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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 4/20/2013 6:27:38 AM   
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I'm just curious....exactly how do you hit your own face with a car door?


Parked on a very steep hill, with a wind gust slamming the door in your face while you're getting out with your hands full.

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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 4/20/2013 8:55:39 AM   
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I'm just curious....exactly how do you hit your own face with a car door?


Parked on a very steep hill, with a wind gust slamming the door in your face while you're getting out with your hands full.

I thought I was the only one this happened to! With me, a big gust hit as I was getting into the car (with my hands full) and slammed my head between the door and the car frame. It freakin hurt.

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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 4/20/2013 7:28:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Didn't anyone tell you not to try to go out in hurricanes and tornadoes? The winds can kill ya!

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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 4/20/2013 7:58:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah... no... this was in Belgium... we don't have any sort of cool weather there.

There's grey over cast sky with or without rain... that's about the country's entire range.

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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 4/20/2013 9:13:43 PM   
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Didn't anyone tell you not to try to go out in hurricanes and tornadoes? The winds can kill ya!

Errr... I'll bring my point of view so you can
have a bit of an idea...

"Every severe storm theres been here.. I've been
out in it, hands numb, clothes wet, wind blowing
my head off, why? if things are blowing off the
house or rains getting in somewhere, OR a tree
has blown down on a fence, garage flooding,
drainage is blocked, dogs got out, hailing on the
car (you get the idea)... Guess what, guy goes
out in the storm...

So after a while it doesn't bother you and
between everything going to hell around you,
you begin to appreciate it theres something in
the air, figuratively and literally haha, theres a
peace in the noise and rain, something that
having an appropriately robust raincoat
definitely helps you to appreciate.
Theres solitude out there, and self, I imagine
it's what meditation is like...

So, while to the observer it may look like I'm not
having fun whilst tying a tarp down for the fifth
time and yelling "FUCKkkkkk" to the sky...
In between those moments, there is something.
...worth the trouble.

So my advice is go out in the hurricane, if your
hardy enough, the beauty and power of nature
can be breathtaking.


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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 4/21/2013 9:03:31 PM   
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Unless you have implanted lenses, in which case the odds of reattaching a retina are slim and none.


I don't think so. I have cataract replacement lenses. And had both retinas partially detach previously. Current detachment protocol is lay the patient on their back (or use air bubbles or fill the eye with silicone fluid) so the retina moves back in place then use curved nitrogen cooled probes (Cryotherapy) to reach behind the eye and freeze spots on the eye that involve the retina. The scar tissue that forms bonds the retina to the outer eye. No lens, normal or artificial, or the lens pocket are involved at any stage. Laser photocoagulation is the alternative method, creating burns that scare and bond but my attending physician and my current good friend who is a licensed Ophthalmologist prefer the freezing. Scleral buckles are normally used to hold the sclera (outer eye) against the retina during healing, detached retinas usually occurring with a tear in the retina that lets liquid Aqueous Humor leak behind the retina and expand the detachment. The buckle is placed to bring the sclera against the opening or openings in the retina. Several blocks were placed under the buckles for my multiply holed retinas. The eye doctor joke is that a few centuries down the line, only two plastic loops and a few small blocks will be left in the dust on the bottom of your casket.
Cataract patients are a elevated risk of detached retinas, normal treatments are applied with the plastic or for older treatments, glass lens in place.
As usual, Wikipedia covers the subject decently. My education was more dramatic, less voluntary.

For those with a personal or family history of detached retinas, bungee jumping with the cord attached to your feet is HIGHLY condemned by previously involved eye professionals. The sudden spike in blood pressure as maximum negative G's are delivered by the cord that stops you tends to blow whole retinas off the inside of the sclera. Which ruins your whole vacation.


You're damned lucky. I have had both cataracts removed and have been told no sports without safety goggles. I had a floater last year and even that is a risk of detached retina requiring immediate visit and examination.

What my ophthalmic surgeon said was that the odds of reattaching a retina in someone post cataract is very low. As a result when watching the grandson play baseball today, I ducked every time a foul ball came in my direction. And I don't get my face slapped.

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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 4/21/2013 11:08:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Actually, when we lived in Florida, we were in Hurricane Alley on the west coast. The couple days before a hurricane hit, was our favorite time to go in the ocean. It was the only time that there were waves and conditions like we grew up with in New Jersey.

Once we went out during the hurricane and stood facing the wind. Then we jumped just to see how far back we were blown by the wind.

Yep, hurricanes can be lots of fun.

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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 4/22/2013 1:47:45 PM   
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<---- Hit my own face with my car door.



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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 4/24/2013 11:40:30 AM   
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Didn't anyone tell you not to try to go out in hurricanes and tornadoes? The winds can kill ya!

LOL well they sure tried to, but it wasn't a hurricane or tornado. Just a really windy day. A HUGE gust came as I was getting into the car. Just a case of really bad timing.

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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 5/5/2013 1:21:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		My master had slapped me in the face while I was wearing a hard plastic ball gag and I chipped my tooth :( I told him not to hit me like that when I was wearing a hard gag but I guess he got caught up in it. I'd be more mad if it was a visible tooth and not a molar but I'm forever ticked off that he didn't listen to me and I got hurt because of it. Irresponsibility isn't sexy.

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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 5/5/2013 3:08:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		I know it's a bit delayed but nevertheless, I'd like to add a few things:-

1. If you have your teeth not sitting properly after any activity ...
- check if you are able to open and close the mouth ... feel for pain in the areas around the ears (in front of the ears where the jaw joint is present)
- if you have pain in the joint, it's time you get yourself checked in the hospital ... (there is a risk of jaw joint fracture ...
- If you dont have much pain but if it the teeth are not sitting properly, it is possibly dislocation of the joint and it needs to be put back into place ...can be put back by placing the thumbs on the last teeth and trying to give a downward, backward and then an upward push or perhaps a visit to the ER!
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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 5/5/2013 3:11:24 AM   
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Just tried face slapping - both of us standing up. First time for me. He had read this (which by the way is v. useful)

http://www.frugaldomme.com/dangers/danger10.htm

I had said to him I thought a key thing was ensuring the head was secured and not vulnerable to movement and was stable. He did this by holding my hair in a pony tail.

It was all fine at the time. Few quite serious slaps in the zone below the cheek bone.It hurt in terms of skin stinging but otherwise felt fine at the time.

Later that evening (During a blow job of all things!) I felt a really odd pain in my jaw. like a serious muscular pull. At the time, I didn't connect the two.

24 hours later, my teeth were out of alignment. I'd most discribe it as a minor jaw dislocation. I could still chew/move jaw etc but my teeth did not close together in the same way as before.

A futher 24 hours later, still hurts - had a period where I felt I had whiplash (pain up right and left side of neck - but this was sideways - cheek impact - not forward and back).
Teeth messing/alignment has improved - not as massively out of alignment as yesterday but still not 100% normal.

Does any of this sound related to the face slapping?
Does anyone have any advice/ comments to add?
Is there a good way to stabilise the head if both of you are standing up?


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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 5/6/2013 5:40:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was taught to slap with fingers spread apart...it`s not near as harsh as when your fingers are closed.
However we were not looking to bust anything! Just a tool to subspace for...some.

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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 5/8/2013 1:06:04 AM   
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The article you point out is quite clear yet your Dom/Top did not follow the directions well. If he can't follow written directions and does not have an understanding of leverage and mechanical forces you guys really need to slow it down. If you are just learning go in small steps. That does NOT mean hard face slapping or rope suspension on the 2nd bondage scene.

Better yet, find some workshops in your area, or travel to BDSM events where they have various workshops. Learning from and actually seeing others can really help put things in perspective. Applies to not just hitting but most BDSM play.

Before he does something to you, have him do it to himself (or have it done) just as hard as he expects to do it on you. He may not enjoy it but he will know the sensation intimately. They say the best tops used to be bottoms... I hope not since I have never bottomed, but I do test on myself to some degree... Dang, that Taws stings...

When I slap my sub's face I hold her hair in back and rest her entire head, cheek and jaw against my forearm. Usually she's on her back and my arm is supporting my weight so it is very braced. Then I lightly tap her on the other cheek below the cheekbone in the soft part of the cheek using only the fingers of my hand. The target is a very narrow area below the cheek bone and above the upper teeth and the hit is really a tap with very flat fingers. The blow is really just a tap to give her a tiny bit of sting - it is the SYMBOLISM that is important and this is NOT a time or way to take out frustration or aggression.

Note that I do NOT use the palm of my hand as tempting and fun as it may be for me. It is too much mass to be safe. If I want sensation in my palm I use it for whacking the soft part of her ass, and occasionally a light tap on the upper back or tit. Never hit the head or face with your palm.

Oh, one other medical warning - enough hard blows to the head and you can develop Parkinson's Disease (read up on Mohammad Ali).

What you see in the movies is done by stunt people and they are still sometimes hurt.

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RE: Faceslapping possible injury help - 5/21/2013 3:00:28 PM   
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I know it has been a while, but isn't the motion of a blow job up and down, not side to side?

ETA:

I know have the mental image of a woman shaking her head back and forth like a shark tearing at a fish.



That is an image that is certainly going to be nightmare fuel for quite a few of us males in here.....

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