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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 3:03:12 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Charles, I want to be the first person to congratulate you on the very good news.


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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 3:09:07 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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Status: offline 		Way to go Charles!!!

Congrats to you

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 3:29:22 PM   
MasterCaneman


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Status: offline 		First off, you need to develop a thicker skin before you go storming off. Women by and large don't like men who act like impatient children. Second, you joined today, the first. Did you seriously expect to make a hookup within the first twenty-four hours? You want a slave, here's what you do:

1. Read the previous poster's comment. REALLY read them for subtext.

2. Massage your profile a little, make yourself out to be more than a college-age kid looking for a quickie.

3. Look at the things you put down as preferences and ask yourself what that might look like to a woman. Not a slave or a submissive. A woman. Would you do those things with someone you just met? (as a woman, not a horny guy because I know you would)
4. Work the other side. Look at the ladies profiles and see what THEY want, not what YOU want. There will be time enough for that later, trust me.
5. Lastly, patience. Nothing good happens immediately. As simple as that. You want fast? Bust out the cash. And lose the "for free" part, man. There is nothing about a woman that is free of charge, in scene or out. Patience.

If you choose to come back and read these further, you've taken a big step. If not, oh well, and I bumped my post count with a legit posting. It's all good...

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 3:33:56 PM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: Charles6682
I can finally say that after all these years,I am now a happily owned slave to my beautiful Domme.

This post made me smile. You've always struck me as a really decent guy. Best wishes to both of you.

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 3:36:43 PM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		Thank you LadyPact and Freedomdwarf1,I really appericate that.You have given me a lot of good advice before LadyPact and I thank you for that.I know I still have a lot to learn and my journey has only started.

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 3:37:12 PM   
MasterCaneman


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Status: offline 		Oh, and congratulations, Charles. I forgot to mention it while berating the OP.

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 3:39:19 PM   
Charles6682


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Status: offline 		I do appericate all the kind words.I am certainly happy!

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 3:39:45 PM   
RedMagic1


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Chill out guys, just a username.

Here's a question I'd like to ask you, MasterMatt92. Who are you? What makes you attractive, what makes you beautiful?

And here's my advice. Figure out the answers to those questions, and then create a username and a profile that showcases those answers.

Best of luck.

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 3:44:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: Charles6682
I can finally say that after all these years,I am now a happily owned slave to my beautiful Domme.

This post made me smile. You've always struck me as a really decent guy. Best wishes to both of you.


Allow me to add my congratulations, as well!


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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 3:48:53 PM   
HaveWhipWillTrav


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Status: offline 		Probably already said but I did not want to read everything. Local get togethers (Yes they are out there) and just looking on websites like this and going to bdsm classes which yes they are around too. Hopefully you can find what you are looking for.

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 4:01:21 PM   
catize


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What?  He has to actually put some thought and effort in???  No, no,no, the OP wants advice on how to work a magic wand!  Sheesh, get it together, people!! 

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 4:38:23 PM   
ResidentSadist


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ORIGINAL: MasterMatt92

You're clever. One could only dream of such a store.

Seriously, I go to:



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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 6:52:34 PM   
Rasciallymisty


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Status: offline 		<<<<< what it seems like that is happening with you. You have been given some really good advice and some have done the leg work for you to find munches....would you like them to go shopping at slave mart and buy you a slave too???? If you are leaving do not let the door hit you to hard.

kar

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 8:27:50 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		Many congratulations Charles. Wish you all the best.

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 8:55:25 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: MasterMatt92

Whats the best way to find someone who is into what im into, without having to pay for it?


He'll if I know... I am having a hell of a time getting my quota! So much so.. I worried the Master guild is going to revoke my standing! I am so stressed about this. Maybe I can pick up a tip or two from this thread!

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 9:00:55 PM   
MasterCaneman


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist


quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterMatt92

You're clever. One could only dream of such a store.

Seriously, I go to:




To you sir, one free internet...

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 9:21:13 PM   
Spiritedsub2


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Status: offline 		It's located right next door to Dom Depot.

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/1/2013 10:57:18 PM   
zpenguin


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Status: offline 		Easy answer, try looking around on here or fetlife.com (fet has local groups as well)

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/2/2013 2:01:21 AM   
FrostedFlake


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Status: offline 		Hi Matt

A few thoughts spring to mind. If you are still here.

1/ Take off that hat.
2/ Put down that beer.
3/ Trade that shirt for one with a collar and don't roll the sleeves to show off that amazing tatt.
4/ Move the camera so it doesn't feature the bed over your shoulder and a fresh from the moving van pile of boxes at the ready. Or the other way round.
5/ Take off the glasses and wait for the red to fade a bit.
6/ Take a picture of yourself.
7/ Use it on your new, more serious, profile of a guy who isn't a

Almost took that too far.

Hat tip, Charles!

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RE: How do i find a slave? - 5/2/2013 3:56:57 AM   
Dtesmoac


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Status: offline 		sometimes in the most unexpected of places.

The recent advent of "respectable submissive romance (fifty shades etc) means that in normal places you will come across people touching on BDSM in conversation. If you swap a laugh or tall tale you will spot those who want to talk in a lot more detail and interest. Some will be like you wondering how they get into something...... and some will aready be experts. Best place to find a slave ... in your real life ..... :)

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