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Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 9:21:05 AM   
Prestones


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Status: offline 		Soliciting your opinions - your thoughts, comments, and (dare I say) criticisms regards my bright, shiny, new profile. Let me know whether you find it good, bad, or ugly. OK, belay that last. Does it speak to you? Is it telling you to back slowly away, then break for the exit??

Curious minds want to know.

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 9:36:44 AM   
JeffBC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Prestones
Soliciting your opinions - your thoughts, comments, and (dare I say) criticisms regards my bright, shiny, new profile. Let me know whether you find it good, bad, or ugly. OK, belay that last. Does it speak to you? Is it telling you to back slowly away, then break for the exit??

Well, it didn't raise any red flags in me. What I read from it is that you're a reasonably decent guy who's looking for a kink/fuck buddy more than a relationship. That's not going to be compatible with me or any of the subs I'd tend to float around but it is certainly compatible with some and is far from creepy.


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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 10:08:27 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		What makes you think the tit slapping, ass reddening part is not romance?
It is a passable profile that shows what you expect. I would pass on it based on that fantasy of expecting HER to pick up some chick for you, but I am sure there are those out there who would try. We see a lot of that "my master is seeking a slut for use" threads on this board, so I know some will bite.

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 10:16:47 AM   
mnottertail


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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 11:48:33 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		I found it all a little...'meh', to be honest.

You talk about yourself in the first paragraph, but any good point is followed by a 'but'. For example you talk about sailing, then follow it with a 'but...'. In my mind, makes you seem a little less than confident. Make it a little more upbeat if you can, might snare someone with a similar sense of humour who is looking for a man with a very positive attitude.

The rest of it is too sexually graphic for my particular taste, but then again others might find it absolutely fine. I guess that's down to personal preference.

Then you throw in some 'do this' and 'do that' orders in the text. I found those to be mildly irritating and a little presumptuous. And the bit about you not being a romantic? Does that mean you're not looking for love, or that you want to find love but you're not a romantic? Might help to clarify that a bit.

Overall, if I were younger and looking, I'd probably pass you by, although I would probably chat with you if you messaged me first.



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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 12:03:41 PM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		so, so I dont know. Didn't ring any bells for me, but my door bell might be broke.

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 12:45:48 PM   
SinFix


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Status: offline 		heh...  didn't do a thing for me except make me roll my eyes...   yeah that whole you will find a third to join in bit definately a turn off...

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 2:03:28 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		It seemed at first you had a slight sense of humor.

Then you ruined it by everything else you put in.

You are overly graphic about sex (advice? since you are over 40: women do NOT need to be told what you like to do sexually, you and every other guy on the planet like the same things. Plus, I personally like a man with more finesse, you know, he does not need to broadcast everything he and I will do together, he might let it happen organically, you know).

You also state you are not a romantic, so that blows you out of the water for me.

Then you ask for another chick, never going to happen, next.

Finally, you threw in a few Do This and Do That and you do not really believe that anyone will obey a stranger online, do you?

At least you did not throw up a cock photo, kudos for that.

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 2:09:25 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		This seems harsh, and strange to me, but...

quote:

If what you've written looks like it could have come from an online dating service profile, we're not meant to meet. I'm not here for romance.
Why such harsh writing requirements? What's wrong with romance? I'm picturing "you will always walk in, get knocked over the head, and I'll have my way with you." Forget that dinner, and conversation cutsie stuff.

I didn't even get far past all the sex details. I suppose some girls will be into that. M

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 2:11:15 PM   
searching4mysir


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Not my cup of tea and we wouldn't be compatible for several reasons

1 - I'm monogamous
2 - Until we have agreed upon a dynamic, you don't have the right to tell me what to do
3 - Slapping my face is a hard limit
4 - A dom who sends his sub out to get pussy is lazy in my eyes and that isn't a good character trait
5 - The sexually explicit reads like bad porn.
6 - "Expect to dress (or undress) like a slut at times and places of my choosing." tells me that I would need to trust you not to have me break the law and risk indecent exposure and ending up on a sex offenders list. That trust isn't going to come quickly or easily.


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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 3:24:21 PM   
phoenixasubbie


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Status: offline 		It's not my cup of tea for sure, but I thought you did a good job of expressing who you are and what you want

But here there is a market for whatever anybody's selling...

Bu

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 4:24:28 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		I liked your first two paragraphs and agree with previous feedback on the second two.

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 4:59:16 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		If I'm looking for a possible relationship, any profile with sexual detail in it gets bypassed immediately.

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 5:31:52 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		Profile did not float my boat but I think the picture is good. The graphic details are a total turn-off for me leaving little room for surprises. I'd pass.

It's so-so as far as profiles go. Better than some but lots of room for improvement.

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 7:37:02 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		Picture and first two paragraphs were good, but I'd suggest dropping the last two paragraphs. Unless, as others have suggested, you're just looking for some kinky fun and not a relationship. Even then, there's too much detail for my liking.



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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 8:17:17 PM   
Spiritedsub2


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Status: offline 		Couldn't continue to read it past the early second paragraph. Good luck in your search.

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 8:46:43 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		What Red said.

In addition, if you're using this to find a partner, then you are using an online dating site. Deal with it.

You aren't offering a relationship, just a hard cock, and at your age even that's debatable. So what makes you worth talking to, instead of the guy who does the same sex stuff you do but also wants to talk to his partner, and wants to have a relationship with her?

The only reason I'm not immediately assuming you're married is that you didn't use the word discreet. But the whole sex only thing makes me assume you are getting your love and friendship needs met elsewhere.



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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 9:24:28 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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From: The 'burbs of Portland, OR
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Remember that older dating show Love Connection with Chuck Woolery? In the spirit of this show, I submit the following:

Well, the profile started out great, Chuck. He talked about some hobbies and interests. I got a look at who he was and what he used to do. Then the profile went from wow to eww. Face slapping, pussy tenderizing, nipple twisting, ass fucking, spanking. It didnt make much sense to me to hear him say that he'd slap someone's face while his cock was between her teeth, but maybe he just likes to live dangerously. And don't even get me started on my being asked to procure other women. Last time I checked, Chuck...my name isn't Pimp and I am not a purveyor of pussy.

In all seriousness, I found myself wondering if you weren't just some HNG who stumbled onto BDSM because its been my experience that when profiles are all über dom like yours devolved into, the odds are really good that the fantasy of BDSM left no room for the reality of BDSM. But like some of the others were saying, you're bound to find a buyer for what you're selling. Best of luck

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/4/2013 9:40:49 PM   
Prestones


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Status: offline 		Just got back to CM, and I see the jury is in - dial back the eww factor considerably. I can be taught...

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RE: Throwin' it out there - 4/5/2013 8:36:33 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Well, it does look better this morning. But if I were you and you do lure in a potential, you should be mentioning that desire for her to net another girl when you want it.

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