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meatcleaver -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 5:09:40 AM)
The woman who fucked me over told me to get therapy, not that I believe in that witchcraft but I had a chat with a friend who is a therapist and it was in that chat I fully realised what a lying malicious bitch I was involved with. I had no problem at all in getting even (I don't know if I succeeded). She insisted on the relationship should be based on honesty and integrity and that is what she got from me and it is what I expected from her. As far as I'm concerned, she had her laundry lists of musts and I adhered to them. She altered them by fucking me over so I changed to her new rules. Alls fair in love and war riot. Whatever suits you best to get past it.

mew -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 5:10:58 AM)
~fast reply~ I am wondering why no one has said, " going through your Master's email is just wrong". ~mew~

meatcleaver -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 5:15:22 AM)
He was the first to break trust from what I understand. Once you fuck with someone's life all bets are off as far as I'm concerned. He could have been honest and then I would agree with you.

JessieMe -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 5:16:02 AM)
Because she doesnt want to hear that perhaps? LOL

ShiftedJewel -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 5:25:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: meatcleaver He was the first to break trust from what I understand. Once you fuck with someone's life all bets are off as far as I'm concerned. He could have been honest and then I would agree with you. You nailed it meatcleaver.... when someone breaks your trust in such a way... then all bets are off. Personally, I think she's handling it quite well. If if were me... oh hell yeah, I would have deleted every account I could, I would have changed passwords right after emailing every other person he was "playing". Of course, I'm one vindictive bitch. *Jewel* grrrr... spelling error

smilezz -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 5:38:14 AM)
It seems like you have even more choices to make RiotGirl. ~smilezz~

ScooterTrash -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 5:44:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mew ~fast reply~ I am wondering why no one has said, " going through your Master's email is just wrong". ~mew~ I guess this would be something that could be considered, but I am not private about my e-mails in my household and perhaps this is something that was open (passwords and such) between them as well. My personal feeling it that if you have something to hide, then you aren't being open with your "others", so something is broken anyway.

Kimera -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 5:50:32 AM)
Ok RiotGirl, lets have a little chat, just you and me? Tell me again how much he adored you? Was it when he had you put up pictures of yourself on the Web offering yourself out to all? Was it when he pimped you out to at least one (or was it two) online porn sites so your sexual escapades could be enjoyed by all (indeed, some of the "helpful" CollarMe types who are giving you advice in this thread were the ones who egged you on and asked for more links). By the way, dear, how will your daughter like seeing those webclips of you being electrotortured and spermed? mmmmm such a good, thinking mommy. Was this when you knew how much he "loved" you? And when did you decide you had no say in your life, no hand in your future? Was that love, too? Some unpleasant truths, little girl: IF SOMEONE LOVES YOU, HE DOESN'T PIMP YOU OUT ON THE INTERNET. IF SOMEONE LOVES YOU, HE RESPECTS THE FACTS OF YOUR LIFE INCLUDING YOUR CHILDRENS' FUTURE. IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE, YOU DON'T GO TRASHING HIM ON A STUPID ANONYMOUS BOARD FILLED WITH LIARS AND USERS (OH AND IDIOTS) WHEN THINGS GO BAD. No one deserves misery. But admit that you were a fool, learn from it, and move on. You contributed as much to making him the lying asshole he is as he caused you to become the foolish girl with the bad bad choices. -Kim

JessieMe -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 5:55:58 AM)
Ok.. I wish I knew where the applauding smiley face is.. because it would be here right now.. Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <---loves people who know how to give reality checks

NeedToUseYou -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 5:59:20 AM)
hmmmm, well, I'd say you are handling this all wrong. If you know he cheated on you, or at the least had the intention. Why not screw him over? I would. I wouldn't let it eat at me, I would take it out on the person that hurt me. So, instead of staring at all his shit in the house, I'd put it on the front lawn(If your name is on the lease, as in you are the legal renter, or owner), give him a call and tell him to come get his shit off the lawn because it says it's supposed to rain this afternoon. LOL. Watching him scurry around franticly picking shit up and overstuffing his car would be hilarious. Then I would call every place I knew of and inform them of his "Perverted Behaviour". Ah what better feeling than knowing you destroyed someones life, that actually deserved it. I wouldn't feel bad at all making a shithead lose his job, mistress, and outted to his family. But I wouldn't do it threw his e-mail accounts as really you have no legal right to use it. But you already have the info, so you really don't need to use them. Just me, but when I get fucked over, I generally focus on returning the favor, not on hating myself Additional bonus, once it is know you fuck over people that fuck you over, they think twice about it. As it reads you are just getting depressed, not doing anything, but hating yourself. Well, that's all fine if the intention is to get back with him(no comment), but I see no reason to hate yourself when you have a perfectly good target to take that out on. If the intention trully is to leave him. Now, I'm not talking about anything illegal, or violent. But just passing along information. That's not illegal. LOL. But old fashioned getting even.

JessieMe -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 6:02:49 AM)
RiotGirl.. is it true that your Dom broke up with you BEFORE all this email snooping happened? If so, that certainly puts a whole new light on this thread doesnt it? You just couldnt let it go?? Yes sweetie.. this DOES make you a dramaqueen!

smilezz -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 6:22:15 AM)
And here we have it...........just "one" more reason our society is totally fucked. Jeeezzzusss.. ~smilezz~

MHOO314 -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 6:25:50 AM)
RiotGirl, a leopard does not change its spots and he has indeed according to you--been a leopard for a long time--lock the gate, throw out the memories, lesson learned.

NINASHARP -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 6:30:05 AM)
Well I beleive in Karma. Don't stoop to the other's level, just relax and wait, you will find most get what is exactly coming to them.

JessieMe -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 6:30:40 AM)
<sigh> I know you are not going to listen to this RiotGirl but I am going to say it anyways.. I am sorry for what you have gone through with this guy. Truly I am. As I said.. I have been there and done that. But the only thing you can do NOW is move past it. It happened. It was bad and it was horrible and you feel all the things you are feeling and it is all very real to you. It is going to take time to get your bearings. Start taking that time now. The more you focus on this part of it, the more you delve into just how much you were betrayed, the longer it will take to recover from this. And you have a child to think about as well. This is hard. I am not an uncaring person truly. I just hope you are strong enough to see what you should have seen, and work to not fall into this trap again. This is not condenscion honestly.. It took me three BDSM relationships to get where I am today and alot more "playing" outside of a relationship (which was totally what I wanted at the time). Sometimes when people want something badly enough, the blinders are the first thing to be put on instead of the brakes. Dom, sub or switch I dont know anyone who has been in this lifestyle who hasnt had this happen to one degree or another. It just seems like you got the full blown end of it. I agree with anyone who says you should get some councelling to talk this through. This whole situation sounds like it was very traumatizing and you do need to talk. All we can do on this post is commiserate and give advice. But we cannot know everything that happened and very few if any are qualified mental health experts when it comes to online postings. From all I have learned of this situation, you are going to go through some very difficult times healing from this. Take care of yourself as you take care of your child. You too were changed by this experience and only you can decide if you are going to come out better and stronger for it.. or angry and bitter and resentful of all. And your child is going to watch you struggle through this. I do wish you luck as you work through this process. I will keep you in my prayers.

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 6:33:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou hmmmm, well, I'd say you are handling this all wrong. If you know he cheated on you, or at the least had the intention. Why not screw him over? I would. I wouldn't let it eat at me, I would take it out on the person that hurt me. So, instead of staring at all his shit in the house, I'd put it on the front lawn(If your name is on the lease, as in you are the legal renter, or owner), give him a call and tell him to come get his shit off the lawn because it says it's supposed to rain this afternoon. LOL. Watching him scurry around franticly picking shit up and overstuffing his car would be hilarious. Then I would call every place I knew of and inform them of his "Perverted Behaviour". Ah what better feeling than knowing you destroyed someones life, that actually deserved it. I wouldn't feel bad at all making a shithead lose his job, mistress, and outted to his family. But I wouldn't do it threw his e-mail accounts as really you have no legal right to use it. But you already have the info, so you really don't need to use them. Wow, I guess maturity isn't you're strong point. quote: Just me, but when I get fucked over, I generally focus on returning the favor, not on hating myself Additional bonus, once it is know you fuck over people that fuck you over, they think twice about it. As it reads you are just getting depressed, not doing anything, but hating yourself. Well, that's all fine if the intention is to get back with him(no comment), but I see no reason to hate yourself when you have a perfectly good target to take that out on. If the intention trully is to leave him. Women are just lined up and beating down you door, aren't they? Proof that some people should have been a spot on a kleenex quote: Now, I'm not talking about anything illegal, or violent. But just passing along information. That's not illegal. LOL. But old fashioned getting even. Alright people, I don't know who put the computer in the monkey cage but could you please stop. People with some real helpful advise would like to post but they can't due to laughing at assinine shit like this. Grow up already.

swtnsparkling -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 6:34:23 AM)
IMO - I believe Riot has known for a very long time this guy was an ass but chose to ignore it, when he would profess his love for her- many posts have been written on problems with him or with the relationship. It is only now with the emails smacking her in the face does she acknowledge it. Cry , scream, shake in anger, delete everything about him. Then take a deep breath and move ahead, focus on your unmentionable she is /should be priority above all else. Be a strong mom - accept you've been used and deceived and learn from it.

Kreep -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 6:35:33 AM)
RiotGirl, I'm not going to try and preach or chastise. I don't know you and you don't know me. I'm just a new guy on this site and while I'm distressed that there are people like this one you called "master", I'm not a bit surprised.....been there done that. In short, I'll sit back and hope you find peace again....hopefully sooner than later. Worlds of luck to you.

Prunesquallor -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 6:36:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JessieMe Yes sweetie.. this DOES make you a dramaqueen! I wouldn't like to say what your posting makes you.

JessieMe -> RE: Played - to unconcievable depths (6/24/2006 6:41:34 AM)
It wouldnt make one bit of difference to me one way or the other what you would say about my posting LOL.. There has been alot stated on this post of infinitely more importance, yet this is the one you focused on.. Too funny

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