SpanishMatMaster
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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2 I've been wondering what "troll" on this forum means. (...) an asshole? AFAIK is the same as in the rest of internet social media. Someone whose basic purpose on the social interaction is to fight. Similar to a fan of horror movies who likes to be frightened (adrenalin boost), the troll gets the same on social fights and to a certain point addicted on them. The more you fight with a troll, the more he will fight back. He will never get tired. He is an expert on verbal attacks, knows different ways to offend or disturb his target and has always, always, a "last word" to say (because he does not really want the conflict to stop - ever). Usually he fortifies his position with humor. Laughing at the other person is the easiest position in a social conflict in order to get hurt as less as possible and hurt as much as possible. He can counter with arguments (if he finds one) or not: there is always some joke to be made at the cost of the other. For him, admitting that you are disturbed or hurt by the words of the other is "losing", whereas driving the other person madly in anger is "winning". Even if he *is* madly in anger he will never admit it, preferring to simulate that he is laughing and counterattack. A person can be an asshole without it being a troll. I have been called an asshole because I countered a comment on a personal tragedy of somebody with a cold analysis. I was probably the opposite of diplomatic, and probably really an asshole at that point, but I was serious (Rule #1 of Trolls - they seem to laugh about anything) and the analysis, even if cold, was the result of a considerable effort and seriously meant. The sentence "don't feed the troll" refers to the counter-strategy of simply ignoring their comments or even their user account at all (something I am very fond of, see my signature). This is the only strategy which will drive the troll away, but be careful - this drives also well intended, serious people away. Handle with care. Best regards.
< Message edited by SpanishMatMaster -- 5/9/2013 2:11:39 AM >
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