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place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 5:03:52 PM   
missxxxercy


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Status: offline 		I used the search but cant find if there is a type of beware thread?
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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 5:08:44 PM   
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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 5:09:52 PM   
missxxxercy


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Status: offline 		Well, It wouldnt be by name, just situation. But thanks!

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 5:13:58 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Please read this official announcement: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1163969/tm.htm

People do discuss situations here all the time. Depending on what it is, you might decide to post under General, Health and Safety, Off Topic, etc. Please understand that most of the regular posters here have been around the block a few times, or at least think they have. So asking a question or starting a discussion is usually better received than is issuing a dire warning.

Best wishes.

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 5:17:21 PM   
tazzygirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: missxxxercy

Well, It wouldnt be by name, just situation. But thanks!


Oh, for situations, they are all interspersed among the threads themselves. Are you asking from a dominant point of view? As in what to look out for with subs?

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 6:09:56 PM   
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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 6:22:46 PM   
Rasciallymisty


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Status: offline 		There have been a lot of threads where someone like yourself has come in to ask a question and has not had the chance...yes thats it, has not had the chance, to read the TOS for the forums. When they do not do so, sometimes the Mods then grace the thread with there presents. My two cents is ask away but just make sure that you are within the guidelines of the forum.

~misty~

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 7:12:18 PM   
MsLadySue


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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 7:17:48 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		She does have a valid point. Is there a thread that addresses what most would consider the warning signs when it comes to relationships?

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If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 7:21:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

She does have a valid point. Is there a thread that addresses what most would consider the warning signs when it comes to relationships?


I remember a thread about red flags awhile back.

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 7:31:02 PM   
tazzygirl


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Thank you! My search brain simply was not kicking in tonight!

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missxxxercy,

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4337652/mpage_1/tm.htm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4210995/mpage_1/tm.htm

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4212109

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4078255

This was sort of amusing....

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3727239

Just for starters. Hope that helps.

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 7:42:59 PM   
TheLilSquaw


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The 1st one was the one I remembered although the last one is funny.

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 8:35:10 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		If you are going to read the links I provided, please dont respond on those threads. Most, if not all, are older than 3 months and the Admins prefer we start new threads after that much time has gone by.

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/12/2013 10:42:12 PM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: missxxxercy

I used the search but cant find if there is a type of beware thread?

I can't find it either and I'm upset because I want to warn people about you.

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/13/2013 11:12:20 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		Here is the problem with warnings...

The nuttier people are, the more likely they are to complain, people who form shitty relationships, have shitty endings AND the people who most need advice on how to avoid assholes are also the ones most likely to avoid advice aboit assholes.

Also, most assholes have people that worship them and not a few good guys have assholes who cant stand them.

In the real world there are people who will tell you I am a lying, meanspirited, abusive asshole. Few of those have ever met a partner of mine, most of whom will tell you glowing things about me.



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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/13/2013 11:16:26 AM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		I don't know, I guess you will just have to look for warning signs. For example...if you see a profile that goes on and on about how the user is not looking for cash but it ends with a link to her amazon wish list, that's a warning sign. If you see a profile that talks solely about the users dick and nothing about what he might offer, that's a warning sign.

Blacklisting is not allowed on here for a good reason, so it's up to us to use the brains god gave us.

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/13/2013 12:54:26 PM   
LafayetteLady


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Honestly, do you really believe that people need to be told to beware of someone who spoke to you and never sent you money like they promised? Or if you didn't get enough money to pay your bills, buy a car or get your hair done?

You are misleading people trying to make them think you aren't a prodomme. You are. You charge for sessions, that's a pro.

If you want to be a pro, be a pro. If you want to try to mask it as something else, then people should be warned to beware of you. If you need to pay your bills and buy a car, get a job.

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/13/2013 12:59:25 PM   
nephandi


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Try searching for the phrase red flags and you will get a million threads about danger signs. However one thing to be aware of is that red flags is not the end all be all of such matters, you have to look at the individual, you have great people who have a few red flags about them, and complete creeps that show none of them, also we can not seam to agree on what should be considered red flags and what should not, but it is a place to start.

I wish you well

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/13/2013 7:38:06 PM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		Then be honest with the men you talk with and with yourself and call yourself a prodomme. It really is that simple.

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RE: place to complain/warn about users? - 6/13/2013 7:56:06 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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So what is it you are wanting to warn people about? There are plenty of threads out there where you can share your situations that don't specifically blacklist anyone. Or is this more of a public shaming type of thing? Context matters

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