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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/22/2013 5:50:33 PM

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A friend of mine was dating some guy in the army. Him and his roommate threw parties every weekend and she invited me along. I went thinking I would get a few drinks and ended up attracting my now husbands attention. He told my friend to make sure I came back the next weekend for the next party. I did and eventually did all the things that lead to getting married.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/22/2013 9:05:17 PM

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I met the Mister here on CM just over 4 years ago. He contacted me, we talked for a couple of months, then met in person 4 years ago this weekend.

Prior to that:
I met my ex husband when I moved into the apartment upstairs from him - 17 years
I met the ex owner in a Yahoo Bondage-A-Go-Go chat room - 3 years, I think, maybe 4
I went out with a couple of men that I met here after that - both lasted about 3 months, neither were serious (one was just a FWB thing)

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/22/2013 10:54:18 PM

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Collarme and then a Sears parking lot. Best sex I ever had a few months later.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/23/2013 12:52:00 AM

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I met quite a bit of my more recent partners on OKCupid (and by recent, I mean like in the last two years) and Fetlife. I met the Mister through a mutual friend though.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/23/2013 2:35:15 AM

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I met my husband on ICQ, back when you could press a button for a random chat partner. Very much not looking for a relationship at the time, but looked him up again a couple of years later and we've been married nearly seven years.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/23/2013 5:24:19 AM

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I meet my primary years ago through a creepy GWC that hit me up to help me build my portfolio.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/23/2013 6:27:07 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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OMG I remember the old yahoo Bondage-A-Go-Go room. That was in operation at the same time as the Rape Room.

Those were the days of free wheeling BDSM chat rooms.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/23/2013 7:00:19 AM

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I met my late slave-wife through a paper newsletter, yes, it was that long ago. I was aiming to get out of a failing marriage, and joined a BDSM contact group thinking something would come out of it eventually; spotted an ad a couple of months later, exchanged letters for a few months (4 days minimum from post to reply, you tell the kids now, they won't believe you...) then met her, tied her down and beat and screwed the living daylights out of her for about 10 hours straight, and married her a month later.

When she died (nothing I did, honest, Officer,) I knew I shouldn't go looking for someone else right away. But I hung out and posted on a BDSM forum (not CM, can't even remember now what it was,) and one day someone I never heard of PMed me "Why don't you check out T's advert, she looks like she'd suit you?" So I looked, and liked what I saw, and wrote to her, and a few months later I collared her. A while later she admitted that she'd sent the original PM from a throwaway account because she liked my style, and I duly punished her for being too smart.

That relationship was too good to be true, but it was great while it lasted. While it was burning out I got into an online friendship with a Domme who I could talk to about all kinds of things, from M/s to sci-fi to politics to old rock music; but after a while she started reacting oddly to innocent things I said. Finally she explained that what was bothering her was an overwhelming urge to submit to me, which was NOT HER! So once I'd dumped the slave (for running off then begging to be taken back one time too many,) I met her in 3D and showed her that submitting to me was very much her. And we've been together for eight years and counting.

Moral: You can find love, and even a Master or a slave, by words on the screen. And with luck and the grace of Eros, it can last.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/23/2013 7:14:19 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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I guess I should mention I met lamb, my sub, in an IRC chatroom that I ran back when I was DJing online. He came in and right away asked if he could 'serve' me. I said yes, tell us all a story. And he did !!

He told a hilarious story about flying out to CA to meet a mistress for the first time, and her telling him to buy a pair of red sequined panties for the trip. Then she had him wear them INSIDE OUT on the long plane trip out (he's in Chgo).

This was his first ever real time meet, and he had us all laughing about the plane trip.

What struck me about him was that he's didn't react like the usual online male 'sub,' most of whom would walk after realizing I wasn't interested in an instant sex or dom session. Instead, he did as I asked, *and* made us all laugh, too. He came into my chat room for a couple of years before we met real time.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/23/2013 7:51:34 AM

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Thank you very much, MistressDarkArt. That is extremely kind of you to say.

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^^^Born2PleezeU, good job on your profile! Someone wonderful should be along soon.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/23/2013 1:47:52 PM

CynthiaWVirginia

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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

This is kind of a offshoot of another topic (To Munch or Not). Many people commented on where they met their BDSM partners...
I met both of mine on CM and noticed that, despite all the complaints about so many fakes and crazies...many people seemed to have succeeded on here...

So, where have you met your most recent partners (for those who have to make a list..only asking for the most serious or those you met in the past few years)?

Everyone I've ever topped or owned has been through Collarme. I've been here at CM for around ten years now and spent time at Alt, Bondage.com, Fet, and several other places I've forgotten. CM has been the best for meeting play partners and finding relationships.

As far as physically meeting up with bo for the first time...we met at a steak house in Princeton, WV.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/23/2013 5:39:07 PM

ThundersCry54

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Since your asking for recent only I met my first lady at a munch<not that I plan on attending any again, never say never rignt>, one on alt, it was long distance so bascially a play partnter every now and then...my last was a lady who was a love from 20 years ago, she ran across my daughter on face book and we finally talked. It was probably the deepedst relationship I have ever experienced...

Some bad experiences from other bdsm sites, though casual play was never anything I really ever wanted, it was to meaningless...tsk tsk

Years back,1985, a lady from Denver took me into The Crypt on Broadway where I bought some leather cuffs, some other items which I still have, I had no clue there was a *lifestyle* out there. Then she took me to the Mon Chalet`, basiclly a swingers motel which I was not interested in. It was the rooms that had bondage racks all over that I...liked...I always wondered if the Crypt was still there...

How time flies....

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/24/2013 6:06:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

This is kind of a offshoot of another topic (To Munch or Not). Many people commented on where they met their BDSM partners...
I met both of mine on CM and noticed that, despite all the complaints about so many fakes and crazies...many people seemed to have succeeded on here...

So, where have you met your most recent partners (for those who have to make a list..only asking for the most serious or those you met in the past few years)?

Not most recent...most exceptional.

I met her here....14 years ago.

She's remarkable.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/24/2013 6:30:18 PM

MHAP

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Met mine at Niagara Falls, was there with a children's school group. Somehow we collected an extra child going thru the cavern under the falls, she showed up 15 min later in total panic. (not exactly a Romantic moment) :)

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/24/2013 6:32:05 PM

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Hubby and I met at a club I worked at forever ago. One of the girls was met on here, and the other was on a Nilla site.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/24/2013 8:50:16 PM

ResidentSadist

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I was chasing a brontosaurus when I first saw her standing in the mouth of a cave. Her hair sparkled in the sun so I grabbed her by that shiny hair and dragged her back to my cave. Some of you guys just went and jumped in the wayback machine. The OP was talking about "many people seemed to have succeeded on here" so I presumed she was interested in relationships that started after the discovery of fire, the wheel and electricity.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/24/2013 10:45:48 PM

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Wow!!! RS, can you tell me what life was like BEFORE fire?

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/26/2013 12:06:34 PM

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I met her at a Thai food joint.
Course, we talked on here for like two years prior.
And then were together like another four before we came out on the forums. Those were fun times, when peeps had no clue.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/26/2013 1:08:07 PM

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My current girl I met at the club she worked at.

The psycho before her on the internet.

The girl before psycho I met via friends.

My first slave I met at a local club that sponsored Fetish events and shows.

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RE: Where Did You Meet? - 5/26/2013 1:30:14 PM

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I met my first sub on yahoo, 2n'd and third here at Collarme... There are plenty of real people on here, though one does have to sort. M

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