IBandit
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A great thing for face slapping that I use is repetitive light to moderate tapping with a rubber/foam object in a horizontal position going right between the cheek bone and jaw. I use a lightweight rubbery/foam piece that I cut about 3 to 4" wide and 24" long and then fold that in half like a belt. It comes from exercise flooring like that from a Bally's gym. This fabric is durable, great quality and an excellent value for around $20 per 2' x 2' square & 1" thick. It gives a very loud slapping sound with great impact but the actual force is small. I have used it many times with great effect and success. This repeated, concentrated and quick tapping will actually produce a slight sting that gets the endorphins moving quite quickly yet leaves no marks with the exception of a little pink that goes away fast. It will not dislocate your jaw or loosen any teeth as there is no real force. Be cautious to keep the subs eyes closed/covered blindfolded and don't let your partner thrash around. Rather, caress and teach them to relax between blows, as its also a great way to get them into subspace when the rhythm is good. This lightweight rubber flooring fabric can also be doubled up like a whip or paddle and be used in other areas where easy and permanent injury is concerned. It's better than literal hand slapping and force to the face or being punched, especially if you are going for many repeated face slaps. Face slapping is a lot of fun, humiliating with erotic touch. We do have to be willing and understand to be extremely cautious with every blow whatever method is used. The use of light weight leather gloves works well, just avoid the eyes, nose, neck and ears when repeated. Another tool to consider is the rubber part that is used to cover the blades on ice skates. This is a little heavier than the flooring (& needs more caution) but it has a great effect for producing that sound and sting that the Sub craves:) from being slapped in the face repeatedly. Once again, extreme force is not needed. Holding the jaw is a good idea as well but this will not aid in the loosening of a tooth or other damage if extreme force is used and/or a long swing misses and hits the ear, eye or neck. A long hard swing should never be used as a blow to the face IMO, considering severe injury is possible even from a pillow fight. A Master needs to practice on their own face before some else:) and be reminded during the session if they have it right, by testing the amount of force & technique on themselves and use that experience as a judgment call with the slave. At times it can be easy to get carried away and forget the force used rather than the ultimate end result of satisfying the sub and yourself (which also includes hands & knuckles in tact and a pretty face that can still breathe, see, hear, chew properly and desire more face slapping at a later date:) I have to admit though, I envy any Top who cares enough and is good enough to use their hands/fingers safely and directly in face slapping to satisfy an eager and demanding Sub. There is a real technique in the proper motions and getting it right every time. It's not done with extreme force like a punch nor a long distant swing. This is where the mistake is when Subs get injured and Tops act foolish. Proper technique kind of reminds me of a cane/whip/switch combination and how you pull back just a little on impact by using the middle to tips of your finger - more or less as a flogger and not the entire hand as a paddle. mmm:) face slapping...what a turn on. My
< Message edited by IBandit -- 4/19/2013 11:44:31 AM >
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