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alslv -> Giving Oral (5/2/2013 12:06:07 PM)

I've got a fantasy about giving oral to a lady without expecting anying in return. Where should I start?


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DesFIP -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 12:11:14 PM)

Dating and becoming friends with prospective partners so they want to be with you.




MasterCaneman -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 12:25:37 PM)

Done in one.




LadyPact -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 12:32:16 PM)

With a woman that is actually willing to be intimate with you.

I hate to break this to you, but not every woman is willing to agree to allow just any guy between her legs so he can fulfill his fantasy. Your fantasy matters to the average woman very little. The parallel to this is how often do you think you will find success by just walking up to a female and saying that you would like to provide a sexual encounter in the vanilla world? If you've been very successful at that approach, I would highly suggest to you that you send a letter to Penthouse forums.

Your best bet is a relationship with a particular woman. One who, as a part of that relationship *wants* to be intimate with you. Not just some random thing that is the equivalent of walking up to a female and asking some version of "wanna f*ck?"




poise -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 12:40:30 PM)


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ORIGINAL: alslv

I've got a fantasy about giving oral to a lady without expecting anying in return. Where should I start?



Between her ears. Duh! [:-]




ResidentSadist -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 12:59:10 PM)

Is this wank bait or do you really expect us to believe that at the age of 49 you don't know how to pick up a chick that likes getting licked?




mnottertail -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 1:03:34 PM)

Yanno, it takes alotta fuckin gall for clowns out here to be commenting on oral without consulting the world renown expert.

Goddammit!!! I am mad enough to bite a bannana!!!!! 

And you can quote me.




MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 1:07:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: alslv

I've got a fantasy about giving oral to a lady without expecting anying in return. Where should I start?


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Go to the back of the line...
No, not here...further back...the back of the line is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back there behind all the millions of other guys with the same exact fantasy. [8|]




sexyred1 -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 1:21:21 PM)

Go to a bar or singles joint, walk in and yell out, " Hey any women here want cunnilingus? I don't expect a thing back."

Let us know how that works out.




ladynlord -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 1:28:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Go to a bar or singles joint, walk in and yell out,

I was gonna suggest a T-shirt...but yelling out works too!




RedMagic1 -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 1:31:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: alslv
I've got a fantasy about giving oral to a lady without expecting anying in return. Where should I start?

That's a form of fluid swapping, so it's risky, though less risky than, say, anal sex. In my experience, women tend to limit that to primary partners, or to men who make them super horny even though they weren't planning on letting that happen.

If you want to be the oral slave of a woman who satisfies her needs to be a partner elsewhere, you will probably need to provide more than just a tongue. Be someone she can count in in other ways in her life -- emotionally, financially, or some other way.

Another practical option would be to find an escort you click with, and work out a weekly or bi-monthly arrangement with her, where you provide the worship, and she provides the altar.




UllrsIshtar -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 2:56:32 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: alslv

I've got a fantasy about giving oral to a lady without expecting anying in return. Where should I start?



That's impossible seeing that you're expecting your fantasy to be fulfilled.

Thus, if you give a woman oral and she then WANTS to have sex, you're going to feel screwed.

Ergo, what you want in return for giving oral is to control what the woman is allowed to do afterwards.

Come up with a more realistic fantasy would be my advice.





MasterCaneman -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 3:27:58 PM)

Upon reflection, and re-reading the OP, I get the suspicion what he's really looking for is some action that doesn't require him to pay. But I could be wrong.




Missokyst -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 3:28:47 PM)

LMAO... I have seen that T-shirt!!

quote:

ORIGINAL: ladynlord


quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Go to a bar or singles joint, walk in and yell out,

I was gonna suggest a T-shirt...but yelling out works too!





searching4mysir -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 3:36:07 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: alslv

I've got a fantasy about giving oral to a lady without expecting anying in return. Where should I start?


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With treating her as more than just a pussy to feed your fetish.




Level -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 3:36:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: poise


quote:

ORIGINAL: alslv

I've got a fantasy about giving oral to a lady without expecting anying in return. Where should I start?



Between her ears. Duh! [:-]


Now he's gonna go lick some poor woman on the nose...




Rasciallymisty -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 5:07:45 PM)

Find a women to date or be in a relationship with and see if she likes such if she does go for it. [:D]




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 5:23:26 PM)

This thread would have been so much better, if the OP asked "how do I do perform cunnilingus so exceptionally well" so that adding that to my qualities, I woman won't feel inclined dump me easily?! M




evesgrden -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 5:28:06 PM)

What are you doing here?

Go to a vanilla dating site. Get a girlfriend and develop some intimacy. Say " honey, you just lie back and relax and enjoy".

I really don't get what you're doing here. I see no dynamic and no kink.

And if this is your definition of a fantasy.. well, you have my condolences.





MHAP -> RE: Giving Oral (5/2/2013 5:53:14 PM)

WOW You guys "nuked'em" "Raked'em" and even dis'ed his spelling.. (almost spilled my rum laughing at this thread..)




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