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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 8:52:58 AM

MochaMistress

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Its no different than walking by the pet store. I'm not going to take every puppy home with me. But I still like to walk by and peek in the window.

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RE: Temptation - 6/25/2006 9:08:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: submissvelilbrat

i found this thread interesting......right up to the point where i got a headache, and i don't blame the site!

Putting blame on the site would be like putting blame on an ample chested woman wearing a comfortable low cut shirt.

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RE: Temptation - 6/26/2006 1:38:28 AM

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For me, when I'm in a relationship, one of the reasons I'm in it is because I have no desire to look further.
I pay attention to my own grass. I'll listen if someone may have good advice on how they've kept their grass so green, but I don't care to jump over the fence for a closer look at theirs. The only time I'm looking at their actual grass is when I have no grass of my own. Oh, and it's gotta be 'single' blade grass too!

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RE: Temptation - 6/26/2006 4:25:25 AM

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Well,. one of the great things about this site is that I can learn a whole lot of new things - and then try them out with Him.

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RE: Temptation - 6/26/2006 4:29:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: ExistentialSteel

For goodness sakes, folks, Becca is trying to get her honest feelings down. There is excitement in places where Doms and subs are, even if it is only a message board. It is stimulating reviewing profiles, pictures and possibly even corresponding with others. Curiosity represents a vigorous intellect more than a wandering eye. Asking others’ opinions is an admirable mission. If there is no doubt about commitment, there is no jealousy.

Becca, the opposite of innocent curiosity would be staying in a conversation with a Dom when he is clearly trying to take it to another, wrongful level. A rule of thumb would be never get into email exchanges you wouldn’t want your Dom to read even if he doesn’t monitor your mail.

You're very wise!

Also, my Dom trusts me totally, and he's right to do so. I look, and smile, and then turn back to him and to the pure joy of being with him. Nothing is worth risking that.

But I still think that despite the dross there's some lovely people on this site, and I still hate to see good Doms go to waste.

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RE: Temptation - 6/26/2006 5:33:22 AM

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I'm finding a problem with this site.

I have a partner, we suit each other well and meet each other's needs delightfully. I'm very happy and definitely not looking for anyone else.

But I see the profiles that come up when I log in, or I'll read comments from someone and look them up out of interest....

And they're all so nice, and ...er... stimulating. There's a few profiles I've read that really REALLY appeal to me.

But I'm not looking for anyone else. Truly.

But ....

Dammit, it's like being a kid in a lolly shop. I want one of those, and two of those, and that... and that.... and a BIG one of THOSE!

Does anyone else find that there's just too many lovely possibles out there?

Honestly I don't have that problem. Sometimes I go profile surfing and all it reminds me is how happy I am that I'm not single.

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RE: Temptation - 6/26/2006 9:23:15 AM

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LOL anyone that says they never look at anyone but thier partner is full of it. You may not act on it but everyone looks. That;s half the fun of life. *S*

My problem is I'm too shy to message the ones i find interesting

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RE: Temptation - 6/26/2006 12:43:07 PM

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quote:

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LOL anyone that says they never look at anyone but thier partner is full of it. You may not act on it but everyone looks. That;s half the fun of life. *S*

My problem is I'm too shy to message the ones i find interesting

Since it said in reply to Wildfleurs, I'm assuming its in response to my comment?

What I said is that I don't see profiles that interest me. When I *profile surf* it reminds me that I'm happy I'm not single.

Very different from whether I look at people in day to day life (although in general I'm pretty underwhelmed most of the time, I have seen some people that appear somewhat interesting).

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RE: Temptation - 6/26/2006 12:44:00 PM

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It was a fast reply and not in direct reply to anyone

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RE: Temptation - 6/26/2006 1:56:26 PM

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I can honestly say that though I love to peek at profiles and flirt with some here, I'm never tempted to stray from my relationship. My heart belongs to the one I'm with and really I only have eyes for him. I'm devoted and loyal, sometimes to a fault. And even though I window shop always in my mind, i seem to compare them to Master, i don't mean to, but it's like I say "oooh Loki is pretty" but then a little voice goes off in my tummy and says 'but he's got nothing on Master' (no offense meant Loki)... I know who my heart wants and who my tummy answers to and mmm I'm happy with it.

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