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The cock pic - 6/26/2006 11:29:37 PM   
Beatmehrdr


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Status: offline 		OK, now this is going to be a strange post.  On my second email correspondence with a Domme she demanded a cock shot.  My first thought was "ugh"(it could have been "ick", but I think it was more of "ugh" moment).    I said I wouldn't, that it's a hard limit, and that anything like that should happen after we know each other a bit better(after an R/T meeting), and pretty much everything went downhill from there.  Now, I'm pretty sure of what you will say, but I'm going to ask the question anyway, hoping the answers will reinforce my what my gut instinct was in this regard.  You don't really want cock pics, do you?  
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RE: The cock pic - 6/26/2006 11:33:32 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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Status: offline 		If I had to venture a guess, I'd guess that this "Domme" probably had a cock "herself."

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RE: The cock pic - 6/26/2006 11:35:43 PM   
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RE: The cock pic - 6/26/2006 11:38:29 PM   
reticence


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Status: offline 		Woo Hoo  Loki

very very impressive

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RE: The cock pic - 6/26/2006 11:53:47 PM   
BuxomGoddess714


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RE: The cock pic - 6/26/2006 11:55:20 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
If I had to venture a guess, I'd guess that this "Domme" probably had a cock "herself."
Yes I would bet the same.    I'm not against receiving nude pictures from someone with whom I've established some sort of friendship, and plan to meet, but we would have to have become pretty familiar by that point.  
Generally speaking, I prefer any man who contacts me and wishing to gain my attention dressed... As a matter of fact, understated/conservative attire is much more of a turn on for me than scantily clad initially.   If we become friendly and familiar in terms of conversation and joking, and he offers scantily clad, I've been known to accept.    M

< Message edited by BlkTallFullfig -- 6/27/2006 12:25:08 AM >

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 12:07:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds more like a "cock and bull" story to me..lol..
moooooo--ooops that's a cow..not sure what a bull says..<g>

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

If I had to venture a guess, I'd guess that this "Domme" probably had a cock "herself."


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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 12:35:35 AM   
dominalisa


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Status: offline 		no way. I think all males should keep it in their pants. I agree that if you got a note from someone looking for a picture of your cock it most likely was from a man.

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 3:53:56 AM   
feastie


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Status: offline 		Definitely ixnay on the ixday ixpay.

If someone is askin...call Houston, there is a problem.

Course, how many of us females have been asked for a boob or crotch shot?

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 5:59:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		typically when i  ask for a cock shot, it is not so much about the penis pic, but to guage a reaction to a very personal request...
 
i find it to be a good barometer of willingness, shyness, penis issues, obediance, communication skillls (when they protest how do they protest? ect) and besides i love looking at penises....all shapes and forms.

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 6:16:48 AM   
spankmepink11


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Status: offline 		I'm not a Mistress, and although i would probably not make a  request  for a cock pic, i certainly have nothing against them.
To echo crouchingtigress...i just love to look at them,,,i also love to look at naked breasts.....and enjoy many other varieties of erotic art.  It's no different than  someone who likes to look at pictures of landscapes...portraits...etc.....just a preference.  (or a kink....depending on your point of view)

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 7:08:49 AM   
mistressrose10


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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

typically when i  ask for a cock shot, it is not so much about the penis pic, but to guage a reaction to a very personal request...
 
i find it to be a good barometer of willingness, shyness, penis issues, obediance, communication skillls (when they protest how do they protest? ect) and besides i love looking at penises....all shapes and forms.

Occasionally, I'll ask for one for these reasons as well.When it is offered though I find it presumptuous.The OP has every right to respectfully decline if he feels uncomfortable but should be careful not to seem defiant.Perhaps he could let the Domme know that he would be happy to acquiesce and please her in this manner when they know each other a little better and would be gratified if She would give him more time.

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 7:13:43 AM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		ehhhwwwwwwww.  I'd want to see your face, personally.  Now, some folks are really into the graphic pics of course, but on second email before r/t meeting?  I'd agree with the others here... it's probably a guy trolling.

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 8:16:45 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		I was discussing this with Neets the other day and for her she would ask for photos of the full body (Head to toes) naked full front and side view to get a better idea of the whole person... I'd do the same with a potential slave too.... 

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 8:47:01 AM   
Beatmehrdr


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ORIGINAL: mistressrose10

Occasionally, I'll ask for one for these reasons as well.When it is offered though I find it presumptuous.The OP has every right to respectfully decline if he feels uncomfortable but should be careful not to seem defiant.Perhaps he could let the Domme know that he would be happy to acquiesce and please her in this manner when they know each other a little better and would be gratified if She would give him more time.


Well, it was wayyyyy too soon for that kind of request.  She lived close by, and I offered to meet R/T, in a vanilla locale of her choosing first(we live, at most, 1 1/2 hours away from each other), and that kind of photo was a hard limit with someone I had just met online.  Of course, she said that there would be no meeting w/out a cock shot--so that was that.  Frankly, I'm a bit skittish about posting any pictures on the internet.  When I send a photo, it is strictly a vanilla photo.   I'm really not looking to start out meeting a Domme on my knees and naked first thing.  I want to get to know the woman behind the whip a bit more. I'm not looking for a serious relationship, but I'm not looking for a one night stand either and a cock shot tells me all she is interested in is the appendage.  I don't want to be known as a cheap date, you know?

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 8:49:50 AM   
Beatmehrdr


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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Send her this one.



Great!  Now I have something I can put in my profile for a picture of my cock, for one and all to see!

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 8:58:40 AM   
NINASHARP


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Status: offline 		I don't ask for the cock pics, they just send them to me so I think I'm gonna hang on to that pic Wulf! TY!

Now I have something I can send back to those who volunteer to send their real cock pics to me, and I think I will say something like, I'm impressed with yours but we will have to wait and see if it can beat this one in a cock fight!

Nina

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 9:14:21 AM   
Proprietrix


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Status: offline 		I consider the whole sharing of genital photos over the internet very tacky.
When someone states outright that they refuse to do it, I think of them as a classy person.
I really can't think of any reason why I would need, want, or request someone to send me a pic of their genitals. If I wanted to look at penises, there are a ton of websites I can visit without imposing on the privacy of someone I'm trying to establish a friendship with.

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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 9:18:13 AM   
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RE: The cock pic - 6/27/2006 9:19:37 AM   
wild1cfl


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Status: offline 		My wife and I would respect anymale submissive who does not send a picture of his genitalia to us,it is the last thing we want to see. For us it is more about service to us adn how willing the male submissive will be. I do not have a picture of my genitalia and my wife does not have any pictures of hers or her naked. We would rather see a list of the cleaning you are willing to do around our house.

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