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RE: setting them free - 7/18/2013 5:23:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: JayAmbrose

Alright guys, I'm new to the site here but not the lifestyle, now my question is setting your slave free. We have all had to do it at one point in time but my question is there an easier way to do it. I just went through this a couple of days ago and it sucks for me to admit it but it hurt, and it hurt a lot. Its a terrible feeling to have to remove your collar from your slaves neck, and that's just what I had to do.

Well you are very unclear about which. relationship we're talking about here D / S or M / SI myself are looking for a slave, and one of the conditions I demand for a M / S. relationship is
(I will not sell you (But if for some reson i do not want you anymore, I will find a new home for you))

So as you can see I have planned an exit strategy for the slave, so she does not just going to be thrown on the street, there are many masters who just throw their slave like a piece of garbage (I hope you're not one of them ).

So for me it will be about finding a good home for the slave where she can continue her training and service, hopefully she will make me proud when she falls to at her new master, and I will follow her for a while, so I know that I made the right choice for her

If it is a submissive "slave" you must get rid of, then it is not much different from a vanilla relationship, however, you should probably not show too many emotions so that she sees you cry, it should not be as she lose all respect for you, so if you need to cry, then you must pull yourself together and wait until she's gone

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RE: setting them free - 7/18/2013 10:02:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: JayAmbrose
Alright guys, I'm new to the site here but not the lifestyle, now my question is setting your slave free.

Man, you're asking the wrong guy. I SUCK at this. I think I've tried to release Carol three times now and I've failed at it. We're currently in the middle of something which might be considered "releasing her". I have to admit I'm not optimistic about my chances.

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joke... sort of... in our case release and divorce are not the same word and divorce isn't a happening thing. So no, I cannot release her because I'm dominant and she's submissive and we live together. AT most I think I can play games with labels.

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