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RE: Christ on a pony, this shouldn't be this hard! - 6/1/2013 4:39:36 PM

areuhim

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ORIGINAL: garyFLR

Dear Avenseek,

There are some very weird monkeys that use this site & yes, it is depressing when they block up your in box, we are in very much a similar position, I also get cranks & scamsters trying it on with me, but, like you, I haven't been here long & I'm finding some lovely people that I'm interacting with, I haven't found what I'm looking for yet, but, I will, & so will you. you just have to keep plugging away.
Enjoy the message boards, you can meet a lot of people that way, most of the people that you complain about can't even hold a knife & fork, let alone spend time putting a cogent sentence together, so they don't appear very often on this side .
Please don't be downhearted, the person you're seeking is out there, I promise.

^^^^^ So very well said garyFLR!^^^^^

It will get better! Just go with your instincts, block the idiots and you will do well. Good luck in your search.

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RE: Christ on a pony, this shouldn't be this hard! - 6/13/2013 5:26:05 PM

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I think the general consesus is that finding the right partner in the world of kink is a lifelong affair and not for the impatient. If you ever do find a dom that has good chemistry with you and treats you well you might want to hold on tight!

I don't know if this will make you feel any better but you could at least be thankful that you are a female sub... Try being a male sub! The ratio of female doms to male subs is completely outrageous. Not only that but almost every femdom around my area either expects payment just to talk to them or is 50+ years old. (don't have a problem with either just not what I'm personally seeking) Now that is discouraging. Not to mention I'd have to find the right partner for me somehow, and find someone willing to give a person with a disability a chance... Want to trade places? :)

Seriously though good luck and all.

< Message edited by NakedLunch123 -- 6/13/2013 5:32:53 PM >

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RE: Christ on a pony, this shouldn't be this hard! - 6/14/2013 1:30:43 AM

garyFLR

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ORIGINAL: NakedLunch123

I think the general consesus is that finding the right partner in the world of kink is a lifelong affair and not for the impatient. If you ever do find a dom that has good chemistry with you and treats you well you might want to hold on tight!

I don't know if this will make you feel any better but you could at least be thankful that you are a female sub... Try being a male sub! The ratio of female doms to male subs is completely outrageous. Not only that but almost every femdom around my area either expects payment just to talk to them or is 50+ years old. (don't have a problem with either just not what I'm personally seeking) Now that is discouraging. Not to mention I'd have to find the right partner for me somehow, and find someone willing to give a person with a disability a chance... Want to trade places? :)

Seriously though good luck and all.

In response to NL, certainly the ratio between male subs & female dommes is weighted in the latters favour, but, it's not a numbers game, it's just as difficult for a Lady, whether submissive or dominant to find a genuine partner, as it is for the men here. With the Ladies it's the depressing inevitability of idiotic offensive messages & chancers, & for men, it's the scam messages, & it's the Ladies that have to sort through more rubbish.

Logic would dictate, that on a worldwide site like CM, the chances of meeting the person of your dreams is going to be almost impossible, personally, I have some wonderful message friends, but, I've yet to find any even on the same landmass as me

! However, people
do find their soulmates here, so it's just a question of time, not getting dis heartened, & enjoying all the other aspects of this great site.

Best wishes & Good luck to everyone in their search, & to those that have found their soulmates,

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