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RE: How do you handle your partner crying? - 6/12/2013 6:22:06 AM

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Tears are a turn on for my Dom as well....

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RE: How do you handle your partner crying? - 6/12/2013 11:37:55 AM

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Does crying a lot happen in BDSM? How do you feel when it happens?

Don't know about it in a general sense. But it is not uncommon with those I play with. When they cry... I fuck them! It really makes me feel better ;)

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RE: How do you handle your partner crying? - 6/12/2013 12:40:25 PM

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It doesn't happen much in my relationship, I don't tend to find crying all that cathartic personally, so those that I have played with and in my current relationship, are usually aware that tears are not good news and that they have made a mistake. Usually.

Communication is key, even in a more casual setting.

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RE: How do you handle your partner crying? - 6/12/2013 5:28:38 PM

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Yea hubby is into crying. I don't cry but I'm sure he makes her cry from time to time.
I think that's called dacryphilia.

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RE: How do you handle your partner crying? - 6/12/2013 10:31:24 PM

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As a sub, I'd like my master to cuddle, hug and kiss me, or just grab me and fuck me.
So yea...pretty much same things as many already said.

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RE: How do you handle your partner crying? - 6/14/2013 6:23:33 AM

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A while ago i met someone and i gave her a choice of two toys, one small the other big. Unknowing i wanted to stick it in her ass she chose the big one and couldn't take it.

(I know my fault for not easing her in) but i kinda feel like a dick about the whole situation and am a little worried about things like that happening again. The last thing i want is someone calling the police.

Does crying a lot happen in BDSM? How do you feel when it happens?

For some girls the asshole is a fickle mistress. Even if you do everything right, it's not always going to work. So communication is important.

Since you got it in and were using it for a while. It sounds like things could be a bit more complicated than you hurt her by trying to shove a traffic cone up her ass. Perhaps she cried not because it was painful, it just wasn't working and she ended up feeling like she let you down. What were you using for lube? If it was water based, those can dry out becoming sticky and cause things to become uncomfortable. If it was silicone, some people can react to those.

Heck she could have even cried because she'd gotten all worked up and the scene ended in failure when she couldn't do the anal. For some girls the thing to do there would have been to flip her over and fuck the hell out of her, with other girls that would get the police called. So communication is important.

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RE: How do you handle your partner crying? - 6/14/2013 7:37:14 AM

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"Does crying a lot happen in BDSM?" Yes, if you do it right! But you're talking about something accidental in your OP. The other side of the coin is making them cry because you intend to.

Crying is romantic . . .
Have you ever seen a slave love her Master so deeply that she cries from the emotional release after a good beating? Have you ever seen a slave feel so passionate that she crosses the pleasure/pain threshold and cums so intensely that it makes her weep? Have you ever seen trust so deep and complete that tears flow when she follows Master faithfully and overcomes her fears?

Crying is sexy . . .
Tear filled eyes big as saucers, looking up at you. Cheap mascara stains trailing down over her cheeks. A tear hangs precariously in the balance from her pouting, swollen and quivering lips. A trickle of blood and cum leak from the corner of her mouth as a testament to the violent sex. She is sex personified and her face and the tears upon it bear evidence as proof to the sacrifice she has just made for passion. She is someone that gave it all until she cried.

I like it when they cry . . .
I thrive on the connection, the bonds between a Master and slave and between a sadist and masochist. I love seeing the look on my slave's face when I see that I control her and what she is feeling. I like to cross Masterism with sadism while I explore emotional fears, expand physical limits, break mental boundaries and fulfill forbidden desires. I passionately mix love, torture, sex, fear, pleasure, pain, anguish, lust, trust and I test faith. I want to see tears of joy, tears of pain, tears of love, tears of pleasure and tears from fear... I like it when they cry.

Cry for me.

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RE: How do you handle your partner crying? - 6/14/2013 7:51:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: OneGuyAndACamera

Does crying a lot happen in BDSM? How do you feel when it happens?

Don't know about it in a general sense. But it is not uncommon with those I play with. When they cry... I fuck them! It really makes me feel better ;)

....now that's FUNNY!

I never made a habit of crying around my master, but the one time I did, he smiled a compassionate smile, and stroked my hair. Both of which were a rare thing for him. A smile was rare. I am glad he didn't punch my lights out. LOL.

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RE: How do you handle your partner crying? - 6/23/2013 7:57:34 AM

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Crying? crying is not a safeword. whats your protocol?

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