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njlauren -> RE: ProDom hunting and being safe (5/27/2013 8:16:33 AM)
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When I did pro sessions, who I played with varied. When I started out, I was young, and obviously didn't have the resources to play often, but it generally was at one of the lower end houses (i.e relatively inexpensive). When I first went there, it was talking to the dommes on that day, where i was, and seeing what clicked. As time went on, I got to know some of the dommes and would ask for them..
Later on, as I progressed and was using a high end house, I had regular dommes I had worked with an liked, and we became friends as well as the professional relationship. I would never claim these women were my 'D' or anything, it was a pro relationship, but they were friends I enjoyed talking to, and one of them when this got into my personal life, became a mentor to my wife and myself.
Pro dommes who are in the business will not pull scams, for the simple reason that word gets out. If someone pulls a scam, like doing outcall, taking the money and disappearing, they are likely an escort with a whip type, who basically are just a scam artist (any escort service in business any length of time would not do this, because of the obvious reasons, they would never get clients).
It is why it pays to do some research, and why using Craigslist is idiotic. There are a lot of erotic websites out there, there are review sites for pro dommes like Max Fish, and it isn't hard to do some background that at the very least, the person has been around more then a few days. A new domme at a pro house is safe, someone advertising on craigslist "I am new in town" should be given a wide berth.
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