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DarkSteven -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/22/2013 7:09:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: Mastertlb quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst LOL ok, this is funny as heck. Men have been marrying younger women for a HELL of a lot longer than so called cougar females have married younger men. Are you in some sort of alternate universe? If the old guy can support it and the young woman wishes it, go for it. I just don't see the advantage for the young lady with some older guy without a sufficient base to work from. Now Hef... he can have all he wants. LOL.. I just knew there would be a couple out there that can't read nor understand the message within the message. Let me see if I can put it into much simpler words for you. you are born clueless, you are brought up by others a little more mature, those people teach you what they perceive as right n wrong whether it is or not. Would you care for a FACTUAL example of a "society" that still TODAY cuts the womans clit out when she is but 16 years old? THAT is fact not fiction... who is to blame for that mutilation? The society in which she lives. Who does the cutting? the Elder women. So when I say the wife shoulda got slapped I'm going on the assumption that it is extremely unlikely a man told the 18-21 year old woman "No! go away..you're too young for me" I think it more likely the women who got dumped by a man BECAUSE of a young woman that society took on the closed minded thinking. Need another example of a society that rules the people? One name..."Mormons". Bottom line here is the society inwhich you were raised formed your opinions for you. What the hell does female mutilation have to do with prefering to date someone close to your same age? The op was asking about someones preference to date a person quite a bit younger, nothing about this. You do understand what a preference is right? [8\|] THB, your argument reminds me of bubblegum. Also, Roe vs Wade. And photosynthesis. Is this where I insult your intelligence now for not following my logic?

Missokyst -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/22/2013 9:01:45 AM)
Clearly his response fits his line below. quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: Mastertlb LOL.. I just knew there would be a couple out there that can't read nor understand the message within the message. What the hell does female mutilation have to do with prefering to date someone close to your same age? The op was asking about someones preference to date a person quite a bit younger, nothing about this. You do understand what a preference is right? [8\|]

Masterskitten23 -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/22/2013 7:39:41 PM)
So He should have used a term like hers? quote: What a ton of idiotic assumptions Or maybe asinine assumptions? Is that more politically correct? Whether you or anyone understands it is EXTREMELY doubtful a man started the "he's too old for her" propaganda

Masterskitten23 -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/22/2013 7:54:41 PM)
Sheesh! another one that can't understand what they read. Luckily you can't speak for her as you are not up to speed to begin with... If you call someone over that can comprehend english have them read the original story to you and explain in simple terms that without societies influence there would be a more open minded community not the closed ones we have now. Does your local paper advertise this site or alt.com, aff? NO!!?? why not? are they a closed minded part of society?

littlewonder -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/22/2013 8:38:28 PM)
No but they do advertise every single fetish club/bar/toy shop in town. I'm sure if CM wanted to put an advertisement in our weekly entertainment paper here, they would have zero problem with it.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/22/2013 9:35:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Masterskitten23 Sheesh! another one that can't understand what they read. Luckily you can't speak for her as you are not up to speed to begin with... If you call someone over that can comprehend english have them read the original story to you and explain in simple terms that without societies influence there would be a more open minded community not the closed ones we have now. Does your local paper advertise this site or alt.com, aff? NO!!?? why not? are they a closed minded part of society? [8\|] Sock alert! [sm=argue.gif] To the OP: I agree with the suggestion to pop in on a munch while you're on the road. And maybe send Missokyst a pm about her friend. Good luck! PS: Nice vessel! Do you have to haul out over the winter in Virginia?

MasterOne50 -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 1:51:36 AM)
there is a 12 yr age difference between my girl and me. she keeps me young in more ways than one. it is a breath of fresh air, believe me. we are lucky we do have a lot in common...from the same music to similar interests....so age is not a factor. yes the creepy old man would like a real younger one but that would be only for a fling and an accomplishment. as a parent it is hard to even think of the real young in their 20's since i have daughters that age...........that i would not be able to handle mentally if you understand.

lizi -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 3:29:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt quote: ORIGINAL: Masterskitten23 Sheesh! another one that can't understand what they read. Luckily you can't speak for her as you are not up to speed to begin with... If you call someone over that can comprehend english have them read the original story to you and explain in simple terms that without societies influence there would be a more open minded community not the closed ones we have now. Does your local paper advertise this site or alt.com, aff? NO!!?? why not? are they a closed minded part of society? [8\|] Sock alert! [sm=argue.gif] To the OP: I agree with the suggestion to pop in on a munch while you're on the road. And maybe send Missokyst a pm about her friend. Good luck! PS: Nice vessel! Do you have to haul out over the winter in Virginia? Lol MDA, it appears to be his "pet" instead of a straight up sock but who knows. So Masterskitten23, did your master need saving from all of the bad people here telling him that he's ignoring the fact that people all make choices? You yourself made a choice to be with him it appears, why not agree that everyone else has the same liberty as you have, to choose their partner based on whatever they deem to be important? If your master has trouble making himself understood maybe it's because he isn't making any sense, and he's quite frankly barking up the wrong tree by attributing younger women's rejection of older men to society, and not to the fact that younger women can, and do, think for themselves and have preferences/choices that they make. I'm sure you function quite nicely making choices every day in what you do, eat, wear, watch, learn, etc. Why not contribute something to the topic of the thread itself and talk about why you seem to prefer older men? That may be of more use than trying to rescue him from his penchant of comparing things that don't belong together, and ultimately making no sense at all.

Arturas -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 4:50:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse quote: ORIGINAL: Arturas I think you are flirting with this older man. Yes. I am sure of it. It's ok. art, not even if you were the last male creature on this, or any other, planet. Fortunately I share my life with a delightful younger (he delights in reminding me) by a whole 16 months, man. Who makes you, and most men I've met, look woefully inadequate. In too many way to list. Sure.

Lucifyre -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 5:47:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arturas Besides, Men make the rules. Arturas BAAAAHAHAHHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!

thishereboi -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 5:50:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Masterskitten23 Sheesh! another one that can't understand what they read. Luckily you can't speak for her as you are not up to speed to begin with... If you call someone over that can comprehend english have them read the original story to you and explain in simple terms that without societies influence there would be a more open minded community not the closed ones we have now. Does your local paper advertise this site or alt.com, aff? NO!!?? why not? are they a closed minded part of society? bless your heart [8\|]

Missokyst -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 12:35:09 PM)
Actually, as you are 63, a 12 year difference is not so unusual. I am 58, and tend to date men 10 yrs younger than I. In terms of life experience as you age they gap in compatibility is not so wide due to exposure to ideas. quote: ORIGINAL: MasterOne50 there is a 12 yr age difference between my girl and me. she keeps me young in more ways than one. it is a breath of fresh air, believe me. we are lucky we do have a lot in common...from the same music to similar interests....so age is not a factor. yes the creepy old man would like a real younger one but that would be only for a fling and an accomplishment. as a parent it is hard to even think of the real young in their 20's since i have daughters that age...........that i would not be able to handle mentally if you understand.

LadyPact -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 12:42:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Masterskitten23 So He should have used a term like hers? quote: What a ton of idiotic assumptions Or maybe asinine assumptions? Is that more politically correct? Whether you or anyone understands it is EXTREMELY doubtful a man started the "he's too old for her" propaganda Believe it or not........ Yeah. There's a difference between debating what a person said and making the person's intelligence the focus of the comment. There's a thread around here somewhere in which VAA specifies the difference between attacking the statement and attacking the person. She's very clear about "you" statements and why they are considered personal attacks.

searching4mysir -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 1:28:36 PM)
quote: Does your local paper advertise this site or alt.com, aff? NO!!?? why not? are they a closed minded part of society? No. They probably don't advertise it because CM won't PAY them to. They advertise "gentlemen's clubs" so why not a kink-based site?

RedMagic1 -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 1:46:26 PM)
How did this thread get so nasty? Wow. I just wanted to tell a funny story from last night. I was massaging a lady and she said to me, "Wow, if we dated, you'd only be 13 years younger than my father. That feels really weird." Pause pause pause. Then she said, "You're going to take me out this weekend anyway, right?" Big smile. I think part of the reason that happened is that I don't much care about the age of a woman. I care whether she is funny, sweet, and fit. It's sort of like how I've been able to date several Asian women precisely because I don't have yellow fever. Last night lady was ok with the age difference, because it wasn't a big issue for me one way or the other. Point being, OP: if you want an 18-year-old, no compromise, you might find one, but I doubt she'd have much self-esteem. It's healthier to make your fetishes serve your relationship, not the other way around.

Thaz -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 2:04:55 PM)
I've been approached by ladies half my age, gorgeous model types. Certainly an ego boost. Certainly fun at parties. Not sure I'd want to try and make that work in a LTR. But I can see the attraction of trying. From my experience the play was fantastic but the laughs are better with ladies closer to my own age. More common ground. YMMV.

Rasciallymisty -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 4:07:34 PM)
I have always like older man, with that being said my first Dom was nine years younger than myself. He and I had so much fun the whole time we where together. My second Dom was older by 6 years and the first two years where fun and we did a lot but then his health issues become what our lives where focused around. If I was asked this question last year I would have said no way would I ever date an older man again but now as long as we have much in common....age doesn't really matter. What matters now is he has to be good health and able to keep up with me.

15speed -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 5:31:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lizi quote: ORIGINAL: 15speed Wow, didn't realize that I gave the impression that is what I wanted. I asked because of several contacts that I have had, and I wondered how common it was. BTW, an active, healthy 61 would work for me. It's nice to see an older man who wants the same aged companion. I always have to wonder why some other older men try so very hard to defend themselves to the point of ludicrousness, where they are comparing themselves to old cheese, cars, and furniture. If being older is all that and a bag of chips, then why aren't the older men who are so awesome looking for older awesome women? Makes sense to me, if you're all that because you're older, then why would you settle for less than that in having a younger woman? Nice to see that you are looking for someone as awesome as yourself 15speed [;)] As you noticed it's mostly the scammers that are writing you with young beautiful women's pictures as bait. Is writing women your age working for you at all? I remember the various incarnations of your profile and have wondered if anything has worked so far. Would you consider going to BDSM events in the area? That might really be your best shot. Getting yourself out and about where people can get to know you and perhaps introduce you to possible interested parties might be a great avenue for you. THX _ I am seldom anywhere long enough, but it's on my to do list

seekingreality -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/23/2013 11:52:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: 15speed I'm sure this has been discussed before os bear with me. I would like to hear thought about this in general and/ or specifically. Females only. Generally most people want a partner who is within 5-10 years of them. Looks, wealth, etc. can be influencing factors. Some women like older men, some don't. I don't think the percentage is much different in the BDSM world than the vanilla world to be honest. Oh, and it's pointless to say things like "females only can comment." Just because you start a thread, doesn't mean you own or control it. Once it's going, you are just one participant like everyone else, and you can't control who takes part or now the thread evolves. The people who think they can start and control a thread usually end up screaming about how everyone is out to get them because people aren't following their rules on how to respond.

Mastertlb -> RE: Younger slaves & older Masters (4/24/2013 7:12:32 AM)
If it mattered I would. being it doesn't I won't

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