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cuckold - 5/19/2013 3:03:07 PM

Avenue

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I'm considering to be full time cuckold.. Anyone with experience with that ???... I have only fantasized about it but anyone who have taken the step, And was it like you expected ?

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RE: cuckold - 5/19/2013 4:16:25 PM

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Greetings and welcome to Collarme and the forum. Not sure this belongs in intro, I'm sure the mods will move it if it needs to be. Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: cuckold - 5/20/2013 1:08:53 AM

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Hiya, Avenue,

I would think your message would be better served under one of the Ask Miistress/slave/Subs forums, Welcome.
Best wishes, Gary.

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RE: cuckold - 5/22/2013 3:42:17 PM

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I'm considering to be full time cuckold.. Anyone with experience with that ???... I have only fantasized about it but anyone who have taken the step, And was it like you expected ?

It's better than you envisioned but.....for every 3,174,473,498 chics you may contact....

3 are interested.

For 175 bucks....I'll hook you up to those 3.

(Being a cuck is fab....you just gotta find the right chic).

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RE: cuckold - 5/23/2013 8:09:02 AM

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Are you in a relationship with anyone? Because that's required. Otherwise you're just not getting any action.

Seriously, if you want to know that your partner is having fabulous sex with someone else, go for it. Don't expect too many women to be interested though.

And it's quite possible that you might discover you hate it in reality. Either cleaning both of them up with your tongue, or waiting till she comes back and then just giving her a back rub. So you need to talk to her about what if it doesn't work.

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RE: cuckold - 6/11/2013 11:31:30 AM

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Honestly, I never understood the charm in cuckolding but some of the Domme I served were married so it does not surprise me anymore. Do a lot of research and be open with your partner about everything. You can always declare that you are done with it one day, just don't get too deep into a relationship if you are unsure about the whole thing.

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RE: cuckold - 6/11/2013 3:36:10 PM

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I'm just curious, are you considering this because you have someone in mind to do this for? If so, I would advise talking in depth with her about what it would entail in a relationship with HER. Actually, even if you are just considering it, I would tell you to have that discussion with whoever you start talking with. Just like everything else in BDSM, each individual/couple has their own way of doing things.

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RE: cuckold - 6/13/2013 5:04:48 PM

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quote:

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I'm considering to be full time cuckold.. Anyone with experience with that ???... I have only fantasized about it but anyone who have taken the step, And was it like you expected ?

Umm, to be a FULL TIME cuckold, wouldn't your SO have to spend ALL her time having sex with other people? Most women I've ever known like to spend some or their time, in fact most of their time, doing other things like eating, sleeping, socializing, etc.

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RE: cuckold - 6/13/2013 7:50:21 PM

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RE: cuckold - 6/13/2013 8:09:40 PM

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All I can say is get used to having sex with men and wearing a chastity devise. P/s Never ever let her see you cum while wearing the cage due to being penetrated in your ass by a man or a woman. Or it will never come off again.

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RE: cuckold - 6/13/2013 8:50:28 PM

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All I can say is get used to having sex with men and wearing a chastity devise. P/s Never ever let her see you cum while wearing the cage due to being penetrated in your ass by a man or a woman. Or it will never come off again.

Speak for yourself there buddy. Just because that may have happened to you, doesn't mean that other dominants would do the same thing.

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RE: cuckold - 6/14/2013 1:36:23 AM

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Hello Avenue,

For a short while I lived as the house boy to a Domme whose husband was her cuckold. They had one of those unenforceable play "contracts" and everything. He seemed to really love hating it. Some days were fine, other days he would cry and beg her not to go on dates or have suitors over. But it worked for them.

There's a big difference between polyamory, "my girlfriend's a cheating whore," and cuckoldry. Ever been cheated on? I suspect its kind of like that. Except kinky...

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RE: cuckold - 7/12/2013 5:02:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Avenue

I'm considering to be full time cuckold.. Anyone with experience with that ???... I have only fantasized about it but anyone who have taken the step, And was it like you expected ?

Umm, to be a FULL TIME cuckold, wouldn't your SO have to spend ALL her time having sex with other people? Most women I've ever known like to spend some or their time, in fact most of their time, doing other things like eating, sleeping, socializing, etc.

Well THAT shit has just GOT to stop!!!!

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RE: cuckold - 7/19/2013 1:54:14 AM

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Never posted on this site before - Cuckolding is not all what its cracked up to be, firstly its more of a male fantasy than a reality secondly you need a WIFE who understands the 3 way dynamics and what the turn-on is for you. Older men like it more seeing another man satisfy their wife when they cannot any longer. So be careful what you ask for your marriage is at stake…

And yes we have tried cuckolding with good & bad results but never again, we just like 3somes with subbie guys now the "BULL" and my dominant wife Rachel just does not work, she like being in charge.

Have fun

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RE: cuckold - 7/19/2013 7:06:40 AM

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I'm considering to be full time cuckold.. Anyone with experience with that ???... I have only fantasized about it but anyone who have taken the step, And was it like you expected ?

Cuckolding is an unusual kink in as much as far more guys fantasize about it than women. So finding a partner is difficult. And you can't be a cuckold without a partner (and some would argue that the partner must be your wife).

Before you ask a partner to cuckold you, think about some of the potential pitfalls. For example, can you REALLY handle your wife/girlfriend being f*cked by another man? I don't mean the fantasy of it (we know you enjoy that), I mean the REALITY. Some men think they can handle it, but then become angry and jealous when it really happens.

Also, from the woman's perspective, think about what's in it for her. Why should she be interested in cuckolding you? Most women are wired to be monogamous. So if you ask your monogamous wife/girlfriend who is madly in love with you to start f*cking other men, she may look at you like you have 3 eyes. Then she'll probably punch you in one of those eyes.

If I haven't scared you away already, then here is a thread that I started some time ago that goes into graphic details about the realities of cuckolding. Personally, I think it's the best discussion that we've had on these boards about the topic (but of course, I'm biased). In particular, pay attention to the comments by myself and LadyPact. We are two members of the forum who enjoy cuckolding, and we both have real experiences to share (rather than just fantasies).

Click on the link below to read the thread.

Cuckolding thread

I hope that helps.
-Roch

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RE: cuckold - 7/19/2013 8:06:05 AM

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I have shared both my previous slaves and really enjoyed it. But I was in control and I "knew" that they would stay with me and ..did I mention I was in control?

Yet in a cucold situation I'd be miserable. Think most men would. Why not start slow and do something more like consentual voyeurism? See if you actually feel fufilled watching another couple have sex while you only watch? Imagine she is your wife/GF.

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RE: cuckold - 7/20/2013 8:35:03 AM

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I agree it is rare and that it is more fun in fantasy than reality. I know some couples who have a hot time fantasizing about it as bedroom talk, or who do things like play exhibitionist games where the wife (with the husband watching) go into a bar or something, have her get hit on, but then he 'rescues her' and they go have sex, and for them that is hot.

The couples who I have known who have done it ranged. For some, it was as others have said in this and other threads, about the domme taking her sexual freedom, and at least one of the dommes has said that the sex is okay, but the freedom of doing it is the real turn on from what I have been told.

Others seem to be into the humiliation of it,where the jealousy and humiliation does it for the sub and I guess the wife, where the husband when the wife brings someone home is expected to 'serve them', and either is made to sit outside the door and listen when they have sex, or is in the room, trussed up, and 'made' to watch.....one variation on this is in the variations in the T world, where the husband is the 'sissy', when the other man is over they are dressed all sluttily, etc....to be honest, in these kind of relationships, a lot of them strike me as cruel, as an outsider, even observing them as a couple, it really seems to me like there is no love there, it looks to me like the wife totally lost respect for the husband and only stays in the relationship because of the freedom she has (I could be wrong, could be that is just surface, have no way of knowing). When it gets that cruel, I wonder about it, it seems over the line...but who knows? One story I heard (I have no way to confirm it) part of the game was when the wife would come home after seeing some guy, or even if the guy came home, she would not be wearing her wedding ring and would be wearing some 'other guys' ring, it was part of the humiliation..until one night she came home and gave him his ring, and had a real ring, and told him it was over (again, can't validate that, but wouldn't surprise me).

I do tend to agree it is probably better in fantasy than reality, at least judging my own emotions.

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RE: cuckold - 8/9/2013 7:12:02 PM

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For all you purveyors LOL....classic: http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=cuckold&view=detail&mid=B3845CB17E701078025FB3845CB17E701078025F&first=0&FORM=NVPFVR

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RE: cuckold - 8/9/2013 7:46:46 PM

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RE: cuckold - 8/11/2013 8:23:26 PM

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I'm considering to be full time cuckold.. Anyone with experience with that ???... I have only fantasized about it but anyone who have taken the step, And was it like you expected ?

Umm, to be a FULL TIME cuckold, wouldn't your SO have to spend ALL her time having sex with other people? Most women I've ever known like to spend some or their time, in fact most of their time, doing other things like eating, sleeping, socializing, etc.