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RE: Stress relief, spa versus dominance? - 5/30/2013 4:11:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Sigh. I wish I could find a good masseuse. I've been to at least three here in Baltimore and each of them sucked. Everytime I told them I wanted the deep tissue massage, all I got was this new-agey, run their hands over my body to get me to "relax", reiki stuff and all that jazz. And no, none of those spas advertised they were "alternative". They were all supposedly trained masseuses in deep tissue, swedish, and all the other types of professional medical type massages.

Hopefully one of these days I find a good one.

Find a sports medicine clinic -- they can probably refer you to a real deep-tissue massage place.

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RE: Stress relief, spa versus dominance? - 5/30/2013 8:09:47 PM

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If she wanted to relax she would go to a spa.

How many of you agree with that? Can't you just order your sub to give you a bath or massage and go do his chores?

I've been massaged by dozens of amateurs and dozens of professional, and with very few exceptions, those who are professionally trained are better.

I was thinking this, as well. I love a good massage, and at a high end spa?? Um, yes please! Give me the full blown treatment - full body massage, facial, mineral bath, you name it. And the ambiance is a must, too.

There are different ways of relaxing. Sometimes hard play can do it, sometimes a good workout, sometimes unwinding with friends, and sometimes an awesome spa treatment....by professionals trained to do it right.

Now, having said that, the Mister gives a pretty dang good massage. But it's still a much different experience than a spa.

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RE: Stress relief, spa versus dominance? - 5/30/2013 10:16:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: focalss

I asked a woman a question about being dominant and if she found it a way to relieve her stress to get the urge out of her system and she said it was more stressful to be a Domme. If she wanted to relax she would go to a spa.

How many of you agree with that?

It depends on what kind of stress I'm having which one will work better.

If my stress is because of pent up nervous energy or just pent up energy in general, then Domming or Topping someone will reduce my stress. It takes energy and aerobic/cardio exercise is great for a person.

If my stress is because of muscle aches and pains, or just inability to relax, then a great massage can do wonders. But I could even tell my sub I need him to give me a good body massage and he would very willingly do it for me. That way, there would be some Dominating and massage all wrapped up into one. Yum yum yum.

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RE: Stress relief, spa versus dominance? - 6/9/2013 4:19:55 PM

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It can go either way, depending on my mood. I just recently dommed a sub while I was on my period and wearing a t-shirt and sweatpants. I wasn't in the mood to play when he came over, but he was so sweet in his devotion to me that I wound up wanting to. It was a short session since I didn't have the energy to do my regular kind of play, yet it relaxed me immensely and put me in a better mood.

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