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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/1/2013 4:38:33 PM

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So how multiple-person are your genitals? Are some used on multiple people are some very individualistic and personal? Where is your line of what genitals are only used on one as to used on more than one?
Obviously this is geared to those that play with two or more or have such intention to do so.
So where is the line of your ick factor with regards to genitals?

That's a great way to think about the genitals with this topic and for me, I think you hit the nail on the head. I'm monogamous. I have no interest in being with someone else. So my genitals only get used by one person. Before Master, for the most part I was monogamous as well. I had always expected those relationships to work so the idea of monogamy was still what it was. I can't help that the relationships ended. I can't replace my bit parts so I make sure it's squeaky clean. If I found that he was not being monogamous, first I would be emotionally devastated but I have a feeling I'd also be very squicked, especially if he did not use a condom. My mind would be wondering if she was clean, what he caught from her, where her parts had been, etc....

Yeah, when I was very young, I had a lot of casual sex but I also was a heavy drinker and partier and really, really, stupid. I still regret those days.

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/1/2013 4:47:22 PM

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After cleaning up baby puke & shit, mopping up the mucus of the sick adult mothers and swapping spit cum and blood with slave sisters who have offered to carry children for sisters that can't . . . there's not much "ick" factor in in life left for me.

Play with non fluid bonded strangers is another matter.

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/1/2013 4:53:14 PM

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ugh...cringe. Even that kind of stuff makes me want to vomit. I could never handle when my daughter got ill or was a baby. It always made my stomach roll.

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/1/2013 4:59:05 PM

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This entire thread is an ICK FACTOR for Me!!!

*sprays lysol all over laptop screen

...even breathing the same AIR as someone else is pretty oogey if you think about it too long.

Suffice to say, I'm concerned with toy cleanliness and don't like the idea of sharing between users. YUCKO!

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/1/2013 6:28:48 PM

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I pretty much use my toys for one slave. I can always get more if I have multiple slaves at that particular time. Hubby is the same way. I clean them thoroughly after.

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/2/2013 11:30:08 AM

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I have thousands of dollars invested in leather equipment...floggers, single tails, paddles, etc. Replacing them for each partner is just not going to happen.

Same. I just saw an ad where somebody was selling their entire dungeon, furniture and all, for five hundred. My first thought was that somebody either has very few items or they were on the extremely low end of the quality scale.

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/2/2013 1:02:17 PM

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I have thousands of dollars invested in leather equipment...floggers, single tails, paddles, etc. Replacing them for each partner is just not going to happen.

Same. I just saw an ad where somebody was selling their entire dungeon, furniture and all, for five hundred. My first thought was that somebody either has very few items or they were on the extremely low end of the quality scale.

Damn gal, you shoulda hopped on that, kept the prime stuff and parceled out the pieces.
I mean, WTF else does one do in the winter month in Alaska?
I had a gal I knew sell her leather spanking bench for $50-I still haven't gotten over not buying it

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/2/2013 4:58:56 PM

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I have absolutely no or little ick factor if the toys can be cleaned well or a condom put on. I do Have my own bag of tricks though. So unless they have something really, really unique I don't have, I would just use mine.

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/2/2013 5:58:11 PM

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Never..never ..never. share toys..or use toys on more than "One person". I will just buy new, for a new sub. too many new bacteria out there, and wound would not bother you, might kill the next person.

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/2/2013 10:13:06 PM

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So I'm guess the rack of glass dildo's in the dish washer would be a squick for a bunch of folks? One of the reasons I love those things is the ability to run through the hot cycle...

the other is how pretty they are.

My Lovely Wench and 2 of her sluttier friends were sat in a very u3* cafe for most of yesterday afternoon after shopping pretty hard all morning. I showed up towards the end as they were inspecting 2 new glass toys my Wench had just purchased. Quite a lot of the other patrons of that establishment looked very interested....

(Upright, Uptight and Upstanding. Marks and Sparks Cafe for those Brits reading. The twinset and pearls brigade were either outraged or interested I couldn't really tell. The conversation was non explicit and those things are pretty. No minors present I should add, the other 2 ladies are also mothers)

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/2/2013 10:46:05 PM

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Electro's my major thing. The insertable 'trodes I use can cost $200+ each. It is not possible to use condoms on these since the barrier won't conduct electricity. So, I have mine which have never touched another body, and theirs. They are built like Mack trucks, but care must be taken not to wet the lead wires/connective sockets of the 'trode. The insertable section is scrubbed with a biocide detergent and sanitized overnight in a 10% bleach solution.

Partners are informed of the process and told to purchase their own 'trodes if they have a problem with 'ick' factor. Not surprisingly, they've never objected. That's guys for ya!

Women might have a different opinion, but I don't play with women so that's not an issue.

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/3/2013 12:17:29 PM

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Insertables are always owned by the slave. Other toys are owned by me. There is no squick factor involved unless it's the collar.

The collar belongs to me and it is only _ever_ used on one girl. A used collar or a previously owned collar is high on the squick meter for me. I would rather go down to the local "pets-r-us" and choose a dog collar than use an old one.

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/4/2013 2:35:39 AM

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Damn gal, you shoulda hopped on that, kept the prime stuff and parceled out the pieces.
I mean, WTF else does one do in the winter month in Alaska?
I had a gal I knew sell her leather spanking bench for $50-I still haven't gotten over not buying it

Dude! Do you have any idea of what shipping costs to Alaska?

I'm going into the city to look at a couple of more items that have potential to be turned into dungeon furniture. I had said no at first but there are a couple of guys in the area that are willing to put in the necessary time to make them fun. If those pieces work in our space, I think they will turn into some really cool stuff!

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RE: Ick factor with toys? - 5/4/2013 4:34:18 AM

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I am a masochist. I own all my own toys. I do get concerned when people want to recycle used toys on new partners especially genital toys. Anything that comes near me is new or mine lol. I am a happy little germaphobe. People should have their own separate toys.

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