DesideriScuri -> RE: I have waited all day for someone to say... (6/7/2013 10:33:24 AM)
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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1 FR~ I find the whole idea of "remembering" the dead quite bizarrely off-putting. And yes, I have family members who died in both world wars. I can only say for myself, but the idea of remembering the dead isn't as much for the dead, as what they died for. The invasion at Normandy was the start of the final chapter. Germany had already started to lose the war, and storming the beaches at Normandy by sheer numbers was extremely important. Those people died for a free Europe (and free world, by extension). quote:
My grandmother died whilst in the land army doing her bit for king and country (victim of a doodlebug bomb). Yet she is not mentioned on any war memorial that I know of. My grandfather survived the D-Day evacuation. He has a grave, my grandmother doesn't. Go figure. None of us in our family has ever made a point of visiting graves or memorials - we think it's morbid. The feelings are in the heart, not in some piece of carved stone or plaque. That's how we view it. We don't ever buy poppies either. That's a tradition we find somewhat strange. And we also do not stop and observe the silence that so many do. Remembering, for some of us, is a reminder of what others have sacrificed and done to provide what we enjoy today. It can help ground some back into reality. I don't think I've had any family members, even extending beyond the 1st level, that has died in a war. I was lucky to know all 4 of my grandparents and one great grandparent (none of my other great grandparents were alive at the time of my birth), and appreciate what they did to help the war efforts. Three of my grandparents and my great grandmother (the only one I knew) had active participation in the war effort, with both of my grandfathers seeing combat. Even though I didn't lose any family members on 6 Jun 1944, I remember the sacrifices made that day. quote:
So, not all Brits, and almost certainly not many on the 'losing side' observe such bizarre traditions. We have always said in our family - "Do not mourn me and never put anything living next to the dead. Always look to the future, never the past". So all of our family funerals have never had flowers and no things planted where the ashes are scattered. And as far as I know, nobody has ever visited a family grave or the site of scattered ashes either. Maybe we are just weird. lol. And I have never heard of 'Operation Overlord' so have no clue as to what it was about. And no, I don't want to know either. You know what Operation Overlord is, but, apparently not by that name. Operation Overlord was the... [:D]
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