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lyleboy -> Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 9:03:10 PM)
I notice that in my quest to be dominated by a strict ,but caring Lady ,that we are all looking for dominates to govern our lives .. Check out the gay pages on cr***list and see it , on here too ,most are searching for Doms. Me too. In years gone by I faked being a Dom,oh I dished the whipings out etc, but was fantasizing how it would feel if it were me being treated the way i treated my girl.. Only one little hooker girl who I met before she started working knew the truth ,and she guarded it . We were friends .I told her everything including my fantasy to suck cock , she said i'd like it and she would get me a date , it never came about . ( i sucked my first cock on wednesday ,and swallowed too. It wasnt what I expected ,i think i lost the fantasy) So why are we all cowering subs ,and want to be that way , I mean cowering to our owners not to politicians or bosses . Do we have a slave gene ?? When we look at history its a rare person who has not came from a slave somewhere along the line .. At work Im a foreman who takes no shit ,Im naturally that way unless its got sex attached to it .. WTF ??

poise -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 9:14:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lyleboy WTF ?? WTF indeed. What does your search for a lady have to do with gay pages on craigs list? WTF! How can you claim to have knowledge of what "we all" are looking for? WTF! Only one little hooker girl knew the truth ,and she guarded it. WTF? So why are we all cowering subs ,and want to be that way? WTF! Please get a hold of yourself, and try to type more coherently.

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 9:34:32 PM)
Just so you know....we do not all want to be dominanted. Infact I would go so far as to say I would like the whole damn world to shut up and do what I tell it to (sadly I haven't figure out how to make it happen). You sound like you are fighting two sides of yourself rather than just allowing yourself to be yourself. You should work on that.

MsLadySue -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 9:38:51 PM)
facepalm I totally disagree your hypothesis!

ExquisiteStings -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 9:49:15 PM)
Echo THAT LadySue. ES

ExquisiteStings -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 9:52:43 PM)
PS: By "that", I meant to include all of what you have in your post. ES

LadyPact -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 9:53:47 PM)
Small hint. In a written medium, you will do much better if your phrasing is clearer. For example, you're not looking for a "dominate". When you say "we" you are addressing everyone, not just subs who might actually have a drive to find someone to dominate them. As a person, I can promise you that I've got no desire to be Dominated by somebody else. I have no problem respecting other people's authority, but I'm sure not looking to live under it. I'm part of a D/D couple and neither of us switch. If I honestly wanted that, I could have a built in situation right here at home. Are some people more prone to taking a submissive role in a relationship or have a submissive personality? Sure, but it's far from everyone. I also happen to believe that not all people are D or s and are perfectly happy being equal partners in their relationship and in their sex lives. While you might be thinking or hoping that everybody has a desire to submit like you do, it's honestly not the case. You'll have to deal with you desire of submission without the comfort of thinking everybody is just like you.

Darkfeather -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 10:02:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lyleboy I notice that in my quest to be dominated by a strict ,but caring Lady ,that we are all looking for dominates to govern our lives Just a nit-pick, but the word "dominates" is an action verb, not a noun. People are dominants, they dominate. These words are NOT interchangeable... Grammar-nazi mode off

littlewonder -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 10:07:55 PM)
Dude get a grip. I certainly don't cower before Master. I lovingly and adoringly serve him in all ways, not just sexually, because I love him and he loves me. IMO, you need to get the fantasy out of your head.

PrincessLyr -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 10:10:26 PM)
Agrees. Well said.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 10:13:10 PM)
OP, I can assure you that I am not looking to be dominated in any way. I am, however, looking for a submissive. You need to stop making rampant generalizations. That only makes you look foolish. NBMG

sexyred1 -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 10:14:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lyleboy I notice that in my quest to be dominated by a strict ,but caring Lady ,that we are all looking for dominates to govern our lives .. Check out the gay pages on cr***list and see it , on here too ,most are searching for Doms. Me too. In years gone by I faked being a Dom,oh I dished the whipings out etc, but was fantasizing how it would feel if it were me being treated the way i treated my girl.. Only one little hooker girl who I met before she started working knew the truth ,and she guarded it . We were friends .I told her everything including my fantasy to suck cock , she said i'd like it and she would get me a date , it never came about . ( i sucked my first cock on wednesday ,and swallowed too. It wasnt what I expected ,i think i lost the fantasy) So why are we all cowering subs ,and want to be that way , I mean cowering to our owners not to politicians or bosses . Do we have a slave gene ?? When we look at history its a rare person who has not came from a slave somewhere along the line .. At work Im a foreman who takes no shit ,Im naturally that way unless its got sex attached to it .. WTF ?? While it might seem nice to seek vaidation of your own feelings through a written medium, like a message board, you can be assured you could not be more incorrect in your generalizations.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 10:19:35 PM)
I don't crave domination, dude. In my case, you are absolutely incorrect.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/21/2013 11:18:00 PM)
Go bugger off you silly wanker.

DarkSteven -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/22/2013 2:49:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lyleboy I notice that in my quest to be dominated by a strict ,but caring Lady ,that we are all looking for dominates to govern our lives .. Check out the gay pages on cr***list and see it , on here too ,most are searching for Doms. Me too. In years gone by I faked being a Dom,oh I dished the whipings out etc, but was fantasizing how it would feel if it were me being treated the way i treated my girl.. Only one little hooker girl who I met before she started working knew the truth ,and she guarded it . We were friends .I told her everything including my fantasy to suck cock , she said i'd like it and she would get me a date , it never came about . ( i sucked my first cock on wednesday ,and swallowed too. It wasnt what I expected ,i think i lost the fantasy) So why are we all cowering subs ,and want to be that way , I mean cowering to our owners not to politicians or bosses . Do we have a slave gene ?? When we look at history its a rare person who has not came from a slave somewhere along the line .. At work Im a foreman who takes no shit ,Im naturally that way unless its got sex attached to it .. WTF ?? Dude, you concern me. Somewhere about the age of three to five, each of us loses some narcissism. Before that, we think of the world as being us and our needs, and people who exist to feed them. Around that age, we begin to appreciate that the others have their needs too, and that our actions are capable of filling them should we so choose. We also learn that everyone's needs are unique - some need to dominate, some need to serve, and of course vanillas want neither. Your development seems to have gotten stunted. You faked being a Dom to get girls. (If you have no strong self image, then you catch more wimmins with Dominance than submission.) Now you've either changed to being a sub, or else are going through a sub phase. Fine and good. But you seem to be incapable of seeing that your own feelings are not universal.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/22/2013 3:23:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: lyleboy I notice that in my quest to be dominated by a strict ,but caring Lady ,that we are all looking for dominates to govern our lives .. Check out the gay pages on cr***list and see it , on here too ,most are searching for Doms. Me too. In years gone by I faked being a Dom,oh I dished the whipings out etc, but was fantasizing how it would feel if it were me being treated the way i treated my girl.. Only one little hooker girl who I met before she started working knew the truth ,and she guarded it . We were friends .I told her everything including my fantasy to suck cock , she said i'd like it and she would get me a date , it never came about . ( i sucked my first cock on wednesday ,and swallowed too. It wasnt what I expected ,i think i lost the fantasy) So why are we all cowering subs ,and want to be that way , I mean cowering to our owners not to politicians or bosses . Do we have a slave gene ?? When we look at history its a rare person who has not came from a slave somewhere along the line .. At work Im a foreman who takes no shit ,Im naturally that way unless its got sex attached to it .. WTF ?? Dude, you concern me. Somewhere about the age of three to five, each of us loses some narcissism. Before that, we think of the world as being us and our needs, and people who exist to feed them. Around that age, we begin to appreciate that the others have their needs too, and that our actions are capable of filling them should we so choose. We also learn that everyone's needs are unique - some need to dominate, some need to serve, and of course vanillas want neither. Your development seems to have gotten stunted. You faked being a Dom to get girls. (If you have no strong self image, then you catch more wimmins with Dominance than submission.) Now you've either changed to being a sub, or else are going through a sub phase. Fine and good. But you seem to be incapable of seeing that your own feelings are not universal. So you are saying " bugger off you silly wanker"?

MasterCaneman -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/22/2013 6:43:07 AM)
Dude, put down the bath salts and listen to what the people here are saying. Not everyone is "like you" here. I've played the bottom a couple of times in the past, and I do not like not being in control of where the scene goes. I don't know how you're "wired", but my head doesn't work that way. Read what you write before hitting the "OK" button.

kookycreature -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/22/2013 6:49:28 AM)
I'm pretty certain that there is no 'slave gene' that is going to be discovered anytime soon...

Rasciallymisty -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/22/2013 8:42:54 AM)
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Rawni -> RE: Men and women all crave domination (4/22/2013 8:50:07 AM)
Sunday always brings some of the more interesting... (being nice there or trying to) out of the cyber recesses. [:D]

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