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RE: Help identifying a sub please. - 4/1/2013 10:39:33 AM

mnottertail

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OP, its the one in the green dress, over there.

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RE: Help identifying a sub please. - 4/4/2013 9:58:03 AM

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Ok I am sure this has been addressed
1st Dom/Domme are Born it is not a choice & sub/slaves are born not made it is not a choice
2and Bedroom Dom’s, part time Dom’s, cyber Dom’s, etc... by choice really piss me off
3ard society has created the name not us
4th I think it’s time for you to go watch another movie and use that kink instead
5th It is not your place to say anything about her world or try to place her in society’s label box

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RE: Help identifying a sub please. - 4/10/2013 2:58:04 PM

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I know this is a first post and there are a lot of bullshitters on boards like this, I am not bullshitting , I implore you to give me ideas how to figure this girl out.

I'm sure better men than you have tried, you poor man.

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Please help me identify if she truly is a sub or not. Quite frankly I like this girl but my situation is one that I cannot keep her. If she really is a sub and not just some messed up woman I want to help her find peace and her place. I know the man she is presently with and I know he is in no way able to handle a sub, personally I don’t even think he would meet close to the definition of an alpha, hence why I think she latched on to me.

My time is short here in Russia I have to return state-side in a few weeks, I don’t want to leave without figuring out the best way to help her find her place even though that would mean without me.

So what if she is submissive, or a submissive with baggage?! How is any of this your business? Since when did being submissive become a handicapp?
Good luck in figuring yourself, and why you suddenly think you're so important, and need to save her out. M

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RE: Help identifying a sub please. - 4/10/2013 4:10:06 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HDFLSTC

Ok I am sure this has been addressed

Not quite...

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ORIGINAL: HDFLSTC

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A want to be Dom

Speaking from experience I see...

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RE: Help identifying a sub please. - 4/10/2013 4:20:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: HDFLSTC

Ok I am sure this has been addressed
1st Dom/Domme are Born it is not a choice & sub/slaves are born not made it is not a choice

<BZZZZZZ> Incorrect. You can naturally have a dominant or submissive personality, but being A Dominant or A submissive is a choice and a learned behavior.

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2and Bedroom Dom’s, part time Dom’s, cyber Dom’s, etc... by choice really piss me off

Why? What does it matter? I find cyber D/s to be silly, but as long as two people are consenting and happy, who the fuck cares? Why be pissed about it? They takin' yer wimmins?

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Scariest thing in the world
A want to be Dom/Domme with a roll of Duct Tape

I can think of tons of things scarier...starting with people that try to categorize other people into little boxes.

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RE: Help identifying a sub please. - 4/10/2013 4:47:21 PM

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But Don't some Dom/Dommes Find out they are what they are, by first being the submissive? Yes some people are just naturally one way or the other, But sometimes you have to try one, to figure out it isn't for you. PLUS some Doms are so great, because they was ONCE the submissive, and know what it felt like...so then it makes/made them a better Dom.
Any way just my lil' oh 2 cents worth of blabbering.

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RE: Help identifying a sub please. - 4/14/2013 10:10:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: starride

[snip] ...Yes I admit I fucked up with her ... [snip]

Ahhh... now it all makes sense. It sounds like she doesn't want you, and to save face and ego you have concluded there must, therefore, be something wrong with her. The somewhat self righteous "I will fix you" stance sounds like just a salve for your own bruised feelings.

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RE: Help identifying a sub please. - 4/14/2013 10:17:05 AM

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OsideGirl... I really enjoy your posts in general. Just sayin'.

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