rhythm and unison while kissing... Taking cane strokes while looking into your spouse's eyes... Not knowing what exactly is happening to her, or him, to produce such odd facial expressions... all good.

On the pony and pet play side, co-bottoming is very common. When two ponies are pulling the same cart, or in any situation where a handler has the reins of two ponies at once, we call that "two in hand". Some years ago I had five ponies on the same cart, and five sets of reins in my hand. They managed to step in time with each other.

(in reply to MissImmortalPain)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Co-bottoming. - 3/30/2013 4:43:55 PM   
samdarella


Posts: 222
Joined: 8/23/2010
Status: offline 		I don't know how common it is. I would love for it to be more common in my world. But I'm a perverted, bisexual masochistic slut. I love being tied face to face with a woman and being spanked/flogged/whipped etc. To feel her reactions, feel her breathing, knowing she can feel my pain and excitement. Oops I'm at work. Better let go of that line of thinking for now.

Being double topped rocks also.

Lady P...that sounds hot.

_____________________________

Take me to the edge.

Pain is....

(in reply to PonyGroom)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Co-bottoming. - 3/31/2013 8:03:27 AM   
littlewonder


Posts: 15659
Status: offline 		It's common. It's just not called co-bottoming. It's just someone playing with more than one bottom at a time. Happens lots and lots and lots.

_____________________________

Nothing has changed
Everything has changed

(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Co-bottoming. - 3/31/2013 4:46:04 PM   
samdarella


Posts: 222
Joined: 8/23/2010
Status: offline 		Last year at Bash a sub I know was suspended and being flogged front and back at the same time by a Dom couple. I was a tad envious. Looked awesome. But then again I'm a perverted bisexual masochistic slut. Damn I hate working weekends. Cuts into the social life in a big way. Luckily Master is understanding and patient bc He is even more of a social person than I am.

_____________________________

Take me to the edge.

Pain is....

(in reply to littlewonder)
Profile   Post #: 11
Page:   [1]
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> Co-bottoming. Page: [1]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078