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ORIGINAL: lizi

It seems to me that it's usually the men who say that finsubs are not common. I think perhaps it's because they have a chip on their shoulder about the whole thing, it pisses them off, and they refuse to believe that there are silly men out there who would actually search this out. They don't seem to think financial Domination has any value, so they refuse to think that it could exist.

It's the women that say it's common. Why? Because I'd say about every woman on this site, no matter what sexual orientation box they check off, has had out of the blue offers from men asking to send them money. I also think that the hordes of finDommes out there proves that there is a market supporting them.

People can draw their own conclusions of course.

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ORIGINAL: HeatherHellfire

The one thing that gets Me is that I receive about 50 requests per week most are utter trash. Where in the history of etiquette did it become acceptable to use the opener "hi I want to be your toilet" ? The grammer and punctuation is usually hideous but this first contact on content alone would incite contempt from most Women. The vulgar requests vastly outweigh the respectful ones by a ratio of approximately 10 to 1. I am Lifestyle and Pro and have found wonderful submissives on here from time to time. My profile cleary states that if you are looking for a session and not willing to put in the effort that any self respecting Woman would demand first then you will pay , period. I adore being served by and consensually abusing men and women but it will be on My terms always. Completely ignoring a profile that some effort was obviously put into and just plowing into My inbox with the finesse of some feral beast will guarantee My attention will require tribute. I have a custom cage coming in mid September that will have a final cost in the neighborhood of $2000. My implement value easily exceeds $3000. This is not even taking into account the cross and dungeon furniture. I adore My shoe collection and it is quite extensive and expensive so asking Me to send you a 400$ pair of Christian Louboutin's so that you can slobber on them will have a very high price tag on it. If I like you and you show proper submissivness and respect then maybe I will entertain you as a toy. Sending a wishlist almost demanding to be beaten on thousands of dollars of My equipement without even so much as an inquiry in what I about will get you the stock answer or in the extreme case blocked because I don't feel like explaining this crap for the 500th time to your lame ass ! As far as the real submissives are concerned that aren't just a bunch of pigs disguised as humans, I adore you all.

Goddess Hellfire

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ORIGINAL: Steadygoing

I don't even think there is an "interest" option to add to your profile for it

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ORIGINAL: HeatherHellfire
The grammer and punctuation is usually hideous....

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: HeatherHellfire

The one thing that gets Me is that I receive about 50 requests per week most are utter trash. Where in the history of etiquette did it become acceptable to use the opener "hi I want to be your toilet" ? The grammer and punctuation is usually hideous but this first contact on content alone would incite contempt from most Women. The vulgar requests vastly outweigh the respectful ones by a ratio of approximately 10 to 1. I am Lifestyle and Pro and have found wonderful submissives on here from time to time. My profile cleary states that if you are looking for a session and not willing to put in the effort that any self respecting Woman would demand first then you will pay , period. I adore being served by and consensually abusing men and women but it will be on My terms always. Completely ignoring a profile that some effort was obviously put into and just plowing into My inbox with the finesse of some feral beast will guarantee My attention will require tribute. I have a custom cage coming in mid September that will have a final cost in the neighborhood of $2000. My implement value easily exceeds $3000. This is not even taking into account the cross and dungeon furniture. I adore My shoe collection and it is quite extensive and expensive so asking Me to send you a 400$ pair of Christian Louboutin's so that you can slobber on them will have a very high price tag on it. If I like you and you show proper submissivness and respect then maybe I will entertain you as a toy. Sending a wishlist almost demanding to be beaten on thousands of dollars of My equipement without even so much as an inquiry in what I about will get you the stock answer or in the extreme case blocked because I don't feel like explaining this crap for the 500th time to your lame ass ! As far as the real submissives are concerned that aren't just a bunch of pigs disguised as humans, I adore you all.

Goddess Hellfire

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ORIGINAL: LoyalBlackSub

It seems that 8/10 dommes here are all about money. There's nothing wrong with serving your Mistress with your wallet amongst other things, as a true sub seeks to please his domme any way possible. I feel,however, that Findom takes away the integrity of our lifestyle and attracts the wrong women/scammers. If I message 30 dommes right now, 25 will say something along the lines of: tribute me, send me amazon giftcards, etc. They don't care who you are, or if you're even submissive, as long as you tribute. It's like prostitution without having sex which attracts any attractive girl to make a profile and demand money as if they're dominant. Femdom is turning more into a business venture than a lifestyle and that's not good for young subs just entering the lifestlye. I'm not bashing Collerme, or even Findom. Findom used correctly, gives the Mistress ultimate control which I believe in. But the effect its had: fakes, scammers, picture stealing, and women looking for a quick payday is not good for us true subs and dommes.

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

I don't "need" cash, but I will get compensated for my time.

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ORIGINAL: MrBukani

LOL
80% of dommes are findommes
true dommes get 80% of all the shitty emails from wannabe subs
femalesubs get 300% of wanko doms
in general just like any other datingsite wimmin get mailbombed.
And still the bitches complain there arent enough good men around. From hundreds of pickings.
I see an e-traffic jam in my mirror.

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ORIGINAL: ClassAct2006

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ORIGINAL: HeatherHellfire
The grammer and punctuation is usually hideous....

Was that joke?
(Grammar - write it 100 times.... Thou must learn to spell grammar with an "a"...

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but the message had the desired effect and I received two very respectful messages back to back yesterday.

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

I don't "need" cash, but I will get compensated for my time.

Me too.

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ORIGINAL: evesgrden

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but the message had the desired effect and I received two very respectful messages back to back yesterday.

I knew it was an personal ad.