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RE: When Do You Feel Less Like a Mistress? - 6/25/2006 9:24:52 AM

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Kind of what Lady Morgynn is saying. It’s not about who you are but how you feel.
When you get dressed up in a striking outfit, don new jewels, and hold your head up high, you can say "I feel like a million bucks." but rarely would you say you feel like a million bucks when you’re sick and stuck on the toilet with diarrhea while hurling in the trash can.
When you’re at the whipping post and the energy is incredible, and you feel like you could practically fly, causes a much different set of feelings than when you’re scared, having flashbacks of childhood abuse, and need someone to hold you and tell you it’s going to be OK.
Different situations cause different feelings.

Many submissives would experience a diatribe of different feelings if they were pushed into a Dominant position for the day… if they had to sit back and watch their Master do all the chores while dressed in drag, and they had to pick up a cane and beat Master until he bled and cried. It could possibly feel very uncomfortable to that sub because they still are submissive, but they are doing things that put them in a Dominant position.
Tis the same for us. When we’re doing things that put us in a subservient or vulnerable position, we still are Dominants, but it causes us to feel differently.

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RE: When Do You Feel Less Like a Mistress? - 6/25/2006 12:46:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

I feel like a 'Mistress' when there is someone in my life who views me as such. I feel like a dominant Woman all the time, regardless of my relationship status.

I am always Dominant, even when exhibiting "submissive" behavior on the job, or charming the guy at Home Depot to go the extra mile for me one- adopts a different persona appropriate to the situation but my core is a Dominant.

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RE: When Do You Feel Less Like a Mistress? - 6/25/2006 10:00:18 PM

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I always am Dominant, but when the allergies have taken over, and I can't see and can barely breathe, with a migrane about to set it ... I definitely don't feel like I could dominate anyone, even a doormat LOL

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RE: When Do You Feel Less Like a Mistress? - 6/25/2006 10:12:33 PM

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When my hormones are messing with my mind and emotions or when I have to deal with vanilla family sometimes I feel as though all my energy is sucked into some atmospheric void leaving me empty and alone......real life sucks sometimes

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RE: When Do You Feel Less Like a Mistress? - 6/25/2006 10:57:24 PM

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As to the OP....

I feel less Dominant when I am being talked down to or condescended to by someone that due to circumstances I am unable to put in his/her place. For some reason it's usually a 'he' that thinks he knows more than I do - imagine that - lol.

As to the sub-topic of animals we are slaves to ....

My cat decided he didn't want to eat - not sure the reasons. I didn't know cats will starve themselves to death but I guess they will. He lost just about half of his body weight in about a month or two and turned all yellow due to damage to his liver. I had to force feed him every two hours (except at night for 8 hours) for 3 weeks. I must say I never felt so powerful as when I was caring for him and determined to 'make' him live. He did live and is now back to his fat self of 21lbs (he is a 'big' cat mind you).

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RE: When Do You Feel Less Like a Mistress? - 6/26/2006 9:07:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314
sooooo when do You Ladies feel least like a Mistress?

When I'm at work. I work as a transplant coordinator. Granted, I DO get to wake whiny surgeons up at 3am and tell them what to do, where to do, be here, do this, do that.....but....

The reality of my job is that I constantly face someone else's loss every day. I cannot control these things, or even try. There are times that I cannot even understand what these folks are going through or comprehend the senselessness of their loss, especially in the case of a child. I can offer my condolances. I can be a listening ear and offer that family the opportunity to make a choice in their life and the life of the loved one they just lost. I enable them to make a choice that is quite honestly, the last exceptional deed that their loved one will do for another while in this life. And I have the privilege to be the steward of that gift, be it a heart, a liver, a set of lungs, a kidney or a cornea, and see to it that it gets to surgeon who will make it become a new life for a lucky recipient.

I am SO far from being a mistress at that moment.....

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RE: When Do You Feel Less Like a Mistress? - 6/26/2006 9:08:49 AM

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When I'm doing housework (No I dont own any slaves and my sub doesnt live with me), laundry doesn't make me feel too Dommie and cleaning up after my dogs makes me wish somedays I did have a slave

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RE: When Do You Feel Less Like a Mistress? - 6/26/2006 10:30:36 AM

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not in reply to anyone, but at the same time everyone

When did dealing with life & things that happen in life have anything to do with whether one was dominant or not?

Cleaning up animal poop or taking care of our daily chores has no barring or diminishing of dominance.... or did the same notion of fantasy bring you to this that so often the submissives are scolded on... a life of bon-bons & silk pillows , reality check. None of that has anything to do with mastery of self or the life management of others.

My years of single parenting during the diaper years, often working two jobs to pay bills, taking a bullshit job in customer service catching heat from strangers who interacted with to bitch & complain about products or services that they received, picking up dog crap off the floor or out of the yard, mowing my lawn by flashlight because of working 18 hour plus days or cooking my own meals/doing my own laundry did not impede my dominance... in fact I feel that because I did all of this with grace & dignity validates the fact that I just what I am... a capable & confident woman that just happens to be a dominant.

Honestly... these normal life happenings make you guys feel less than dominant? (scratching head

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RE: When Do You Feel Less Like a Mistress? - 6/26/2006 10:51:54 AM

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Have to agree... when feeling sick I feel far from a Mistress. Also in the company of my mother/father/brothers who are the only people who have the ability to make me feel less dominant that usual.

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RE: When Do You Feel Less Like a Mistress? - 6/26/2006 12:07:42 PM

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I would have to say that its when I am at the mercy of My cats.

I think its interesting...how Our pets can rule Us.

I know that all 6 of Mine have Me wrapped,cute little kitty faces "mew"

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