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Charles6682 -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 8:15:35 AM)
I know it was a joke. I was just curious if there was a term for someone between being a "newbie" and someone who is "experienced". That's all. quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 How does the members of the "Lifestyle" define someone who is a "newbie" and someone who has some limited experience? I don't pretend to claim I have decades of experience at this as I am only a few decades old. But I don't think I would consider myself a "newbie" at this point either. This "journey" didn't start for me last night. This really has been a "lifelong" process for me ever since I was a kid. I didn't know there a "name" for how I felt back then but thanks to the internet, I realized what I was experiencing wasn't anything new. At 31 years old though, I am getting away from the "fetish only fantasies" and trying to move more into "real time". That for me would mean I would like to become more involved with the BDSM community by being of service or "volunteering" my time at the local BDSM club. It was a joke.. as she described herself as a newbie. I meant no harm in the use of that here. And I dont think she took offense. [:)]

tazzygirl -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 8:21:06 AM)
quote: I know it was a joke. I was just curious if there was a term for someone between being a "newbie" and someone who is "experienced". That's all. I never will consider myself "experienced". I learn something new everyday. There are people who are experienced in things I have never contemplated. There are things I maybe more experienced in than others. But, overall, is anyone truly "experienced" in everything? if they say yes...ahem

TNDommeK -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 9:39:13 AM)
I'm experienced in chocolates. Just saying. [:D]

tazzygirl -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 10:00:28 AM)
lol.. as I said.. we all may have an area or two of expertise. [;)]

goodgirlmary -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 10:46:51 AM)
No offense taken.

goodgirlmary -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 10:47:58 AM)
An area? Lol...watch this be the next thread areas of expertise.

mnottertail -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 10:56:12 AM)
My area of expertise is.............anyone? anyone? Bueller?

tazzygirl -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 11:41:00 AM)
Receiving blow jobs [:D] I am so smart!

kiwisub12 -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 1:43:28 PM)
lol

Focus50 -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 2:08:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 How does the members of the "Lifestyle" define someone who is a "newbie" and someone who has some limited experience? I don't pretend to claim I have decades of experience at this as I am only a few decades old. But I don't think I would consider myself a "newbie" at this point either. This "journey" didn't start for me last night. This really has been a "lifelong" process for me ever since I was a kid. I didn't know there a "name" for how I felt back then but thanks to the internet, I realized what I was experiencing wasn't anything new. At 31 years old though, I am getting away from the "fetish only fantasies" and trying to move more into "real time". That for me would mean I would like to become more involved with the BDSM community by being of service or "volunteering" my time at the local BDSM club. I take into account clues like "I'm new to this", or they're a teenager, or that they've just joined (new to CM) or they've been here awhile but only making their first posts (new to forums). But mostly the first, that they say they are - ie, it's not me doing the defining. In "Ask a Master" about 2 years ago, I still remember the 18yo with 8yrs experience as a Master starting a topic. It's possible I'm no stranger to newbie bashing, myself. But that's different; it must be ok if I'm indulging.... Of course, the entire thread got Mod nuked - and I don't mean locked. Focus.

Focus50 -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 2:17:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl I am so smart! AND with a propensity for butt-shot avatars. Don't need to be Freud to conclude "smart-arse". Ok, trying too hard, now. [sm=dunno.gif] Focus.

goodgirlmary -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 2:31:07 PM)
I think that focus may be right about the youngsters...some of the messages I get talk about school and I really dont care for that. Sheltered,sure.but Im a grown woman with a career.I think I present young somehow and do they think I am. But newbies generslly deserve their bashings. I did

TNDommeK -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 2:52:48 PM)
If I remember, I don't think you got bashed. You went the correct way of doing things. There's no hazing just bc your a newb.

goodgirlmary -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 3:50:35 PM)
I do not feel the haxing thing is legit. I got a welldeserved stern wakeup call, without which Id probably still be trying to figure out if my dom hated pink nailpolish or whatever. But again, a huge chunk of that was the handiwork of poor multiplayer planning, but again,I was wrong and thinking wrong.In private messaging though, there I got a bit of a bashing.That being said, how can you hold me accountable for something dumb I said three days ago..bahaha.I mean really, that is over a hundred messages ago...sheesh,Im here too much...but I was not bashed for newness,just doing something trashy,which I did do,so again,deserved it!

goodgirlmary -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 5:18:21 PM)
Although,id love it if people would stop rubbing my nose in mymistake once Ive accrpted the responsibiliy.im pretty good with being reprimanded, but at this point, I feel like its time to spank or move on. Grrrrrrrr.

tazzygirl -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 5:59:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl I am so smart! AND with a propensity for butt-shot avatars. Don't need to be Freud to conclude "smart-arse". Ok, trying too hard, now. [sm=dunno.gif] Focus. Way too hard, but I forgive you.... considering you are newly returned to your dominant status and all. [sm=cute.gif]

tazzygirl -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 6:02:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary I do not feel the haxing thing is legit. I got a welldeserved stern wakeup call, without which Id probably still be trying to figure out if my dom hated pink nailpolish or whatever. But again, a huge chunk of that was the handiwork of poor multiplayer planning, but again,I was wrong and thinking wrong.In private messaging though, there I got a bit of a bashing.That being said, how can you hold me accountable for something dumb I said three days ago..bahaha.I mean really, that is over a hundred messages ago...sheesh,Im here too much...but I was not bashed for newness,just doing something trashy,which I did do,so again,deserved it! You, my darling, will soon learn the love, the power the GLORY of the hide and block buttons on this side of the site, as well as the profile side of the site. Go forth! Explore! Enjoy! Relish the decadent splendor of your new found power!!!!

goodgirlmary -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 6:24:30 PM)
I love you.

tazzygirl -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 6:52:05 PM)
I bookmarked this page so, when you do get mad at me for disagreeing with you on some thread in the not too distant future, I can remind you of those words. [:D]

TNDommeK -> RE: Mob Mentality (6/17/2013 7:32:28 PM)
I think the good thing about us is, when we disagree, that's all it is. It's not like we hate each other. But then again, I could be wrong, I might be on hide from everyone and having convos with myself,lol.[;)]

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