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RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people w... - 6/4/2013 12:15:15 PM   
HaveWhipWillTrav


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Status: offline 		It is a stereotype that attracts people who just want a quick lay. They think hey someone on a fetish site will be easy so they get on here. List themselves as master ,Dom, Sub etc.... That type of person does not understand that just because you have a fetish of some sort does not mean you want to have it or anything else with them. I get a lot of that type contacting my sub and I usually step in and have to tell them whats what. Usually I try to be nice and just tell them the proper protocal to follow although there are some that take a sterner talkking to or they just do not get it.

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RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people w... - 6/4/2013 3:34:12 PM   
subinSouthend


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Status: offline 		I think part of the problem is probably that you are here in a professional capacity. Not that that's a problem, but you are here looking for clients, not friends. Sites like collar me and IC as it was tend to become overrun with Pro, Financial, Dommes and money mistress's which does tend to become irksome to people looking for genuine contact, relationships and friendship.

Why Dom's write to you I have no idea, but I'll bet you rarely reply to anyone not looking for a Pro service, and if you do I'll bet it's just ''Sorry not interested''

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RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people w... - 6/19/2013 6:57:00 AM   
hrxxx


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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali

I feel like as of late, the past few months, I've been bombarded by messages from guys who list themselves as "dominant," which is strange because I'm a fin domme. So I wouldn't be interested in another dominant. I think most of these guys see it as kink=easy sex. Especially because their message don't seem to acknowledge the fact that I'm a domme. And usually go something like, "hey girl! you wanna hang out some time?" I'm not quite sure why there is such a rise in this all of a sudden. When I message them responding I'm a Domme and have no interest in another Dom or that they should read up on the message boards I usually get told I'm being a bitch. Anyone else been having similar experiences lately? And why all of a sudden?



There has always been the cookholder about BDSM site many of them have a profile picture of their cock in their hand, I know there are girls who enjoy driving them up to play, and then just stop responding. So if some girls can have fun with them, so let it be

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RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people w... - 6/19/2013 8:41:24 AM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		Simply put, it's just you.

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RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people w... - 6/19/2013 8:51:25 AM   
nephandi


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I think the rationale go something like that.

Do she have boobs...check.

Do she have a body I am attracted to...check.

Where there anything else...hum...send standard copy pasted letter and hope for the best.

I do not even think they know you are Dominant, they just hope that if they send out the same letter to enough girls at east one of them will give up the goods for him. It is like mail spammers, 99,99 percent just delete the mail and never open it, but then there are that 0,1 percent who buy and these guys are just hoping to find that 0.1 percent. They are just being stupid so just ignore them.

I wish you well

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