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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/12/2013 6:51:11 AM

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We have now come full circle. From since DeSade, it was all about the sex, then over the net, it was not about the sex and slowly but surely it is coming back, yes this is all or can be every bit as much...about the sex. Thus the kissing and all other signs of real affection.

Yes, the HNG is now off the hook, he can now meet for BDSM and it can be about the fucking, sucking and even the kissing. I don't know though...kissing is pretty kinky.

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/12/2013 8:04:38 AM

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I don't watch porn but I have it in the back of my head that you aren't allowed to show s & m and sex in the same video. Not sure why.

I don't know if it is still illegal or not, but I know it was illegal to have sex, S&M and bondage all together.

Sex and bondage must be legal, as there is plenty of that out there. But how crazy is it - especially in America - that violence on its own is OK, even glorified, but sex is dirty and wrong. It never fails to amaze me that I can see someone's head being cut off with a sword in prime time, but a man's penis on television, or a nipple during the super bowl is a scandal!

And to the OP... Yes, kissing, tenderness and fucking come along with a caneing at my house :)

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/12/2013 9:25:10 AM

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Fast reply.

I keep reading this thread and the same question crosses My brain.

If you've actually got your dick in her, how are you getting a *good* swing with the cane? Am I the only person who stands to the side to get a good cane swing to the ass?

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/12/2013 9:31:36 AM

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Kissing and fucking are part of everyday life,even with the caning, spanking, and occasional bite and pinch;)

I've gone to play parties and have seen others do what to me just looks like bludgeoning (to each his own, I don't judge).

When I do any sort of ritualistic scene, it is incredibly intense, close and intimate. The focus is so intense that for both of us the rest of the world melts away. Doesn't matter if it is at home or a play party. It is irrelevant exactly what I do, but it is a journey of agony and ecstasy. There isn't usually any sex during it but there is a great deal of affection, closeness and kissing. And if there are tears, I kiss them away.

How beautiful it is for her not to only give me her body, but to give me her tears!

By the time I'm done, for both of us the catharsis is as powerful as any orgasm. and most of the aftercare is cradling and cuddling. And whispering in her ear of how good she was and how beautifully she gave me her body to use. And this will go on for as long as it takes for her to come down. Or me for that matter....lol.

The comment I've always made about my play.....some people use BDSM as foreplay for sex.......but to me it IS sex. Even if there has been no penetration or even meeting of genitals. No, I don't come in my pants. Strangely, I might not even get hard. But the whole experience is like sex. And it is as bonding as a powerful orgasm.

It is also one of the reasons I wonder what it going through some Dom's mind when they loan out a sub to play......it is a bonding experience. Do they really want them to make that bond to me?

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/12/2013 2:49:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Fast reply.

I keep reading this thread and the same question crosses My brain.

If you've actually got your dick in her, how are you getting a *good* swing with the cane? Am I the only person who stands to the side to get a good cane swing to the ass?

it works better from the sucking cock angle ;)
just sayin

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/12/2013 4:01:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Fast reply.

I keep reading this thread and the same question crosses My brain.

If you've actually got your dick in her, how are you getting a *good* swing with the cane? Am I the only person who stands to the side to get a good cane swing to the ass?

It's a different technique. With a carbon fibre rod that only needs a light tap to sting, I can keep on heating up her ass while I'm fucking it, and never hit my own dick either ;-)

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/12/2013 4:08:49 PM

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It is also one of the reasons I wonder what it going through some Dom's mind when they loan out a sub to play......it is a bonding experience. Do they really want them to make that bond to me?

For some subs, being loaned out is just another thing their Dom does to them. You may feel you're bonding with them, but for them it's still all about Him. "Story of O" describes the feeling well.

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/12/2013 6:02:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: leonine

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It is also one of the reasons I wonder what it going through some Dom's mind when they loan out a sub to play......it is a bonding experience. Do they really want them to make that bond to me?

For some subs, being loaned out is just another thing their Dom does to them. You may feel you're bonding with them, but for them it's still all about Him. "Story of O" describes the feeling well.

I've never played with a sub that was just offered to me offhand. The situation usually arises where a sub that I already knew saw me play a few times and wanted to experience what she saw. She would ask permission from her Dominant to ask me to play with her.
I'd still interview her to decide whether I would do it or not. I wouldn't do anything with someone unless I had some spark of a connection.

The few times that I did it, I was treated in some ways as a lover after that, even though there was no sex involved.
Hard to describe, but I would get the occasional longing look, or loving touch on the shoulder.
I avoided ever doing it, but I am sure if I had said, "Go get permission to play", I would have been obeyed as though I was Master.

The story of O was pure fantasy that was written by a woman to entice the man she admired in her life.
The sentiments might have been real but she never experienced any of it.

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/13/2013 8:02:10 AM

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If you've actually got your dick in her, how are you getting a *good* swing with the cane? Am I the only person who stands to the side to get a good cane swing to the ass?

To clarify, what I would like to see and do is the following two scenarios - neither of which would involve the same person doing the caning and fucking:

Erotic kinky scenario #1:
While the restrained, perhaps crying, female submissive is being caned by a Helper Top a second Top (me, in my fantasy) is gently kissing and caressing her face, while she exquisitely exhibits delightfully mixed emotions.

Erotic kinky scenario #2:
After the still-helpless submissive is punished, but before she is set free from her bonds, she is gently fondled, stimulated, and yes, fucked, such that the Top can feel the heat of her wounds, while she, herself, again experiences the delightfully mixed sensations of residual pain (from the caning) and current pleasure (from the sex).

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/13/2013 7:58:48 PM

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For my girl and myself, we usually opt for Erotic kinky scenario #2 of sorts. I usually give my girl the cane followed by a good spanking. The nice warmth from the welts and a reddened ass, make for a wonderful feeling while I'm taking her after our playtime. We've enjoyed this very much many times. I have caned her backside while I was receiving oral from her as well. Also very nice, but one has to keep their wits about them, so as not to strike somewhere inappropriately.

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/13/2013 9:53:21 PM

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The british allow caning and bjs and screwing in the same movie.
http://xhamster.com/movies/1212939/school_girl_canned_and_fucked.html

So do the hungarians make use of all three holes with a caning going on.
http://xhamster.com/movies/1215213/dr_lomp_rendel_parterapia_01.html

It's just the boring yankees who can't seem to get it right.
http://xhamster.com/movies/1361988/bounded_slave_is_caned_and_pussy_tortured.html

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RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning ... - 4/14/2013 1:22:28 PM

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Mentally for me... it's an Erotic contrast. A mental and physical landscape of textures combined. I really don't romantically kiss, it's more like a passionately way of orally fucking. To take somebody by their lips, have my way with them, bite, nipple, steal their breath, sink my tongue deep inside. My cock gets pretty damn hard with this all going down. The desire for me to feel their lips and mouth around my cock growing more and more. Warm and Wet. Then I'm thinking about other warm and wet places.

Damn, hearing the moans and sounds somebody makes between inflicting a little pain and their sexual responses to getting fuck at the same time is hot. Mixing up and going back and forth. Mentally teasing them and keeping them guess at what I'm going to do next (HOT).

I might even kiss their neck, bite down or even lick it. Perhaps slide my mouth up to their ear and whisper something dirty and wicked. Perhaps work up to an extreme off giving them a good whipping, some intense pussy slapping and while intensely pounding my cock up their ass. Until I explode (if they explode at the same time, it's intense... if not oh Well).

After this point, I enjoy the moment... caressing and touching their body in manner which is a stark contrast. I might do this while my cock rests between the cheeks of their ass.. slowly siding in back and forth. Planting kisses on their skin, caressing, light touching them. Perhaps to work into slowly massaging them. With the Massaging becoming stronger and stronger to repeat the whole process again... or move into whatever thought strikes my mind at the time.

I'm the kind of guy which might give somebody a deep passionate kiss and make them lick my balls afterwards. I don't know if one could call this Romance per se. I just find it all extremely pleasurable... mentally and physically.

i don't care if it's a cane, crop, flogger or paddle... I don't hold back my desires to kiss, touch nor fuck. I rather immerse myself into my own desires and roll with it.

I think is some ways, for me that is, it's about taking them any and all ways I can at the time. Teasing and keeping them guessing, and mixing things up like this. Damn Damn Damn, Yeah I know I'm Kinky Pervert.

Fuck, now I'm thinking about how amazing it is.. to even rest my ear on their chest and listen to their heart pounding and racing... and the sight of a trembling naked body afterwards. Fingers grazing across their nipples... legs lock wide in a spreader bar... mentally accessing how much more they can take. Landing perhaps a few last blows or slaps as a reminder...or give them the thought that it's all not over with yet. Mentally fucking and toying with whatever thoughts they have going on inside their mind at the time. (yummy).

Straight up, caning, flogging, paddling, spanking or impact play without the other stuff. Really does not excite me too much, I find it all very limited, boring, one dimensional and dull.

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