RosaB -> RE: Interesting situation (6/26/2006 10:43:26 AM)
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I could understand that and I know my saying the following is a double standard. But, I might have been comfortable discussing my sexuality with my mom had she been part of my adult life, but I don't think I would have been comfortable discussing such matters with my dad. The dynamics of our relationships were extremely different. Plus there were vast age, generational gaps and belief gaps. I mean when I was pregnant, I wrote the details on paper and gave the letter to my stepmother to read to my father, I was too terrified to tell him. (long story[:(]) But still if you are terribly uncomfortable with mom coming to you for kink info/support, you should let her know. Hopefully she might refrain from letting you know she actually is a sexual active being. LOL. Or just think about some of us old crows, here on the boards, and get a little more comfy with the idea of knowing moms got it going on and will continue to rock some old geezers world, well into, geeze I don't know, the day the their brain cells die. Maybe if you think about us when you talk with her, you won't feel so uncomfortable. [:D]. Then again maybe that's a bad idea. I do know if my daughter were uncomfortable with me and who I am, I would make sure she'd not be privy to my escapades. She however loves to make me uncomfortable by telling me all about things she thinks might make me fidget. She knows its not easy to get a rise out of me but she works at it and loves when she's a success. lol. Aren't children grand? quote:
ORIGINAL: perverseangelic Heh. I have the opposite problem then most, I think. I'm having a helluva time dealing with the fact that my mom is kinky. She's not leather or anything that...hardcore...but definatly kinky. I've been out to her for several years, and i'm having a whole lot of trouble dealing with her coming to me for advice on how to..uh.....instigate non-vanilla activities....with her partners. Weirds me out big time.
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