RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme?

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MikeyMike12 -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/16/2013 10:19:58 AM)
Yes, definitely someone who doesn't expect me to submit on a whim. dominate after submission is a good one

garyFLR -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/16/2013 12:39:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary Id like a dom who can be compassionate when necessary, but stern and demanding. I need to obey, it is sortof my thing,so Id want him commanding and strong.Id like clearcut expectations.I need to be told what to do and when Im wrong, and I need a dom capable of punishing me. I need a dom who can be respectful of my life and obligations. If I could find those qualities in my future lady I would be happy for life.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/16/2013 5:21:43 PM)
Thank you so much everyone for letting me know what's important to you. I've always felt that a dynamic is not just about the Dom/me but it's about both the Dom/me and the submissive. I'm glad I started this thread because I really want(ed) to find out what's important to submissives. I've heard some say they don't care, but I do. NBMG

garyFLR -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/16/2013 11:26:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl Thank you so much everyone for letting me know what's important to you. I've always felt that a dynamic is not just about the Dom/me but it's about both the Dom/me and the submissive. I'm glad I started this thread because I really want(ed) to find out what's important to submissives. I've heard some say they don't care, but I do. NBMG It's two sides of the same coin, thanks for giving us the opportunity to express ourselves.

LasDomina -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/16/2013 11:33:37 PM)
Subs want ME

tazzygirl -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/16/2013 11:38:53 PM)
Why do you think they want you?

Charles6682 -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/16/2013 11:45:10 PM)
A kind heart. Is that too much to ask for in a Domme?

tazzygirl -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/16/2013 11:52:35 PM)
If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes.

garyFLR -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/16/2013 11:53:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LasDomina Subs want ME Why would I want you? You have no profile, I have no interest. Getting to know my future Lady, becoming close, wanting/needing to submit & give myself to her, achieving a deep warm relationship. You seem to be the female equivalent of the 'kneel bitch' male dom, if indeed you are a lady. I'm sorry, please forgive the rant. G.

Charles6682 -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 12:08:36 AM)
I know better than to expect every Domme to have a heart. I just hope that I can attract the right Domme for me, who also has a heart. quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes.

Charles6682 -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 12:09:49 AM)
I know for me, I can't just "submit" myself to just anyone nor would I want to either. I do feel something like submission is something to earned. Not just be expected or demanded, unless SHE is my actual Mistress/Domme.

tazzygirl -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 12:15:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 I know better than to expect every Domme to have a heart. I just hope that I can attract the right Domme for me, who also has a heart. quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes. Oh no no no....you asked for a kind heart... they all have hearts... some are just more sadistic than others

Charles6682 -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 12:24:05 AM)
Ok,good point. I seek a Domme with a kind heart. What is that, a "Sensual Domme" I think? I don't mind a bit of sadism. Just nothing so extreme that I can still feel the pain weeks later! quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 I know better than to expect every Domme to have a heart. I just hope that I can attract the right Domme for me, who also has a heart. quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes. Oh no no no....you asked for a kind heart... they all have hearts... some are just more sadistic than others

stef -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 12:58:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LasDomina Subs want ME ...to go away.

garyFLR -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 1:34:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef quote: ORIGINAL: LasDomina Subs want ME ...to go away. [:D].

goodgirlmary -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 7:33:43 AM)
Wow this took a turn lol

Charles6682 -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 5:05:36 PM)
I will say this much, I hear the term "bedroom submissive". Even though I have a vanilla side, I certainly seek something a lot more than just a "bedroom submissive". I guess a real D/s relationship is what I truly seek with alittle bit of vanilla on the side.

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 5:08:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 I know better than to expect every Domme to have a heart. I just hope that I can attract the right Domme for me, who also has a heart. quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes. Oh no no no....you asked for a kind heart... they all have hearts... some are just more sadistic than others Well, I have a "Sadistically Kind" heart...I also keep hearts in JARS. You really should be more SPECIFIC.

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 5:09:50 PM)
Damn, I lost all My cool handcuffs! Just a paddle now...and it's not even engraved. Sheesh.

tazzygirl -> RE: What do Subs Want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/17/2013 8:03:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 I know better than to expect every Domme to have a heart. I just hope that I can attract the right Domme for me, who also has a heart. quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl If that is what you are seeking, no. If you expect every Domme to have one, yes. Oh no no no....you asked for a kind heart... they all have hearts... some are just more sadistic than others Well, I have a "Sadistically Kind" heart...I also keep hearts in JARS. You really should be more SPECIFIC. Why? You more than proved my point.

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