njlauren
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ORIGINAL: njlauren I think you also have to look at the broader picture to understand that religion has had a lot of trouble with sex and sexuality. You are generalizing about religion, and as a consequence your claim is nonsense. Religion has manifestly not "had a lot of trouble with sex and sexuality". Some religions have, others never have. K. Very easy to say that, but you also have to look at the major religions before saying that. I am well aware that for example, pagan religions generally don't issues with sexuality, and here i am using a wide ranging bunch because there isn't one pagan religion...but if you look at the major religions, it has not been a pretty picture, and there have been whole books written on the topic, Jack Spong did a pretty good job with Christianity with his book 'sins of scripture', but there have been plenty of others. Judaism didn't have quite the problems Christianity did, among other things, Judaism never had the problems with birth control per se, though orthodox Jews tend to promote the idea of having a lot of kids, and Jews have been out in front of other groups in many ways on issues like homosexuality (almost all Jewish groups, except the orthodox, now support the idea of same sex marriage, whereas in Christianity, it is still in the fringes, at least officially). But given the dominance of the Catholic church, and the negativity its church fathers had towards sex, and later on Christianity as a whole, and if you consider the size of Christianity (2 billion Christians currently in the world), then it is more true then not true...and I won't even speak for Islam, which both in scripture and practice, is very, very sex negative, especially where it concerns women. There have always been faith groups who were more positive towards sexuality, but for a lot of centuries, until fairly recent times, they preponderance has not been sex positive. And let me throw a curve ball, even the most liberal religious groups still reserve sex for marriage, and right there you have a problem. Among other things, the idea of being a virgin at marriage (well, at least for women, I wonder if it was always for men) is still out there, and whether people follow it or not (they don't, and haven't for a lot of centuries), it still is manifested out there in negative ways. The idea that sex ed promotest teens having sex, the whole 'abstinence only' sex ed is right out the religious playbook, it is promoting the idea that sex should be reserved for marriage only....besides the obvious fact,that most people ignores it, it means that real information isn't getting to kids, it means they are being given mixed signals. On top of everything else, while I think teens and sex is a kind of caustic combination, for a lot of reasons, I also think that banning pre marital sex is contra indicated to building stronger marriages, one of the biggest problems with marriages is sexual incompatibility, and people going in with no experience have a lot rougher time, those who marry young, without sexual experience, especially with a mate, tend to end up with much more difficult marriages. And yes, I used the religion in a broad way, I should have said much of religion, but the reality is, given how powerful and widespread Christianity became in the west,it had its influences. I was talking to some Indian friends at work the other day about that, about sex in India, and they said the culture was pretty sex negative, and they said the reason was though traditional hindu religious views towards sex were positive, that the British Empire brought in the COE and their prudish ideas of sex, and that that was what changed the culture there...so Christianity in its spread brought a lot of the negativity with it.
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